Will prostate orgasm make me crave for sex with women somewhat less?

I've been an Aneros user for about 10 years now. I've been married 5. I'm finding, much to my concern, that I do indeed crave sex LESS than I crave a good Aneros session. Sex is good, but Aneros is awesome! I crave Aneros multiple times a week, while I only crave sex every couple of weeks. Not sure that this is very healthy for my sex life! Yes, my wife knows about my Aneros usage, although she has no clue about about just how often.

Hey @wooripsp ,

since it’s clear that the total amount of orgasmic sensation achievable is way less with sex than aneros masturbation

Actually, that's not true - quite the opposite. You are just not there yet.

will it somewhat lessen my urge to have sex with women, or maybe at least to have penetration?

IMHO that depends on the individual and can't be generalized. I personally can answer this questions with kind of a yes: I'm far less selfish regarding partnered sex, meaning that I don't feel the urge to be after my woman just to fullfill my needs (aka blow a load). I'm less needy so to say and that changes the dynamics indeed, but not to the worse.

Cheers, Unfug

thank you Unfug

since it's clear that the total amount of orgasmic sensation achievable is way less with sex than aneros masturbation

Actually, that's not true - quite the opposite. You are just not there yet.

but how come? are you talking about mental pleasure? or does she stimulate your prostate?

I definitely crave an Aneros session over regular sex. At age 63, married for 41 years, sex is too much of an effort now. My wife says she doesn't feel loved when we have scheduled sex, that she thinks I just want to have sex to prove to myself that I still can. So we have not closed the door in sex, but I now make no effort. I still love her as much as ever, though, and I know she loves me. We just don't express it with sex much anymore.

Hey @wooripsp ,

or does she stimulate your prostate?

At times, but that's not the point I'm trying to make - I meant good old intercourse.

but how come? are you talking about mental pleasure?

Hm.. kinda yes, but "mental pleasure" is such a vague term.

This whole journey is not about the prostate or even the aneros. It's about re-wiring, which is an universal mental skill. You can't just re-wire your prostate, you can re-wire any part of your body which is supplied with nerve-endings - that includes your nipples, the belly, the penis and even the brain. So long story short: it is possible to re-wire the penis and become multi-orgasmic / super-orgasmic with classical penile stimulation - including intercourse (Ta-Daaaa...).

The aneros is often called tantric traning wheels, because it helps achieving what tantrists have done for centuries w/o it. When you get the hang of it, you won't need the aneros anymore. You will likely still want to use it, but it won't be mandatory anymore. You may search the forum for threads about "a-less". So when you mastered a-less, you can start to integrate it when having sex with a partner. If your partner is understanding or even has developed the same tantric skills as you, a whole new world awaits you.

Cheers, Unfug

I wouldnt say it makes me want to have less sex with a woman, but now i have to balance sex with the aneros with sex with my wife. Sometimes ill have sex with the aneros then ill have sex with my wife. The sex with my wife is much more intense and multiorgasmic since being prostate orgasmic. The most intense sensation is when she pegs me with a dildo until i have intense orgasms then she leaves the cock in my ass as she rides me and we cum together, very intense experience.
the interesting thing i noticed is my sexual desires for other types of stimulation has increased. I have been having intense cravings to now be with a man, which has not happened before. The idea of having a mans penis in my mouth then my ass has been becoming more intense. So it just seems to have broadened my sexual desires to enjoy different kinds of sex. Hope this helps

I can confirm this. I mean, a lot of women use sex toys as well and often find it more pleasurable than sex. The biggest part of sex is the intimacy and warmth of another person. That's something you can't replace, but for the level of pleasure I would say Aneros ranks above sex.

I would say short answer is yes. Although I love intercourse with the wife on an emotional level. The aneros feels really good. I have yet to have a full blown Super O, but what I have had feels on par with intercourse. And I can tell you my need for intercourse has gone way down. So my guess is once you are able to cum with the aneros it will lessen the need for intercourse. The feeling from what I have been told is long long lasting and incredibly intense. Have talked to users on here who can orgasm almost endlessly for hours on end. How can intercourse compare? It can’t.