what to tell the urologist about how I love anal play?

Anyone out there know wha to expect? Im curious since Ive read prostate milking actually is a therapy for it.

Your doctor is probably going to ask you a series of questions about whatever problems you are having in an attempt to diagnose the cause of your discomfort. Antibiotics are ineffective for non-bacterial prostatitis and most other pharmaceuticals have side effects, some of which may be worse than the prostatitis itself. You can tell her you would like to try a holistic approach to resolving your current problem.

I would suggest you go into the exam and hand your doctor a copy of the Evaluation of an At-Home-Use Prostate Massage Device for Men with Lower Urinary Tract Symptoms. Ask her to read it over, it's only four pages, and discuss with her your desire to use such a device to treat your symptoms in lieu of trying a typical course of antibiotics or other pharmaceuticals. There's no real need to mention your predilection for anal play itself unless she specifically inquires about your anal erotic practices.
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Great article. Has there been any follow ups on this since 2009?

thanks for the replies. So I went to a walk in clinic today since sometimes if you go see a doctor they can get you in with a specialist sooner than if you scheduled on your own. Was totally lucky had a very nice girl the PA take care of me. She checked my prostate and of course I paid attention to what she did, she put her finger in and swirled it in circles maybe 5 times about, . lol she asked if I had any pain or sensitivity and Im like not even flinching acting totally normal and said no. Im pretty sure she expected me to react unpleasantly to it. I had a like 70% boner before it started haha it was funny since I was wearing gym shorts and there was a female chaperone a little younger and she came into the room with a smile on her face haha it was nice. So ya she said my prostate is sightly enlarged, gave me flomax and said I should see a urologist like I thought. So now going to do that. I did also love the lube that she used. It was so smooth going in and swirling her finger around. Found it on the web. its made by mckesson and its their lubricating jelly.

My question is how do you milk the prostate?

This is very interesting. About having this issue since you were 17. I had urinary and burning a couple of times in college. Went to the clinic and he diagnosed prostatitis and said I would likely deal with it my whole life. Forgot what he gave me to clear it up. Flared up maybe a couple more times but since maybe 23 never had a symptom again. First time I've read of someone else so young having a prostate issue...

Ya i just read the thing they sent me in email and it says my exam was suspicious for prostatitis.

My question is how do you milk the prostate?

This question gets asked regularly, here's my standard answer.
While the term prostate "massage” and prostate "milking” are often used interchangeably, I believe there is a distinct difference we can identify. Prostate “massage” is the act of stimulating/manipulating the prostate gland for pleasure or medical purposes, it may or may not lead to release of fluids or cause an orgasm. Prostate “milking” is the release of fluids as a direct result of prostate “massage”. The Aneros devices are prostate "massagers”, they may or may not be used as “milking” devices depending on the individuals involved.

Self “milking” with the Aneros via ‘hands free’ manipulation is difficult as one usually needs to be very relaxed for the ejaculatory ducts to open and allow the fluids to flow out of the prostate. The stronger, more vigorous, muscular contractions needed to effectively move the massager create a level of tension which is antithetical to the relaxation of the gland ducts. It is possible to train the various muscle groups to alternately relax and contract to accomplish a “milking” but it will take practice. It is unnecessary to employ strong muscle contractions with your Aneros use as a “massager” to generate orgasmic feelings, hence you can employ it for many hours without triggering a “milking” response.

'Milking' your prostate of seminal fluids can be learned. You can read a short paragraph about Prostate Milking in the “Your Body” chapter of the Aneros WIKI. You can read a longer, well written treatise on prostate milking technique and issues from Lady Lubyanka. There is also a well written blog by Andr. titled HOW TO MILK A BULL which gives step by step descriptions of the process.

For those of you interested in more information regarding prostate milking here are some links to articles/websites I've run across over the years which I found helpful in my learning.
1.) Self Prostate Milking for Health and Pleasure!
2.) Prostate Massage/Milking
The male chastity community has developed a more focused interest in milking techniques/variations due to their limitation of traditional ejaculatory orgasms the following links are from such sites.
3.) Male Chastity Milking (Three Fun Ways to Do It)
4.) Different Male Milking Techniques for More Control
5.) A Lazy Domme's Guide - Prostate Milking
It seems every year there are more new articles extolling the merits of prostate milking so I guess the tide of social taboos against this activity is slowly changing.

My own experience has revealed the conditions need to be 'right' to accomplish a true "milking" using your Aneros and without using your hand to manipulate the massager. Generally, you need to be highly aroused, your prostate needs to be full and engorged due to arousal (an erect penis from edging is helpful but not mandatory). You should be on the high excitement plateau just before reaching the PONR (Point of No Return), then using your sphincter and PC muscles start performing very strong, rhythmic, slow paced contractions with total relaxation between contractions. It is important to maintain your arousal level, through penile stimulation if necessary, but don't take yourself to the point of ejaculatory inevitability (PONR). This may take a long time and be somewhat strenuous but you will eventually get the ejaculatory ducts to open and the drip, drip, drip of prostatic fluid. The process may not yield much fluid nor be intensely pleasurable in relationship to the amount of energy expended, it can be done, but Aneros devices (regardless of model or size) may not be the best tools for this particular activity. The best tool I've found for performing a real self "milking" is the Njoy 'Pure Wand'. I suspect having a professional masseuse do this would be much more pleasant as you could really just relax into the pleasurable release to be had.
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Thanks for the great post! Really appreciate it. So i for sure know the pleasure associated with prostate massage since im into anal. But now I actually have a reason to need to milk myself wether or not that is pleasurable isnt the purpose for this necessarily. But hey its always welcomed of course ha.
Going to read the links posted. Thank you.