what next?

Spoofiedog,

Welcome to the Forum,

“Where do I go now?” , after our initial encounter with our toyfriend Aneros, I think most of us ask similar questions. The simple answer is : follow the pleasant feelings. Of course the whole journey is more complex than that, as you will find by reading the posts on this Forum.

Can you further explain “…but I hit a barrier when I have to go the bathroom and take the aneros out.” ? In order to provide any meaningful advice, I think Forum members will need a little more information to understand your concerns.

Good Vibes to You !

I first got turned on to anal play when I was in high school. I had heard or read somewhere that some people liked to insert a finger while masturbating, so I decided to try it. It did feel kind of good, but it was also uncomfortable (I had no clue about lube, and hadn't gotten over thinking it was gay). I'd try it again from time to time when I was feeling adventurous, and the more I learned about how to do it right, the more I enjoyed it.

I can relate...I've actually had the Helix for about a month. Although it was somewhat pleasurable at first, I didn't have any big fireworks until several weeks in. The first time it was bordering on orgasmic, I was on a road trip and had it in for about 2.5 hours. I had very intense feelings, leaked a lot of pre-cum and had a continually buzzing feeling centered in my prostate and radiating throughout my body for days.

I've been able to repeat this a couple times since.

I think it takes a while to condition the muscles of your anus and your prostate to get activated to the aneros. Once it happens...you'll know. Look for that buzzing feeling.