What else to use besides shea butter and coconut oil?

I recently used an advice of rumel here and made my own lube. It's honestly the best lube I've used, and it's super simple to make. I don't think I will ever use anything else

https://community.aneros.com/community/general-discussion/problem-with-syn-toys-and-lube/#post-112622

Have found that Aloe Vera gel works well! Smells great and is very soothing and cool!

I’m boring and just use ky jelly.

Pure virgin olive oil injected (no more than 3 to 4 cc) and a  layer of water based jelly to coat the massager.  Boring too I guess but it never dries up.

No fragrance here but for best results I found that melting shea and coconut together then freezing them in small ice cubes works best for me.  I pop about 3/4 of the size of an ice cube in my butt, allow to melt inside and coat the aneros in vaselene. I usually warm the toy in a warm cup of water first too. 

Every session is so different.  In my last session I set out to try and cum hands free after 2 weeks of no fap. I managed to hold feeling of being on the edge of cumming for a few minutes. It was so intense, I relaxed and focused on the feeling with deep breathing and the feeling spread throughout my whole body. Wow I wanted to scream with pleasure.  It was something else!  I couldnt cum hands free but the pre cum was slopping everywhere from my uncut cock like never before.  I relaxed and went again, I just couldn't hold back from touching myself anymore i had to cum so bad, using my heavy load of pre cum as lube I slowly rubbed the tip of my cock until I blew my bucket load of cum all over.  The sense of relief after and reflecting on the experience I just had was pure bliss

For oils, look up essential oils and homemade lubricant. A drop or two goes a very long way, and some are probably too harsh for mucosal membranes. I imagine that 1-2 drops essential oil per 100ml of carrier oil (mix at liquid temperature for coconut) would be effective.  @rumel have you heard of formulations of your famous jelly with essential oils?

for non oil based lube, try good clean love (nice vanilla smell) or go to brick and mortar sex shops that allow you to test lubes. I currently have a rose scented silicone lube that I enjoy the smell of, and I found it after smelling several brands of lube and spot testing them on my hand, à service Amazon can’t provide…

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 @rumel have you heard of formulations of your famous jelly with essential oils?

I have not read about or heard of formulations using any essential oils in personal lubricants such as Natural Jelly. While such oil additives may not be toxic when used in a diluted mixture, their concentrations of terpenes may be irritating or hyperallergenic, so caution is advised if trying to formulate one's own custom mix.

Additionally, there may be some association between tea tree and lavender oils in the development of gynecomastia, increasing the level of estrogen and decreasing the level of testosterone. IMHO, it would be better to use essential oils in the context of external aromatherapy utilizing a vaporizer rather than as an additive to one's lubricant.

Good Vibes to You!

For people that like nice-smelling lubricants...I think cocoa butter is too often overlooked in favor of coconut oil.  Cocoa butter is thicker and provides a slightly different experience.  And the smell is heaven.