My helix syn should be arriving Monday or Tuesday, I've never done anything like this and am curious as to what it feel like after inserted? Not meaning pleaser just the physical feeling of it being inside
Before inserting your Helix for the first time make sure your back passage is clean and your bladder empty. Be generous with lube both in your butt hole and on the helix itself. Insert the Helix slowly using gentle pressure and relaxing as much as you can to allow it to slide in. When about half way in you may experience a contraction of your sphincter muscles which will draw the Helix in to the hilt. At that point you will experience a feeling of fullness and gentle pressure on your prostate and, possibly, an urge to pee. Just relax and get used to these unfamiliar and initially slightly uncomfortable feelings which will soon pass as you become accustomed to the presence of the Helix inside you.
Thanks, I'm nervous but at the same time I can't wait! I'm very interested to see what contact with the prostate is like as I have had a finger up there before but to no avail I couldn't find anything 🙁
I just have the regular helix. At first it did feel rather strange but as I relaxed it became almost unnoticeable and kind of good to have it up there. Now that I've used it for a while it's as if just putting in the aneros instantly chills me out, like it's some kind of anal comforter.
@mypleasuerz87, everything the others said, and Just notice how it feels TO YOU. Take as much time as you need. Be open to anything. I don't know how it will feel to you. You will know. It may be subtle or obvious, familiar or new. Let us know what your experience is. I'm always excited for new users.
I agree with everyone above. I find after awhile i can hardly tell its even in there. just a gentle pressure on the prostate. It does take time to be able to appreciate the sensations as since they will be totally new you have to learn what they are.
When you first put it in, you'll feel a little excited at doing something new like that, but other than that initial excitement, you'll just feel a little fulness in your rectum, not really like you want to defecate or anything, it's really more of a little pressure in a spot that sometimes makes you feel you want to pee, even though you won't have to.
After you get rewired, when you put it in you'll feel a definite little tingle like you're starting to have that first little buildup to an orgasm. The important thing though once you put it in is to relax, like in lying on your back or side in bed for at least 10 minutes doing nothing but possibly some deep relaxed breathing. At that point you really won't feel like anything's inside. Then, for a newbie, I'd suggest the following. Gently pull in with your urinary sphincter like you'd be cutting off urine flow--don't pull in with your anus like holding back a bowel movement. And just keep gently pulling in with your urinary sphincter. While doing this, lightly tickle your nipples and see what kind of interesting feeling that produces deep in your pelvis.
It takes weeks to sometimes months, but you'll eventually be able to get orgasmic feelings deep in your pelvis to come by doing this and eventually they'll flow out into your penis like you're having the hottest, most intense orgasm in your life but nothing will come out. And that's where it gets really fun.
Above all, be patient though and savor the little new feelings you feel each session and don't get in a hurry. Too much anticipation and "trying" are what kill the little feelings you're trying to cultivate.
And I should add, don't worry if you've not been able to feel your prostate inside with your finger. It's nearly impossible for someone to get their hand and finger turned in an angle that would allow them to feel their own gland inside this way, especially if you don't have a sense of what you're trying to feel for.
Thanks for the insight, I'm hoping to have my first go this weekend :">
Remember, slowly slowly catchy monkey. And "No expectations". Also, it's all good, enjoy every moment
For me personally I stop "feeling" it inside myself after I have relaxed into a session...Of course when the pleasure starts rolling in I definitely know where it is coming from!
For me personally I stop "feeling" it inside myself after I have relaxed into a session...Of course when the pleasure starts rolling in I definitely know where it is coming from!
Same here. I don't even notice it after 5 minutes. I was thinking to myself last night during an a-less session that it feels exactly the same right now as it does when it is in.
@mypleasuerz87, well tell us! We all have our own experiences so it is good to share. It encourages us to help others too.
For me, starting off, it was literally just something up the ass. For the first few weeks it felt like I had something stuck up there, and wanted to take it out.
After a while, it felt neutral. It's okay inside, but no great feelings.
Nowadays it gets me going into orgasms quite quickly, and when having Anerosless orgasms there's this tinge of wanting the device in there.