Are there any things that one feels as the Super O (or a dry O) approaches?
For instance, what about these:
- heart rate increases considerably
- faintness feeling
- some muscles of the legs contracting
- the feeling of prostate becoming warm and even hot — like if it is heated
- pulsation feeling deep somewhere close to the prostate and the area around it
these are just my guesses from the reading - I never experienced a Super O yet, but sometimes I feel these listed above, and they are quite intense and make me feel as something very intense is coming. But... it never comes.
Are these indicators common? Are there any other ones?
@iphone7 I haven't had one in a while but what I remember right before they happened were intense and rapid "auto-contractions". I don't remember too much after that. I wouldn't over-analyze this; just enjoy your sessions as they come! You may be rewarded with a Super-O eventually!
I'm not sure what a Super-O feels like, so I'm not sure whether I've had one. I know my fingers couldn't do it, and the massager does much better. The feeling I get after a while (maybe 40 minutes to an hour in) is intense and much more prolonged, but I wouldn't say it's as intense as a penile orgasm, and people seem to describe something that is every bit as intense, but prolonged.
I've never had one in my 3.5 years of using Aneros, however I've read someone describing one such pre-SuperO feeling as a feeling of sortof pain/pressure in the prostate area.
I may have felt that a few times, sometimes before or after some itching feeling, but it was very "meh" and not that impressive.
A page worth reading about this is the Aneros Wiki: http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=The_Super-O
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I could have written your post. I get almost all of those, and wonder what comes next, if anything. They're all terribly pleasurable, but I still hope for that powder keg to ignite like so many talk about. I get that intense 'here it comes' thing, and then it kind of subsides. Regardless, I think the right approach is just to relax and enjoy the sensations, and let your body take over. Forcing a physiological reaction with something this subtle and nuanced doesn't seem to work for me. I do like mixing up positions, Kegels, breathing, etc, but only to encourage my responses, not push them. It seems like getting the utmost from the Aneroses is a bit of science and voodoo together. Keep experimenting and relaxing, I say, and see what happens. Let me know--we're neck and neck on this.
The only thing I remember that the SO's I have had have in common is that I got this different feeling in my perineum and a special tingling in my penis. Shortly after that feeling started the tool took over and I was just along for the ride. I still don't know if it is just a arousal thing or the p tab finding my sweet spot but I could definitely feel something trigger the onset of the SO.
To me, a dry O feels closest to a regular O but without the fountain spurting, hence the term dry O. The feelings are very similar and the contractions are about the same, but because there's no ejaculation, the dry O can repeat in cycles every few minutes until I get tired or too sore to continue. Sometimes, the dry O contractions can be so intense that it does feel like a jack-hammer, as some have described it. Personally I don't find that comfortable and tend to end the session when the intense contractions continue.
As for a Super O, it feels like a heightened level of arousal similar to that moment of inevitability before a regular O, but it just continues on. Some have described it as floating on calm seas, or having waves of pleasure wash over you. That's too metaphorical for me. For those that are into edging and can keep it up for hours without coming, that feeling of intense arousal is on the way to a super O. When I arrive at the super O, it does seem that time slows down and what feels like five minutes of bliss could be much longer in real time. I can see how some feel like they're having out-of-body experiences during a super O, but I remain grounded and just enjoy the ride.
when I getting near super O
-start to feel tightness inside my anal/rectum, due to prostate swelling up
-prostate and anus become sensitive to stimulation/touch... could be described as my prostate starting to open up its door and inviting pleasures going in
-any stimulation done on the prostate becomes more and more pleasurable
-pleasure building up
-when approaching 95% to orgasm, muscles start to contract involuntarily. funny/ugly expressions on my face etc..
-orgasm!