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04/11/2021 4:32 pm
I am really appreciating the forum and the things it has to offer. It is interesting because with very few exceptions, it seems everyone has a very hard time to put into words what their experiences are, and what their journey has been. For me even, because I have not journaled along the way, but just enjoyed the journey, it is becoming increasingly difficult to remember when a certain feeling happened that I had never felt before.
It is somewhat like describing how you feel seeing the Grand Canyon or an ocean in person for the first time. Feelings are very hard to put into words. Also, trying to describe just “what you are doing and when” to maybe help someone else “get there” can be dreadfully difficult as well when it has to be tied to feelings you cannot necessarily describe, at least in a way the hearer can relate to what they are feeling, and could not describe themselves.
At first I found this frustrating. I am a step by step how do I make this recipe kind of guy. I do not cook something by feel...well, wait. That is who I am a lot. But being honest, I have started getting more comfortable with saying, “But would this maybe taste better done x or y way?” Sure.
My point is that I think the journey just started to become more fun and I became relaxed with what IS. If I COULD give anyone new advice, well, it would not really be advice. I would plead with them to believe it gets better and by all means, buy more than one Aneros at some point...and and and...be patient and don’t stop.
I say this because I started with the Helix Syn. I had some really good feelings and at times thought I was heading somewhere. I tried things talked about in the forum. But do you know what I really did? I believed.
There is power in belief. Get enough people to believe in a thing and talk openly about it and that becomes evidence of something in and of itself. Don’t believe that, look at religion. So many people believing a thing of any sort and testifying to it requires me as a logical thinker to examine closely to see if people have radically changed due to their supposed belief.
Not trying to start a religious debate or discussion, but just trying to point out that, for me, enough men talking openly about how they have been changed forever is not unlike seeing the effects of a religious experience. It is genuine, if only just to YOU. Given that, I had hope and did not try it once and toss it.
So, does that mean I had my first Super? Don’t know. Don’t care. What I had, I can tell you, if it was NOT a Super, well...I could be happy just having that and never having a Super.
See what I mean? I am content. Now, someone who has Supers every week can comment and say, that could change if you have one! Fair enough. But you are missing the point, and it is a big one. To truly be content and patient and to stay with this process I had to come to a point of belief and true contentment with what I feel now and what I am enjoying now. While it is a journey, to be looking down the road with binoculars or hitting the gas on this journey to arrive quicker to the “True” destination is a hindrance to exploring what I feel right now.
Speaking of that, I did buy the Helix Syn, as I said. But later I got the Helix MGX. Funny thing, was starting to feel a little more and more out of the first one, put off using the second. One reason for this was they looked so much the same that I doubted I would feel anything different. Boy was I wrong. Not really sure why, but everything suddenly changed, and I started feeling things I had not yet felt. The experience was impossible to describe well. I did not want it to end. At some point I had to decide to stop and allow for a next time.
What I know is that it was great. If no Super ever happened, if they did not really exist...I would still be doing this for that feeling. It would be enough. It was sort of an awakening.
So, if you are reading this as a new user or a potential user, consider my words and my logic. I am not giving you methods or how I got there, maybe one day I can put it into words. But I am telling you that you should consider believing in something you cannot see or even feel yet yourself. See the evidence of all of the testimony given by those who have gone before. Note the similarities in their stories and how great what they describe sound to you.
If you believe and try, you will eventually “taste and see” for yourself. There is no way this many men talk openly about sticking something up there and having a good experience unless it is true. There is no way this many men use this product and talk about it, unless it is doing it for them.
Start with belief. Enjoy the journey. Try multiple versions for the one that might be just right for you. You may just have a religious experience! 🙂
04/11/2021 5:02 pm
So, does that mean I had my first Super? Don’t know. Don’t care. What I had, I can tell you, if it was NOT a Super, well...I could be happy just having that and never having a Super.
See what I mean? I am content. Now, someone who has Supers every week can comment and say, that could change if you have one! Fair enough. But you are missing the point, and it is a big one. To truly be content and patient and to stay with this process I had to come to a point of belief and true contentment with what I feel now and what I am enjoying now. While it is a journey, to be looking down the road with binoculars or hitting the gas on this journey to arrive quicker to the “True” destination is a hindrance to exploring what I feel right now.
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What I know is that it was great. If no Super ever happened, if they did not really exist...I would still be doing this for that feeling. It would be enough. It was sort of an awakening.
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If you believe and try, you will eventually “taste and see” for yourself. There is no way this many men talk openly about sticking something up there and having a good experience unless it is true. There is no way this many men use this product and talk about it, unless it is doing it for them.
@kman1989, thank you for your post! Well said. The forum provides great advice and member's experiences shared are just a guide to help new members try different approaches in their journey.
I'm in the same boat; I know I never had the big one and if I never do, I'll still be extremely happy with the pleasures I get every day. It's been said many times, we're lucky to be amongs the very low percentage of human males to have discovered and harvested the 'unknown pleasures' available to all.
Good vibes.
04/11/2021 10:16 pm
If I COULD give anyone new advice, well, it would not really be advice. I would plead with them to believe it gets better and by all means, buy more than one Aneros at some point...and and and...be patient and don’t stop.
I say this because I started with the Helix Syn. I had some really good feelings and at times thought I was heading somewhere. I tried things talked about in the forum. But do you know what I really did? I believed.
There is power in belief.
A few things.
Your first statement is really interesting and not touched on by a lot of users. I personally started off with the original Helix. It was the standard model recommended to new users. I had a few sensations over about a year's time. I gave up. I decided that maybe the Helix wasn't for me. I went out and bought the original Eupho, Progasm, and Peridise set. I was able to get a bit of different results from each, but it wasn't until years later I noticed each model has a different way of working. I always leaned toward the Progasm, but would often change them in and out. I never did get much better results.
I now have a modified Progasm that I have been using exclusively for the past few weeks. I have seen quite a bit of difference. Having different models and seeing which one you respond best to works well.
I also thought for the longest time that Aneros doesn't work. If you look at my early threads, I was getting not much for the money I was spending. I know some of the shift had to do with actually getting results, but another part has to do with overall mindset. I was in a different place in my life. Now I am more easily able to let go and see what happens.
04/11/2021 11:50 pm
Very interesting post... welcome to the forum!
04/11/2021 11:57 pm
So, does that mean I had my first Super? Don’t know. Don’t care. What I had, I can tell you, if it was NOT a Super, well...I could be happy just having that and never having a Super.
I totally agree with you.
Labels become less important with progress.
Start with belief. Enjoy the journey. Try multiple versions for the one that might be just right for you. You may just have a religious experience!
Absolutely. Every step of this journey is worthwhile. Even if there are sometimes stagnations. And, indeed, there is a spiritual side to our quest. It's a kind of sexual meditation.
04/12/2021 7:45 am
It is interesting because with very few exceptions, it seems everyone has a very hard time to put into words what their experiences are, and what their journey has been.
Never truer words spoken ha ha It’s incredibly difficult,it make sense in each guys own head,but being read,might seem totally weird haha
I would plead with them to believe it gets better and by all means, buy more than one Aneros at some point...and and and...be patient and don’t stop.
Absolutely! Seems to ramp up in stages to. Trying to empty ones mind of expectation is perhaps the hardest task of all.
So, does that mean I had my first Super? Don’t know. Don’t care. What I had, I can tell you, if it was NOT a Super, well...I could be happy just having that and never having a Super.
Take everything as a win.
Start with belief. Enjoy the journey. Try multiple versions for the one that might be just right for you.
Great post.
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