I was using a vibrating toy for a month or so and it never got me anywhere. Started to think the problem was the battery didn't last long enough, and the aneros toys might be the answer (and I've since learned that for me, massive stimulation or hard clenched kegels don't work to get things started). After a day or two using the aneros I was using subtle kegels and my body was shaking and I no longer had to actively perform kegels (autopilot), which I recognize as a precursor to hands free orgasms (I've pulled them off a few times by focusing on the sensations at the tip of my penis, but this method is so challenging and prone to failure even when it seems like I'm gonna blow for sure, and I was hoping the prostate method would be easier to replicate reliably). Well it really was feeling like it was building towards an orgasm and this was definitely all prostate pleasure spikes building and building...but a competing sensation of having to pee was also building (which was legit, my bladder wasn't empty). It kinda sucks because my bladder wasn't *that* full, but I think when the prostate swells that just puts more pressure on the bladder? Anyway it screwed up the whole thing! Sunava...
At the same time, I wonder if having a certain level of urine in the bladder pushes the prostate a bit and makes it easier to hit the prostate well and be more successful. Maybe I shoulda stuck it out and not bailed to go pee. I wasn't able to get back to where I was after I drained my bladder. If the orgasm sensation was greater than the urge to pee, maybe it would have overidden that and worked out? What do you guys think?
@handsfree59 I used to worry about 'losing' a session due to a pee break, but if all other conditions are great (you're comfortable, you can get your mind back to the pleasure), you can go relieve yourself and pick up where you left off. It's awesome. I have to pee in almost all my long sessions and I used to end them because I assumed I could not get the arousal level back. After reading several reports from guys who take breaks even to change aneros models, rest assured you can get those orgasmic waves back, AND THEN SOME!!!
Happy Riding!!!
PS If you ride with your bladder full to bursting, as full as you can possibly stand it, I have found you can get eye-rolling pleasure. So, wait until you can't wait anymore, if you wish
@handsfree59 I've had to "interrupt" a session perhaps once or twice this way (but most of my sessions now are less than an hour). What I do before I start a session to make sure my bladder is empty, is "go" and then a minute or two later, "go" again! At my age (66) I find that when I do this once (or twice) more is helpful. But, like @RoJakSYN, I have gotten-back to the session with not much lost. Enjoy your sessions!
@handsfree59 yah man having to pee during a session, especially when it starts getting that good, is a bit of a pain. But honestly, my best and biggest orgasms happen between my last time peeing and the point where I know I have to pee immediately. It's in between there. I also know I have to pee if I can't feel it (like the pressure in my bladder) when the toy doesn't seem to go in me as deep as normal, and wants to stay partly outside of me on its own. That's my bladder taking up too much room and then I have to go urinate.
I honestly think that as my bladder fills up, it moves my prostate down and a bit forward towards my anus, and contact between it and the Aneros is better and I have much fuller, more long lasting orgasms.
It is kind of hard for me to just lay back down immediately after peeing and get back into it. I usually do have orgasms again, but my session feels a bit slowed down. If I have the time, I'll wait like 10 or 15 minutes before I start up again with Aneros play. That seems to make my body want to get back to having the toy in me really bad again, and then sessions are amazing! Try to take a break and let everything feel like it's back to normal inside you and give a go. One thing I always do now is pee like 15 minutes before I start my session, and then I try to pee again like 5 minutes before. That really makes sure I'm totally empty and can ride longer before I might have to pee again. Depends on how much water/fluid I'm drinking that day too.
I have thought about, but have not done the follow as yet. Have a full pee, then 10 minutes later, try peeing again. Then slip on an adult diaper. Then have a really long session and if I feel the pee sensation just relax knowing that if anything does release, it will be taken care of.
In my early stages with the aneros, i would get the sensation to pee also so i would bring a large bowl to my session and when needed would just roll over to the bowl and go and keep on with the session, worked out very well, no loss of sexual energy
I've had this many times too. Sometimes, I would know I couldn't have to pee. Then I figured out that as the prostate swells in excitement that I get that same feeling. I just let go into it one night even though my bladder was possibly full and the medium orgasm came. (I haven't achieved a Super-O yet.) Afterward, I did have to go pee but not urgently as I had thought.
At times a session is interrupted by something and I can still get back to the state I left but it takes a while at times.