I would love to post a video of this, when (and if) I ever get the courage to ask of course, same goes for my aneros videos, once I'm successful and not feeling sad at having a poor session... I don't think that would make for good viewing! (Plus I seem to be one of the only people where my device doesn't move hardly at all, I rarely get shakes and I almost never moan, as there more oft than not, no pleasure, as it stands of course)
*double post*
I understand @Trei but how many videos out there of people having sex, masturbating, using sex toys, threesomes, group sex etc that are amateur, which I might add show their faces, exist? I doubt they have or will have any issues. But I can appreciate it for the notion of being perhaps cautious, I would probably be myself, however one day I want to make my own videos with my partner and see what happens 🙂
I get that it doesn't appeal to some people and yes, some caution makes sense (ie for me it would probably be no faces etc, just to be super safe)
It's one thing being brave enough to make a video and another to upload said video for all to see, if you have any body/confidence issues I can see it being a big problem. It's why I was trying to reassure deva that there are ways to do so that it minimises said issues,and try to tell some of you guys to grow up! 😉
@inhope well obviously I'm smart enough to know that no matter where you post a vid it can be taken off the internet and saved. screen capture, downloading etc...once its out there its out there. The way you put it as oh well if you post it here it wont get out BULLSHIT. It will be saved to somebodies computer in 2 seconds flat. I also have a VERY successful career...but bottom line it has to do more with your personality that creeped me out, not the porn. You post here like its crack...about the same thing over and over. You dont take advice, you tell rumel to go fuck himself. I think you need an intervention. Yes i may come off as arrogant, however I will not play down my personality to suit anybody. I dont do insecurity, I dont suggest others do. Which brings up the if you ever get the courage...what are you running from??? You had courage enough to tell me to put my vid up...now if you are talking about how I talked to @Gilman you should go and read his posts and how he jumped down my throat because he couldnt jump down a man's throat. Classic woman beater tendencies, read before you type. Does your fiancee even know you use aneros??? Maybe thats your super o key...I reallly would love for you to take a months break from here and explore that, then report back instead of crying about your dud sessions. Oh and furthermore if you dont want to read my thought process dont, dont ever tell me a no would suffice, you dont post one word posts...dont relegate me to them.
@Trei I was going to say the same thing he needs to let his fiancee post a vid.
If anybody thinks I'm being mean...sorry, I advocate tough love.
@inhope I agree. like i said, if it where me I’d post a vid without any worries but deva being the only aneros girl to post a vid would make her vid just as popular as Goldenboy UK's super-O vid. Factor in aneros's growing popularity and many people are likely to see it, it may even go viral. I just don't want to see anyone make a regrettable mistake is all, but in the end deva is a grown women and is more than capable of making her own decisions and she has chosen, the safe route.
Now to @Trei @Canacan @didymus @isvara @Pommie thanks for being gentlemen I was leaning towards no in the beginning. However I'm open to thought, and I'm open to consideration. I would do it if I felt the format and purpose would be right. At this time it is not.
Oh and not to say the other guys are cads...its just they put some thought and careful consideration behind their posts.
I thought this might be be your response Deva, when I actually tried to be helpful as opposed to others here. I'm sorry but your advice you have woven into your response I am unable to take seriously, not when it is said with such aggressive veracity, but I thank you for your input nonetheless.
Also don't worry, you don't come across as mean at all (ok perhaps a teeny bit :-)), nor have I taken offence (this time) quite the opposite in fact. Like I said, no hard feelings. I was, if you go back and read, only trying to helpful and to reassure you that you could make videos and not have problems, yes it will get distributed I'm sure but is that a big problem for you? (I totally understand if it is)
If you choose to make a video then fair play to you, I respect that a great deal. If not then I, like others here totally understand. I just hope you can see that there are ways of doing it that don't 'comprise' you or your safety/position/career.
@inhope did you read the VERY successful career part? obviously it is...my body is precious to me. Maybe lots of people you know dont care who sees them naked or in the throws of orgasm. That is a personal and vulnerable place for me. Do you like it when people see your asshole quivering and hear the associated noises you may or may not make??? I need you to also understand that I am a woman...we approach sex differently. Most guys will get naked where ever and dont care, locker rooms gyms etc...thats not something women do let alone film it. When you see streakers...arent they usually men??? A woman's body is cherished and lusted after quite a bit more. So I need you to think before you "help".
I did indeed read that part Deva, see my last paragraph. As I said I understand if it's something you don't want to do. I would like you to understand I wasn't being a pervert or trying to 'creep you out' unlike others here but rather trying to assuage any potential fears/concerns.
I respect that you care about that and that it's not a straight forward thing to just do on a whim. Sexual individuality is a totally private and intimate act to some, I see it is for you and I understand this completely.
It's ok if you want to direct your anger to me/at me, but I want to reiterate that I was only trying to be constructive. (If not in my own sessions/threads at least in others!)
@devajones: I would not do it, personally. There is not that much to be gained for the community other than a titilating video. You have a career. There are risks. I vote NO.
Now learning more about Deva and her responses I quite agree @mdad it is definelty not something she should not do, my view has changed on this a good deal, career being a very big point in this as well (and the other considerations)
When/if you're ready to do this Deva I commend you and hope you can find a way to do it that enables you to not damage you in any way.
@devajones I believe you, do you think I type as honestly as I do in my threads if i thought I cared one jot what people thought of me as a person? Perhaps cut down on the excessive punctuation on some of your responses and caps lock on some wording too, it can come across as typing with 'anger', even if you're not actually feeling that at all.
Also unlike Gilman, I do believe you're woman, just after this little back and forth with you.
Thanks Deva, great that you're a part of this community (really needs more understanding woman around here)
Deva honey, cut back on your testosterone dosage it is making you sound pretty aggressive. Not ladylike at all.
I give it to you just like you like it good and rough. You arent attracted to ladies so why should I behave like one?
@inhope I need you to not read what I type as anger. You are adding color to it. I'm typing it flat, I'm not angry with you, you dont have the power to make me angry, nobody here does. Its the internet...
I wish I could think like this. I get way too mad over trolls and mean spirited posts!
Three Billy Goats Gruff and guess who.......
Oh I'm definitely a cad, or at least a reformed cad lol.
If I offended you Deva, which I'm presuming I haven't, then I sincerely apologise. This wasn't my intention, in fact there was no intent on my above most. Merely that I'm curious to see said toys being used by a member of the fairer sex.
For both reasons of research, in that I want to get my wife an EVI but I'm afraid it will get used once and packed away. I've read reviews that say it's too big etc.
Now would I find the vids/pics arousing? Absolutely, but you already know I'm a horndog lol.
I think this thread has hit a new low. I find it hard to accept that folk on the journey to the Super O could sink so low. I appreciate the modifying influence, wisdom and knowledge that @devajones contributes to our forum. I just find it hard that we can sink to such polarization. @inhope if you are wanting to sabotage the Aneros forum okay, if not just show a little more respect and courtesy, many of you posts will have a very unhelpful effect on any new member seeking guidance, encouragement and wisdom for their journey. Think of the collateral effect you are having.
Isvara, a great response, and so much better than your usual attempts at personal attacks (like a thread you started recently want to think about what collateral effect that has here?)
I am astonished that in an attempt to help (naively) has resulted in this, I suggest you re read my responses here, there are others that were deliberately and openly rude and perverse.
I post honestly and accurately, that's what the aneros has done to me, physically and emotionally and I'm never going to lie about my experiences. Without the bad how are we able to decern the good? My posts have not done a thing to new members at all, I see more and more success stories now than I ever have.
Heck even I've posted success stories!, I'm in the middle of a dry spell (that I actually didn't know was one until recently) so yeah my mood is low, but others here have picked me up hugely. One of those that picked me up is a newbie as well! How ironic.
That's enough thread derailing for one day, I don't need to reiterate what has already been said a hundred times here, you want to chat with me privately, like i said last time isvara, pm me. I'm more than happy to talk to you, I know you have issue with me and looking for an opportunity to chime in with others, that's cool, exercising that is cool. However best to talk it over with me one on one and get it sorted for good. I'm here, waiting to talk if you're up for it. Cheers.
@cj187 lol you and I have been friends for a while you KNOW I know you are NO cad..lol ok reformed I'll buy that. You did not offend me you never do. However your sincere apology does show what a gentleman you are...damn people from the UK first the accent, then chivalry what will I do with you(box you up and do some cloning comes to mind)??? Do me a favor and give @inhope a lesson on how to talk to a woman will you? He seems to not understand he and I are not close therefore he should tread lightly...because I have NO clue of his intentions especially after he continuously bogs down this forum with post after post and numerous people have noticed how they all parallel each other.
Also if ever in the future I am able to produce a video that covers that I definitely will, I get the research aspect, I also get how it could be arousing as a secondary effect. for you @cj187 I'll do an extensive Evi review. I'll do a session tonight, and do my damnedest to get it up tomorrow. I think that would be helpful to others who are on the fence about Evi, and the unisex products for their wives or significant others.
@inhope...i type how I want. Its part of my personality. If i were typing a college essay then it would be perfect grammar and punctuation. See unlike most here I can tell who is writing just by the WAY that they type, if they post a lot i dont even read the names i just know. Caps puts emphasis on the word not anger...yea I could italicize but i'm lazy its easier to just keep the fingers on the keys not the mouse. Overall I guess I wasnt conveying what I meant well. What I meant by you creeped me out was...you get a lot of advice here. You use none of it, you dont reply to questions, you are very political in your answers (meaning you are like a politician when they are asked something and dance around the answer), you continue to ask the same thing over and over, it just comes across like you arent too bright. Now maybe there is a language barrier...is english your native language??? (lets see if he answers that he has not answered the many other questions i asked...so i doubt it)
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@devajones you rock! Your blog post is waaay more valuable than any vid, as it tells us what goes on in your mind.
Just to let you know that your input is highly valued on this forum by me as it provides me with valuable information I can use to include my wife on this amazing Aneros journey.
Thank you
@feelnmyway thank you so much I really appreciate your compliment. i dont take them lightly. I'll do more of them. I have one with Evi coming up. then another session with Evi and Tempo so those should be interesting. I am so glad you are including your wife, some of the other guys can take some tips from you.
I also want to take time to welcome you to the forum I see you joined just a few days ago. Anything you may need help with just let me know...you are also more than welcome.
While there is always the erotic titillation factor of watching videos of women in the throes of orgasm I seriously doubt there is much (if any) informational value to be derived from such videos. I think this applies equally to videos of males using their Aneros devices, erotically titillating perhaps, but I have yet to see one that provides useful information to a newbie or even an intermediate Aneros user. Worse yet, some of these videos may mislead the new user into thinking these are the types of experiences s/he may expect in their own journey, which is precisely why I don't encourage people to view those. I have, in my introductory message to new viewers, provided links to two professionally produced videos which are instructional in nature and do have good information for the novice user but they don't provide the same type of erotic action you may find elsewhere.
@devajones, I concur with @Canacan, @Tei, @isvara, @didymus, @mdad, @feelnmyway & @Pommie, unless you have a latent exhibitionist streak that you would love to exercise, I see no particular value in your creating a video. However, with that being said, I do think there there is a niche opporunity for someone to produce an instructional video for women on the usage of the 'EVI', 'Tempo' & 'Peridise' Aneros models, as far as I know, no such video documentary exists and it could be an additional method to encourage women to be participants on this Forum.
Good Vibes to You !
That's great deva, look forward to reading it. But most of all have fun.