Using a vibrator with Aneros

How long have you been anerosing? Have you read the wikis? http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Main_Page. The vibrator will feel good but won't help with dry orgasms. You could edge with your penis while anerosing and have orgasms as you've discovered but may not help rewire you. Erections may come and go during a session. It took me some months to get a start, I don't know what your journey will be like, follow the wikis and use your intuition. This is a very personal project for each man. Best wishes!

Thanks for the feedback. I know that I am probably just a little impatient despite the fact that everything is probably normal. I have been playing on and off for about a year. Maybe 15 -20 sessions in total. Like many out there, it's hard to get some alone time when the house is empty. The reason why I ask is that I was hoping that the vibes would help wake things up. The vibes feel great, but is it the correct feeling? I was wondering if anyone has used both successfully.

I can only speak from what I've ready and listened to from the many great, and advanced, users here. Using Penile stimulation and using vibrators isn't going to really help with rewiring. The idea of Aneros is hands free. Work your contractions, let your body be the guide. Be patient - the session should be about exploring and feeling. If your only goal is to race to an orgasm then it would be better served using your hand and knocking one out. Really set some time aside. Say... 3 sessions a week 30 minutes to an Hour per session. Go slow, enjoy the moments.

There are folks here that can offer great advice, but in my meager experience, "Steady wins the race" (and even slow)

Best of luck!

@Johnny_Rott
Only your MIND can wake things up. Beware of contraction exercises, hypno tracks, drugs, and other external stimuli. IMO your journey will never expand, as you will be forever hobbled by the crutch of outside stimuli (should you become entrenched in that particular camp). You'll have CONSISTENT results by relying on your Mind and nothing else.

Vibrators are bad. Period.

You wont go anywhere with aneros if you dont relax, learn to sense subtle sensations and learn to let go (both physically and mentally). Trust me, however close you think you may be from this, you are not. What you call relaxed is not even half as relaxed as you could be. You are barely sctratching the surface. Go deep and learn to always go deeper and deeper. This is where aneros might reward you.

Vibration business is just like the tobacco industry.

I appreciate the input. I am still "work in progress" like many out there. I have another question, I have seen some videos where the individual puts in the device and they seem to reach a "Super-O" in a couple of minutes. Are these people some kind of Tantric Gurus or are they so sensitised that they can achieve the higher consciousness in a minute or two?

Finally, I seem to get conflicting information regarding the relaxing part. Should I try to work towards getting to a sexually heightened state when meditating? Or is the relaxation the key element not the sexual part. As I said earlier, I often find that during sessions, I am often flaccid when experimenting with the device.

Too many questions at once and too many possible (and conflicting) answers.

First hint : don't watch videos and don't expect to compare with what is either fake, a different path or simply a different body. Experiences don't compare.

Second hint : experiment with what your heart tells you. Try indulging in your ways as far as you can and also try going the opposite direction. This way you will learn.

I personally think extremely relaxed, very calm and focused with a very open mind and a lot of patience is the most sucessful state... Not super horny and fantasizing weird kinks. I also think flaccid penis is actually helpful. But both this are my experiences. Yours might be entirely different. Dont follow others.

@Johnny_Rot you are very advanturous, and I totally recommend to try new things. I have found out that, if done correctly, a vibrator + aneros can get to super O much faster than using aneros alone.
Choosing a vibrator
Don't ask me why, but I do have 30+ vibrators at home. Most don't produce good results. the only vibrators I found working are the ones that don't "vibrate". vibration creates an intense feeling quickly, but fades away soon. either pulse or rotations work very well. the two that worked for me, one is a quiet rabbit that has a rotating tip, the other one is called gyrator, it has 10 functions.
Using the vibrator
For rabbit, always use the lowest power setting, with no vibration, rotation only. for gyrator, find the most soft but fast pulse function, thus no vibration at all.
(assume laid on back, and aneros in place) First try hold the vib with both legs comfortably, and stick the tip against a spot under the balls, near the aneros tab. the tip side point up slightly. try ignore the vib and breath slowly. (focus on breathing and nothing else)
after a while, some great feeling builds up, and up, but won't tip over the magic spot. then turn the angel of the vib so that the tip points down slightly, switch to a pulse that is stronger but slower. start holding PC muscle a little. Big O should happen very quickly. in case of rabbit, also point the tip down, but turn onto a higher power level.

Good Luck!

@imadeit, by gyrator would you also include a pulsator like the stronic zwei from fun factory? It does not vibrate but pulses back in forth.

@ineverknew never got one, though it would be interesting. I tend to avoid anything above 100$ for just a vib. I did try a thrusting rabbit a few times ($90), which works well, but it doesn't provide better feeling than a $50 rotating rabbit, or a $20 gyrator. I think the key here is to have something that indirectly move the aneros, but not in a constant pattern. gyrator helps create a "penetration feeling" inside, while a rotating rabbit helps create a "rotating feeling" inside. I guess the pulsator would do the same thing as gyrator, but stronger. if any of the stronic gets under 100, i might try one.

@imadeit, oh no dont buy the stronic zwei. Its huge! I tried it once and said forget it, but I'm interested in trying it with an aneros like you said. Who knows might create some interesting feelings. What is this gyrator you have? can you provide a link?

@ineverknew
This is what I got:
http://www.drugstore.com/california-exotic-novelties-silicone-gyration-sensations--gyrating-10-function-rippler-orange/qxp529060
I think they got a whole bunch of different versions with the same 10-function. these different pulses are what make a big difference, in my opinion. Sort of like the third function on vice, but much wider choices of frequences. Two of the frequencies really work for me, while the rest of them don't do much.
A lot of the toys that show up on the market during last a few years, like Lelo or Stronic went very far into the "high end" with very sexy designs, but when it comes to functionalities, these ugly old school ones still have more to offer.