Hello everyone, just signed up a minute ago and want to learn about this prostate massage thing. I find it very interesting and exciting and bought a progasm black ice last week plus I bought some other vibrating massager today. From what I'm reading everyone is saying lots of lube so I bought lube. It's only been a week for the black ice and I used it 3 or 4 times so far, I read the instructions very thoroughly and did what it said, plus read what you all have been trying. Being a beginner I know I have a long way to go but it's gonna fun doing it. So far no luck! I tried several different positions from lying on my left side on the couch with my left leg straight and my right leg bent to my chest to on my back with left leg straight and my right leg bent and raised resting on top of couch to on my back with both legs bent spread in a v then I tried out of curiosity on my knees with butt in the air. All of these positions I was doing those muscle contractions at points to where I held it in by my pelvis until I couldn't hold anymore getting a tingling sneezy feeling and wanting to pee then let go and lost the feeling. I kept doing this until my muscles couldn't hold it anymore, this went on for an hour then just laid there with it in and not doing anything for another half hour and nothing was happening, while doing all of this I took it out to put more lube then reinserted it in. I can't seem to find my prostate or even feel if it's touching at all. I do move my bowels and make sure I'm clean and use water based lube. I used the vibrating massager when I got home with better lube and went until the batteries gave, I did get a slight tingling feeling but now I'm thinking I should go smaller, this massager might be too big too soon, I started off with some anal toys first from a small one to a midsize with a suction cup to a normal size dildo with a suction cup and been doing this for a few weeks now unfortunately this doesn't get me off, I'm more of a visulist, I put in a video to help me finish, after that I found out about prostate massage so I went back to the store and found aneros products. In time I should get better at these and hopefully get this big O everyone is experiencing, I can't wait until mine lands on me. Happy hunting!
Ok after my first post I tried it again with my progasm black ice, I had it in for a half hour then fell asleep for an hour and nothing so I got cleaned up and went to bed. Last night I used a medium dildo with a suction cup in the shower and used soap as lube to cleanse me out, I felt clean and refreshed back there then went to the couch and tried again, this time as I lay on my side with other leg bent up as I was watching some clips about pegging. I started to get hard and noticed my involuntary contractions, I was relaxed and hard and could feel something then I lost it, it felt pretty good as I stared at the ceiling glossy eyed. I couldn't get it back, it was getting late so I ejaculated from watching clips about pegging with the progasm still in me and I came pretty good just to finish the night. Tonight I just took my shower and used a normal size dildo with a suction cup and soap as lube and cleansed again. Gonna try my black ice again!
Last night had same results, I laid there for over an hour with the black ice and still nothing. I might need to go smaller!
I don't have enough time but the wife is going to a birthday party on Saturday, I'll have the place to myself for a few hours and maybe with some luck I can get some results. I'm thinking about this all the time now!
It's been a couple of days since last time I tried my progasm, I decided to take a break from it. Resting my anus, I might have been trying to hard and will try again after my anus cools down.
Thanks for these shares.
I also baught a Progasm Black Ice recently, actually yesterday, and tried it. I am very new with anal play and was quite surprised how pleasant ot was inserting it after lubing it up with water based lube after an enema and and and...
I felt an awesome sensation inside my pelvis. It was almost like a numbing tickling feeling which resulted in a massive erection! But after about one minute it faded completely and I could not feel anything.
I then manipulated the Aneros with my hand resulting in some weird feelings and effects and after an hour finished it off with my usual "masturbation".
I felt really good afterwards though. But no O's from the Aneros just yet.
Im also trying to figure this thing out.
All of the best!
@Clown ... think an earlier post got lost so here's a possibility and suggestion. Unless it was a small and shallow douche/rinse, that enema may have wandered down after a couple of contractions and destroyed the quality of your water-based lube, killing the session. If you are going to enema, hold off lubing up and inserting until you are very sure that you are clear.
Remember that Progasm can cause some earthquake-like vibes which can trigger colon action.