my journey is still ongoing and have yet to reach the elusive super-o, though l have experienced some milestones but am still struggling.
l have however been curious, lve read the k-tab is supposed to sit on the tailbone area but lve been wondering where exactly.. generally l just insert and let it place itself but lve been wondering should it be towards the front, on top or towards the back, lve yet to really though lm wondering if it should be slightly back further but l guess lm overthinking the placement at times (its not something l think about while in session though).
lm still also confused about contractions, l have no issue doing the wag motion which l believe is the PC muscle (holding them can be a pain, l do try to do kegels though find it hard to remember to do them) and l rectal are a push type but anal ones l find hard to define, mostly they come as a pull in though l have heard them as a hold fart type motion, but lve seen so many descriptions it is kinda hard to work out if lm doing the right motions especially when most things lve read kind of talk about usage as a spiritual journey, l have the mindset and can quiet my mind but l just cant wrap my head around it without some form of simpler explanation, dont get me wrong l know the dos and donts its that some explanations throw me for a loop and leave me understanding less than when l came here to look for some general explanations.
lve read the k-tab is supposed to sit on the tailbone area but lve been wondering where exactly. ...l guess lm overthinking the placement at times
Yeah I think you are overthinking it, don't worry about it, if it makes contact at all, it will provide the subtle stimulation it was intended to provide. It is not something that is an absolute must to induce orgasmic states.
lm still also confused about contractions, l have no issue doing the wag motion which l believe is the PC muscle (holding them can be a pain, l do try to do kegels though find it hard to remember to do them)... lve seen so many descriptions it is kinda hard to work out if lm doing the right motions... ...its that some explanations throw me for a loop and leave me understanding less than when l came here to look for some general explanations.
When you say holding them "...can be a pain..." I hope you don't mean they are actually painful, if they are you should see a doctor about this. Nothing involved with Aneros use should ever be painful. If your meaning is that holding a contraction is difficult then you are correct but this is a proven technique to induce involuntary contractions which may lead into prostate orgasms and Super-O's.
There are indeed numerous, seemingly contradictory, contraction techniques one may employ to induce prostate orgasms, it is best to think of them in terms of efficiency and not 'right or wrong'. The trick is to keep experimenting with them to find a routine which yields some pleasurable sensations, then refine it further through practice. The basic rule of thumb here is 'follow the pleasure' and be patient with yourself.
Good Vibes to You!
no pain, would have sounded better if l said it was a pain in the arse lmao but in all honesty its been hard to tell what is good or not, yeah lve had some interesting feelings and passed some milestones but lve never really experienced anything past a few waves that just disappear and maybe some twitching which l asked about before (kinda feels like its around the cheeks when it happens) but they were written off as something else when l asked before.
I've never known anything but the trident syn serries, and I've really been taking alot on board since joining the forum that all roads lead to the promised land but its a hard start when you don't even know what the road looks like.
Definately think you are over thinking the K tab, I honestly don't notice it. I'm about 12 months into the journey so take my experiences for a grain of salt but if I can help. This is my biggest road blocks and brick walls leading up to the first super O.
I started with the basics, do nothing slowly tense and relax, and eventually I learned to build upto the twitchy zone it sat there for ages, had some good feelings and nice P waves but nothing ground breaking, I even discovered how to drop straight into this like yep this is good im going right here, and there I stayed for ages in a rutt. Once I took a reset and went slower, and I mean slower like 1-2 mins to tense to 20% and then back down over the same time, then go a little bit further next cycle. I started to drop into longer larger softer waves and I discovered some of the best waves but a different sensation again were on the slow release or the way back down. This really started to complete the circuit and playing around on the edge of just below the rumbling and twitching fatigue zone then dropping all the way back to 0% is where I discovered what to feel for. Once other muscle groups start to tingle and join it soon builds and build but then dissappear but then come back a bit later soon building into super O currents and then afterwards your left like wtf just happened.
Then it takes about a months to kill the preexpecations all over again and discover the headspace on how to do it again. (On the rediscovery though I found yeh it's about starting slow)
Stick at it your on the right road. It might help dropping a few gears into low range. When you start to feel something, instead of clinging too it and grabbing tighter try releasing it slowly, as it drops away slowly re-engage to bring it back.
Happy hunting.
l have however been curious, lve read the k-tab is supposed to sit on the tailbone area but lve been wondering where exactly
Forget the k-tab,it isn’t terribly important. Get on with focusing on your pelvic floor and what’s happening there.
lm still also confused about contractions, l have no issue doing the wag motion which l believe is the PC muscle (holding them can be a pain, l do try to do kegels though find it hard to remember to do them) and l rectal are a push type but anal ones l find hard to define, mostly they come as a pull in though l have heard them as a hold fart type motion, but lve seen so many descriptions it is kinda hard to work out if lm doing the right motions
I’ve long suspected if sometimes guys just don’t do the contractions properly,there are many descriptions,perspectives and methods on the forum. You have to play about with all until you unlock the puzzle.
An anal Kegel doesn’t just involve you external sphincter,but internal aswell. Best I can describe it,is a sucking inish feeling travelling parallel to your ass crack on the inside.
A pc contraction whilst pulling in or down from below the surface of the penis base also has a pushing or bearing down feeling a little below in the perineum area accompanied by a squeeze.
Do you use anchored tension? Do you slightly contract both on and hold them and when releasing contractions try to not let them release past the anchored tension point?
Learning to contract them together,separately and involuntarily is one of the must haves. It’s likely frustration creeping in that’s holding you back. If you have the mindset locked down,the majority of the work is done.
As time goes by,this stuff needs done in the background so the brain can let go and orgasm can have free reign.
I never felt the K-tab.
The P-tab, on the other hand, seemed more important to me. It doesn't happen to me every session, but sometimes the P-tab gives me a lot of pleasure by initiating a feedback loop with the internal stimulation of the prostate which increases my pleasure.
What I have noticed is that insertion is very important for me. I let the massager place itself in the right place by not touching it anymore as soon as it is inserted at about two thirds. My rectum sucks it in automatically, and the massager places itself exactly in the right spot by itself.
When I first started, I made the mistake of pushing the massager all the way in manually.
@morexp - Same here. The P-tab plays a significant role at the perineum in conjuction with the sweet-spot. I like how the wiki goes into detail about the sweet-spot. However, I had trouble with that early on & said to myself that it's there & not to be overly concerned with precise location. The general vicinity was/is good enough for me.
Ditto on insertion & letting it be, instead of forcing it in too far.