DISCLAIMER: this technique is not a path to prostate orgasms, and might even hinder those who are still re-wiring. I recommend it to people who have already re-wired. But then again, do what makes you feel good...
Since my re-wiring I have gotten into blending my prostate pleasure with penile based pleasure. I recently I have discovered how to have penile dry orgasms through both masturbation and during couple play. They are very strong, and I can have about 5-10 of them in a row before I am ready to stop or focus on another part of my or my partner’s body. It is actually hard to say they are “penile” because the more I am aware of my prostate, the more I am aware that it is within that the pleasure is resonating, whether I am having a dry orgasm or ejaculating. Still, these orgasms are triggered by and controlled by penile stimulation.
The technique I have developed comes from a couple decades of edging while masturbating and with partners, plus my newfound ability to have prostate orgasms and the accompanying disassociation of orgasms from ejaculation and even from the entire genital region (nipple orgasms, other body part orgasms, and mind orgasms). I also sometimes (rarely) practice male squirting, which is a post-orgasmic torture technique that requires serious relaxation and willpower.
Recently I read this article, recommended by @rumel , which made me realize what is happening anatomically during penile stimulation. It gave me an idea of the physiological sequence of events that takes place for an orgasm to occur, and how to recognize them through physical sensations. It also gave me a clear idea of what muscles to relax to avoid ejaculation.
http://www.articlesfactory.com/artic...e-orgasms.html
I watched these videos as recommended by @Unfug . They gave me an idea of how to mentally separate the muscles down there (and how many there really are).
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P3BBAMWm2Eo
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q0Ax3rLFc6M
The advantages of penile based non-ejaculatory orgasms:
--—Masturbation is an easy way to get very aroused very quickly. Thus I can go from being unaroused to having orgasms in about 5 minutes (though it can happen much faster or slower, depending).
-—-No mess and hassle of inserting a toy (I douche before aneros sessions so my sessions are not quickies)
-—-I can cum multiple times without losing my libido because there is no refractory period
-—-for me these orgasms often come in chains, like many little peaks from a very high plateau
--—If I am with a partner, they love seeing me orgasm over and over, often while I rub up against them, or being able to make me orgasm by just gently stroking me.
--It is compatible with edging and SR, and leads to a general aroused state throughout the day.
--ummmm... it feels really good 🙂
The “disadvantages” (they are only disadvantages relative to prostate orgasms or ejaculatory orgasms):
--—they are rather short compared some of the minute long pure prostate orgasms, and they don’t get me sleepy, which is fine with me and probably with most men on this forum
--—when solo, there is a certain amount of arm tension and concentration to be accounted for, so there is less of the letting go associated with pure prostate orgasms
--—sometimes I leak semen, which is a slight setback for semen retention, but whatevs. It is usually a partial load.
--—for the last couple months this has been a distraction from the pure prostate orgasm journey I was on. But I just started playing with my prostate again recently and I haven't lost any progress I made.
How I do it solo:
1. I use the “continuous orgasm” method of masturbating (see link above), by edging (9/10) and keeping my pc muscles relaxed to avoid ejaculation. This is tricky because my PC muscles tend to want to go on autopilot and start pumping, both to build arousal and to bring me to orgasm. I try to fight that.
2. Then after I’ve built up enough arousal, I get myself up to 9.5/10 and do one of the following to throw myself over the edge into an orgasm without ejaculation, while continuing to stroke myself all the while (I never stop stroking). Using my awareness of pc muscles, I am able to get to the point of orgasm, without tipping over into ejaculation. I do one of the following things:
--—I clench my buttocks or thighs or other surrounding muscles, while keeping he PCs relaxed.
--—I start clenching my PC muscles as if I were playing with a hands free toy, and the control of those muscles gives me enough pleasure to come while preventing ejaculation.
--—I massage my perineum rather forcefully to stimulate my prostate from the outside
3. Once I start having orgasms, I seem to be able to easily avoid ejaculatory orgasms. However, several orgasms in, I sometimes ejaculate a partial load WITHOUT an associated orgasm. I think it is because I overload my system, but I can’t say for sure.
4. EDIT: Once at the point of no return I transfer my hand to the base of my penis and continue masturbating. This allows me to have several orgasms without triggering ejaculation.
How I do it with a partner:
I just slowly rub my hard cock against my partners skin, with or without lube depending on their skin type. I can’t say why but this works really quickly. I sometimes start having orgasms within a few seconds. I imagine it has to do with high levels of arousal associated with being intimate with someone.
Result:
When I do it solo it results in several wonderful but rather short (5-10 second) orgasms that are as strong as any aneros induced orgasm but with a little less mystery because of the penile contact and general control needed. They are much stronger than what the guy describes in the continuous orgasm article (I think he says it is half the sensation of a normal orgasm, but continuous. I have full dry orgasms, from that continuous blissful plateau...). With a partner I get really strong orgasms, and when I do it with an aneros toy in with a partner, it plunges me into drawn out super-os.
Thoughts:
I realize that my explanation is rather vague, but it took me a long time to figure out how to do this, and it is very personal and thus difficult to explain in minute detail. Also, these orgasms are based on my mind's definition of an orgasm.
I have masturbated for as long as I can remember, and have distinct memories of it, starting at 5/6 years old. I even have memories of having (dry) multiple orgasms when I was a child, with no break between them. I would play a game while masturbating. In my mind, every consecutive orgasm brought me up a floor in an imaginary building. Once I got to the 4th floor! I also used to rub myself against beds, pillows, and sleeping bags, not unlike what I do now, but now I rub myself against partners skin (often their soft tummy). In any case, the sensation I feel now with these orgasms in particular is akin to the sensation I felt when I had orgasms as a kid. IF my memory serves me right...
@divine_oblivion thank you for this lengthy detailed description and guide to reaching new levels of pleasure. This looks like a great technique to at least explore. I remember my very first ‘wet’ dream, which wasn’t wet at all but a dream that ended in one of the purest, most pleasurable orgasms I’ve ever enjoyed. I think I was 8 or so. And when I was 15 I masturbated for the first time (late starter).
I didn’t really know what I was doing so for two hours or more I slowly stroked myself with just my fingertips which led to wave after wave of dry body orgasms that I still find it hard to match in intensity and pleasure. The surprise, wonder and fear of those new explosions of pleasure are part of what makes the mystery of aneros so fun.
If I can feel that type of orgasm again through your technique, I am very excited!
Hey @divine_oblivion ,
Nice post on this topic and a very good summary! Thank you for sharing your insights! I can relate to most of the things you mentioned, though my approach is a little bit different.
Have you seen this thread already?
(I share it whenever this topic comes up.)
Cheers, Unfug
@divine_oblivion Thanks for this! I’m going to try your technique but am also curious about your squirting post orgasm too. Have read elsewhere about that and have only tried before orgasm with no success... I suppose it’s time to try post orgasm. Any insights are appreciated! I wrote you a message privately too.
thanks!!
I have achieved this by accident using a dildo however i dont feel its possible for some, the orgasm muscles are STRONG as heck and for me, without a device would be 100% impossible, the feeling oforgasms for me is super intense and always has been and the muscles are totally not possible to stop not even a remotely.
[USER="58120"]Neveryman[/USER] Let me know how it goes! It took me a long time and many failed results before figuring out how to make it work. I think the connection to my childhood orgasms is most felt while rubbing up against partners, as that mimics how I frequently masturbated as a child (but with a pillow/bed/stuffed animal etc.)...
@Unfug Yes I have read that thread and a thread within it, but forgot about it. So much reading on this site that I tend to pore over threads and then forget about them completely.
@Keepitcummin here is a good link for learning the male squirting technique.
It is more in the realm of post orgasmic torture than good feeling sexual stuff. I learned how to do it 3 years ago, then did it maybe 2-4 times alone. Since I have only done it with partners who were curious to see a man squirt. They love it. Especially because my partners are women who squirt themselves, so it is exciting for them to see me do the same. The sensation for me (and for others from what I've read) is pleasure on the border of pain. It creates an orgasm which feels hollow to me, whatever that means...
@The_Fury do you edge? If so you could try isolating the muscles that pump when you are on the edge and relaxing those muscles...?
@divine_oblivion Thx much appreciate the tips!
@gnawdol thank you for those descriptions! I will try that on a woman's anus next chance I get. That sounds sublime. For now I have rubbed against their thighs and tummies to provoke dry orgasms. But I think I will have to try every inch of their body, if they are consenting, as well as mutual masturbation. Every time I cum pressing up against a partner, the reaction is the same... they are suddenly ultra-horny and ask me if I am capable of fucking. I think I would be as well if a woman ground her pussy against me to multiple orgasms in a matter of seconds/minutes. In any case, good thing this avoids the refractory period, because I prefer obliging them to show my gratitude, instead of just falling asleep 🙂
I wish I could experience that precum release. I never had precum before, and while edging in this way I am able to "milk" my precum glands rather quickly. A few drops of the thin clear precum drip. Then if I keep going, actual cum (I understand it is vague, but the thicker, sticky and globulous stuff) will leak out, not accompanied by an orgasm. Sometimes, after the cum-- and just sometimes-- I have that thick cloudy fluid that isn't (globular) cum or precum leak out. Maybe that is prostatic fluid?? No idea...
Hey @gnawdol ,
One of the ways that we experimented involved me spooning her while we were both nude and my cock was erect. This allowed me to nestle my erection between her ass cheeks and press the underside of my cock against her anus to trigger super o's. The soft “kiss” of her anus on the underside of my cock head inflamed me and (still does). Doing this I go directly into hard super o’s one minute after I dock with her anus. I have been doing this technique for 14 years now. Beyond the sensation on my penis it also allows me to reach around her as I mmo and masturbate her. This is one of our favorite sex acts, more than f u c king. She is capable of multiple orgasms. We routinely go an hour of straight orgasms for both of us simultaneously doing this.
That was an incredibly hot read - thank you for sharing!
An unimaginably arousing read! I’ve always followed the don’t touch my penis advice too, this is the first I’ve read of anyone having success while stimulating their penis during Aneros/prostate focused fun. Very VERY good to know that it’s possible, thank you very much for posting!
Awesome thread with so much great information.
I really enjoyed reading "The Multiorgasmic Man" and have learned much from that book.
This morning I treated myself to four dry orgasms. The first two were with a Helix in place, and the last two while using a silicone cock ring.
Great way to start the day. 😀