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Welcome SGR hope you learn a lot!!! I will leave the answering of the question to the Pros. Good luck!!!

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Is a prostate orgasm something that maynot have an ejaculatory release, but does it have a peak and then a descension? How do I know if I have had a mini o or if I just felt nice.

An ejaculatory release and an orgasm are 2 separate things. One of the purposes of the Aneros is to help you to learn the difference and learn how to have multiple orgasms without ejaculation.

The orgasm does have a peak but with the Aneros you can often 'build up' from one orgasm to the next with just a small 'valley' in between.

Just enjoy feeling nice and the mini-o's will come naturally after a few sessions. The main thing for me is to not 'try' to create an orgasm but to just enjoy the journey and learn to let my body tell my mind what it wants instead of using my mind to 'demand' a particular result from my body.

Just relax and enjoy the journey!

Is a prostate orgasm something that maynot have an ejaculatory release, but does it have a peak and then a descension? How do I know if I have had a mini o or if I just felt nice.

An ejaculatory release and an orgasm are 2 separate things. One of the purposes of the Aneros is to help you to learn the difference and learn how to have multiple orgasms without ejaculation.

The orgasm does have a peak but with the Aneros you can often 'build up' from one orgasm to the next with just a small 'valley' in between.

Just enjoy feeling nice and the mini-o's will come naturally after a few sessions. The main thing for me is to not 'try' to create an orgasm but to just enjoy the journey and learn to let my body tell my mind what it wants instead of using my mind to 'demand' a particular result from my body.

Just relax and enjoy the journey!

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Good thoughts and advice for competitive Type-A's like me. Regrettably, I've been viewing ejaculation an an "achievement" since my late teens or early 20s. Missed a lot of good stuff along the road I've been on.

I'm just out of session #3 on this journey. That session was interesting. Into the second hour following insertion, I was into a string of rapid rhythmic voluntary contractions. Paused to relax and I noted a couple of involuntary anal pulses followed by several seconds of eyelid and forehead twitching. Then a short set of anal contractions yielded a few seconds of thigh twitching.

Might be moving toward the on-ramp!

I've had a Helix in for most intercourse since Valentine's day but left it out last night to make a better assessment of what my glans-induced orgasm really is without any p-spot stim. Found that I'd probably stopped 'savoring' orgasm years ago. It's now very short in time span, perhaps about one second at most then I release into ejaculation. We managed 'seconds' for me (thanks in-part to modern chemistry) and I got a second look. At best the orgasmic response was perhaps two seconds in length.

Pretty bad when we start taking the joy of sex for granted. Got a lot of savoring to do!

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I had a wonderful session. I was on my back with my legs bent. I decided to drop any expectations. I just began breathing, then the helix took over. I began anally quivering and had some nice involuntaries. The feelings were amazing. I felt like something was building but never went over an edge. It teased me. I look forward to the feeling of a new orgasm. Will I recognize them as mini o's?

For me the orgasm feels much like the feeling of ejaculating but I do not ejaculate any sperm. And as soon as that orgasm is over I am ready for another and can usually have orgasms for about as long as I want to.

My wife appreciates it too because I can stay on as long as she wants and every time I have an orgasm she has one also. And I haven't even tried intercourse with the Aneros in yet. Once I had learned to separate orgasm from ejaculation I am in a different world.

I am 63 and just learned the difference. If I had known what I know now when I was in my 20's and 30's I probably would not have lived to see 40!!!!!!

Getting back from Mexico today. I can't wait to get the helix in I yearn for the fullness and the involuntaries