Three months on and still no real joy - finding the prostate

I located my prostate by putting a glove on my hand, lubing up and reaching in there with a finger ( actually three different fingers one after the other). Very informative. I was thinking that the Helix was not contacting my prostate but I can feel where the prostate is now, and the Helix is right in the ballpark. WHen I run my finger across the anal wall over the prostate, I can feel the prostate as a sort of fluffy mass on the anterior wall, but that's the sensation in my finger. I can't feel anything inside my prostate.

On another thread ("support's response") what I'm being told is that I've not found the right frame of mind yet, I'm not relaxed enough. I intend to try manipulating my state of mind by dropping into the "hypnogogic" state (think that's the word). THat's the state of mind where you're free associating before you drop off to sleep (alpha brainwaves). I've read in another post somewhere that worked for somebody.

Cheers
Bonaparte

Hi Trebor

check the diagrams on this site http://www.malegspot.com/whyitworks.php

Also try a google for "prostate" and "diagram" - plenty of good stuff out there, no need to fly blind.

Don't forget the prostate isn't floating around in your ass, it's actually behind the anterior (front) wall of your rectum so you can't actually touch it. Really sorry if that's teaching you to suck eggs but I do think from posts I have read that some guys might be confused by this point - it is alien territory for most of us after all.

If you ever did G spot massage for a woman you will feel her G spot around 2ish inches inside her along the top wall of the vagina, basically behind her clitoris. It's widely thought (known) to be a vestigal prostate gland and will usually swell with stimulation. If you identify with this from experience and imagine trying the same move from a finger inserted into her anus then you're on the right track.

Now back to your own body.

If you push forwards as soon as you clear your anal canal you can also feel the bulb of your penis and, I have found, you can stimulate cowpers gland which secretes pre-seminal fluid. Now progress slowly upwards on that front wall. By the time you're up to your fingers middle joint your prostate should be right in front of you but of course behind a wall of skin.

Please post if this helps, I hope it does but take your time and enjoy 🙂