I feel like I'm on the verge of a super-O, having never achieved one before. I can't go farther than what I feel right now for some reason, and was wondering if anyone could talk me through this stage.
if you're right on the verge, marijuana can help you cross the chasm. this may or may not be legal, depending on your jurisdiction...
Don't try to go "there" just relax as much as you possibly can and enjoy exactly where you are in the present.
I can appreciate your situation, since I have the same problem for the most part. However last night I had somewhat of a breakthrough. It's true. Just relax. Seriously. Relax, and enjoy what's happening. I did that, and things just started feeling better and better. Suddenly things felt REALLY GOOD and my heart rate jumped up. Unfortunately, I then kinda got scared, and things went downhill....lol. But now I'm hopeful for the next try!