Think I had a breakthrough

Yes mate, i just hope you can appreciate (perhaps you were there yourself once upon a time?) where i get so close to orgasm, wonderful feelings and my body aches with desire to orgasm and yet won't 'fall over into orgasm', which makes me VERY frustrated afterwards and then try NOT masturbating either. Its not easy.... and cold showers don't seem to work much

I've read many a post from guys who start out with little success, they take an extended break, many months in some cases, and then come back with a roar and a bang! You may be someone like that dude! I just know that as long as you feel frustrated you're not likely to make huge progress! It's all up to you!

TG

I don't feel frustrated, my body feels frustrated, like if you were about to cum normally, then denied it, over and over and over. Biologically, how would your body feel? imagine it if you can.

Mentally I'm very happy indeed 🙂

Ok buddy, I'm not here to argue with you, two statements ago you said "...which makes me VERY frustrated afterwards..." so make up your mind! I only know what you tell me, and I'll believe whatever you tell me about your experience, but if you say you're frustrated, but you deny it later, I'd say you need to get a grip!

Sexual tension can be friendly toward this journey because of the pent up energy which you can use to focus on your prostate!

I feel like I'm chasing you in circles trying to help, but there is some kind of language barrier or something preventing the message from connecting with your experience!

I'm done with this thread!

TG

@inhope, the prostate can be a fickle bitch, for sure. You can have everything going the right way and it still will not cooperate. Many guys have more pleasureable sessions then orgasmic ones, keep that in mind. Its not one of those things where you do A, then B, and add a little C, then boom, orgasm. It just doesnt work that way. But definitely keep doing what your doing and eventually things will click. When will this happen? Who knows. The re-wiring takes place at different paces for everyone.

@Theme_Gasm perhaps you're not understanding because of the connotation people have of me on these forums, not that i care what others think of me one jot.

I said nothing of being unhappy or displeased with my progress (hence my saying mentally I'm fine), i deny nothing i think its just a question of semantics. All i stated was that i get close to orgasm and cannot seem to step over the threshold, which makes my body frustrated (you have experienced sexual frustration yes, but your body, at least in my experience, aches to orgasm more than the 'mind' ever does. That throbbing prostate, the heat, physical tension etc.) can you imagine what this is like? if not then yes, please be 'done with this thread'. No offense meant, thought we were just having a discussion....

@ineverknew thanks dude, i will and i will report back when i notice a change 🙂 thanks for your response.

i get close to orgasm and cannot seem to step over the thresholdIMO you don't so much step over it, as float very slowly over it without realising it.
The times I've experienced actual orgasms, I wasn't pushing anything or trying to get over an edge. My mind was completely blank and I was just enjoying what I was feeling at the time. Lost in a thoughtless trance. My thoughts only come back after some orgasm action is already happening. I probably screw it up at that point distracting myself with "Oh wow this is great!" and pouring analysis on what I'm feeling.
That's me anyway.