Things get easier and varieties of O

Great post anerosmith. A lot of good information but the one that made me smile was:

"What a fantastic awakening I have had!"

No truer words were spoken, at least as far as I am concerned.

All the best.

Hey anerosmith, glad you have results and enjoying this =)

I want to suggest you try a session without aneros, do same things but without the toy see how your body responds. I found that when I started doing sessions without aneros I was able to focus on different things.

Let us know if it works for you.

Im being pleasantly surprised each time at the variety of sensations and experiences each session gives.

Hey Anerosmith, a few notes from my experience that I've meant to mention that your post brings up as we continue our Aneros experience:

1) I find it weird how I can have really extreme orgasmic experiences but I am amazed at how quickly the memory fades. I really have a hard time remembering the next day, but even later the same day the orgasm. I tend to only notice it as it happens. I mean I can remember that it was OMG, or extreme, or ok, etc but hard to remember the sensations or details.

2) As I progress in my Aneros use I find it gets much easier to start and have orgasms. Originally I had to think a lot about my contractions and making progress, but as my body gets used to the feeling and the orgasmic cycle now when I put the Aneros in it knows what to do with it to the point it is largely somewhat involuntary. This is particularly true with the Peridise.

3) You mention the good tidings and great way you feel after a session, but let me add that generally I am the same way, but I've noticed after really long sessions where I orgasmed continuously for perhaps hours that afterward I am often weak, and very cranky. Sometimes even somewhat mean to those in the household. I think this is because I have used up all the dopamine or seratonin in my brain - or at least low levels. Anyone else notice this after really big orgasmic sessions?

Echo those feelings
I too can feel cranky but overall I feel empathetic to others especially women and their needs for romance and intimacy versus the quick fix we guys usually seek with sex. I have become more romantic with my wife.
I guess a super o is like a dream so u really don't remember the specifics-except how long it lasted
Very perceptive observation.
Overall the high I get is a feel good one:the longest session I've had is 5 hours so I don't know what its like with the longer ones.
And I agree about the peridise and how easier it is with each session. What a tool.
Don't know if I'm comfortable with trying to get high without ith:I'm afraid my ability to have normal sex with my wife would suffer
Any advice?
Cheers

Hi All

anerosmith and OH!!, it seems you both may be getting into the Calm Seas Orgasms "above and beyond" Super-Os, which is really getting into the full separation of orgasmic energetics from the ejaculatory response/desire. The mood variations you describe can be directly linked to this too. But you can learn to understand and feel these energies and how they can be balanced, encouraged and enhanced. This takes you into some of both Tantra and Tao, but it can be simpler and more direct than it may seem at first.

anerosmith said: "I'm afraid my ability to have normal sex with my wife would suffer
Any advice?" For any couple IMHO, these male explorations and advances offer the couple an astounding vast new range of sexual, and more significantly orgasmic energetics, sharing and energizing. Please see the Tantra & Bio-Electric Sex post and the Beyond Words... post in my blog Ecstatic Energies and the Art of Living. http://www.aneros.com/displayblog.php?id=3544

Forget the phrase "Normal Sex". You are in the process of becoming profoundly more attuned and in harmony with your wives guys! Dr. von Urban's Bio-Electric Sex works miracles in that regard! And a quickie for mrs. a and I now does not include "missionary position seeding", but a wonderful love knot (Scissors position) that includes her giving me a Super-O into Super-T eruption of volcanic/geological scale, while penile-vaginal massage of her G-spot is enhanced by me massaging her vaginal wall/rectal wall interface from that side and the huge energy flows that result!!!... You'll find new possibilities and new definitions the more you pursue the orgasmic consequences of the territories to which your solo practices are bringing you...

It's a wonderful world.

all the very best

artform

Yeah Artform as you mention it I have been starting to bring my wife into it more. My new orgasmic abilities have generated a hunger for more awareness of the possibilities. I have skimmed Tantra and tried yab yum with her as well as manipulated her sacred spot. It's some good sexual stuff, and seems it should bring us together more. I have Marrena's 'The Orgasmic Diet' book and will give it to her soon so that we can grow hopefully together.