from what i have been reading on here it appears that so many of you are trying too hard. what you must remember is that the aneros is a simple device and our sexuality is simple. do not over intellectualize the experience. let your body flow with the device. let your body release the pleasure. it will do so.
I know this from experience. You are right. You just have to tell yourself that you are going to take as much time as you need without interruption and just enjoy the pleasure and where it takes you and not contemplate on when you are getting the Super O. Like an ejaculatory orgasm, when it comes to a Super O, if you let the Aneros continue to stimulate you and don't stop it's the law of averages that the Super O will find you. Yes, I think many guys when they first get the Aneros think they can just force it to happen over night. Sorry, don't work that way. Wish it did though.