The search for multiple orgasms

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Posted by: @justarandomguy

I really envy women to be able to do that, and im willing to put every effort needed, to be able to multiple orgasm like women do.

That may be quite a common male thought but envy of other's abilities has its own traps. I think you need to be aware that not all women are multi-orgasmic and likewise not all men can be multi-orgasmic. This is just a fact of life and you need to be able accept this possibility for yourself, however, the odds are very good that you can learn the techniques which will make multi-orgasms possible for you.

Posted by: @justarandomguy

I opened this topic to ask the experienced guys here, did aneros help you achieve multiple orgasms?

YES , Absolutely, but the results of Aneros use were not immediate. Learning to become multi-orgasmic is a process or as we like to call it here on the Forum a 'journey'.

Posted by: @justarandomguy

Is this something that I as a men can achieve like women do?

Probably, Yes but you will need to make some adjustments in your ideas/concepts about what constitutes an 'orgasm' and how to achieve them.

Posted by: @justarandomguy

Is it hard for a men to achive multiple orgasms?

This is a bit tricky to answer because if you are a healthy male with normal biological functioning then there is little physical impairment or effort needed to achieve these types of orgasms, your body naturally knows how to do this. The biggest obstacles for men in their learning journey are mainly psychological. Please see the thread Identifying Obstacles to Progress. It may require most men to experience a paradigm shift in thought and approach to their orgasmic experience. Please read Aneros and an 'Optimal' mind state? for some thoughts on getting your mind working for your Aneros journey.

Posted by: @justarandomguy

How much time will it take for me to achive such a thing and to master it like women?

I don't know if anyone really "master"s this to the point of having multi-orgasms on demand but you can certainly become quite proficient at doing so with patience and practice. It is impossible to predict how long it will take you to gain multi-orgasmic ability. Some fortunate men pick up this skill quickly, within days to weeks, others may take months to even years to get to a level of proficiency and a few unfortunate men may never get there.

Posted by: @justarandomguy

Are this ambitions even realistic?

Your ambitions/hopes are obviously real but you will need to temper them against false 'expectations'. Expectations can be ambition killers especially when you don't see immediate results for your efforts. It is important to remember this is a learning process and the learning curve may seem steep. You are literally rewiring your brain to approach orgasm from a different point of view and process. Patience with yourself is essential.

Please read @cockadoodle ’s thread Penis, NOT and @rook 's thread Whole Body/Whole Mind - the mental side & @SteelColdiron 's thread Aneros: The Essential Mind State for a little insight. It might also help you to read @Neros 's post The truth behind how to "rewire".

Good Vibes to You!

@rumel I really appreciate you elaborate answer.

Thank you very much!

Posted by: @justarandomguy

did aneros help you achieve multiple orgasms?

Welcome; the path is completely worth walking.  And yes!  An analogy I read elsewhere:

Think back to the first time you ever jerked off. You had no idea what you were doing. After awhile it felt good, so you kept going. But you still didn’t know what the end result was gonna be let alone feel like…..but your body did. You kept going and eventually not know what was about to happen, your body took over and you finished with your first and amazing orgasm.

The journey to the Super-O is a lot like that. You don’t really know what you’re doing or what to expect, but your body does. It may not happen as easily or quickly as jerking off, but your body will and does know what to do…..so let it! Get out of your head and out of your own way, and remember back to your first time when you had no reservations, no expectations and just enjoy the moment.

Well said @rumel !

I can’t add anything to what rumel said except to answer the question about whether it helped me achieve multiple orgasms: a resounding yes! I used to be jealous of certain women's amazing abilities to come again and again, in myriad ways. And now I have joined their ranks, thanks to aneros. Read the literature, read the forum, buy a toy, try it out!  As rumel says most of it is in the mind.

Posted by: @justarandomguy

I'm looking for a way to have multiple orgasms.

The ‘journey’ as we call it is the way!

Posted by: @justarandomguy

I really envy women to be able to do that, and im willing to put every effort needed, to be able to multiple orgasm like women do.

Know what’s better than female multiple orgasm? Male multiple orgasm!

Posted by: @justarandomguy

did aneros help you achieve multiple orgasms?

Yes and no. When I found prostate massage,I found Aneros,then I found this forum. This place,it’s members and the wiki is what helped me achieve prostate orgasms. I went down the A-Less route,but that doesn’t matter.

Posted by: @justarandomguy

is this somthing that I as a men can achieve like women do?

Yes!!

Posted by: @justarandomguy

is it hard for a men to achive multiple orgasms?

It’s as hard as your circumstances. If you learn,read,ask questions and do what must be done,it isn’t really hard at all. 

Posted by: @justarandomguy

how much time will it take for me to achive such a thing and to master it like women?

Depends on how well you can take it,managing the multitude of ups and downs,steps forward and back while you work at it.

Posted by: @justarandomguy

this ambitions even realistic?

Oh yes! Very realistic. You gotta be positive and be able to visualise the win as you progress.

I really appreciate all the comments, im going to buy the helix syn V today and start my journy, thank you very much!

Do post observations or questions when you’re ready to do so.