The Pleasure Quest

Well said that man.
I enjoyed reading that.
There are some things that I can relate to.

I have used some herb in the past and found that it makes me "horny".

Also my wife shaves me below a couple of times a month.
We both enjoy the experience.
Be careful, as the surgeon said "One slip of the blade and Bob's your aunt".

Hey, Vanakin41,

You are SO right when you say, "You have to free yourself of yourself." We all have our pre-conceived notions and expectations. When we intentionally step away from those we can enjoy the rewards that enhance our lives beyond any possible destination - because the destination is NOT the goal. We need to let go and let the trip take the turns and hills where it wants to go. We need to trust what seems like chaos, but, in my opinion, is more of a destiny. Your journey is not mine, but the concept is the same. I have moved through and among places I never knew existed. And, man, am I glad I did. So is my wife!

Keep up the good work. Continue to share your story.

Brian

Oops, also. TOTALLY agree with the shaving thing. I had to start shaving my scrotum on the advise of my doctor. I needed to apply a prescription creme there for my hormone therapy, hairless promotes better absorption. It felt so good, I just kept going...the sensation is fantastic. Soft and sensitive! Actually I shave a lot of my body. I was "blessed" with quite a lot of forest on my body. Smooth is so very sensual. I shave at least once a week, my wife helps out too, Voyager. Love it! I'll have to try the baby powder. Keep the reflections coming!

Hello Vanakin41, 🙂

Thank you for such a well written post.

First of all I had to learn one thing... You have to free yourself of yourself. By this I mean, you have to come to a place within where you are totally comfortable being naked and pleasuring yourself. You have to come to a place where you feel comfortable taking out your nastiest, naughtiest sexual cravings out on yourself. If you feel uptight and or embarrassed, it will not work. You have to let yourself go completely and enjoy every single wave of pleasure.

I totally agree with this! Unfortunately, there is no real clear path or instructions that get a new user there. It's just practice, practice, practice, and time.

Believe it or not, the feeling during sexual intercourse and masturbation is heavenly! It is so soft, your new bare skin feels so good it will blow your mind! And during intercourse you can feel every soft, wet and silky inch of that slippery, not to mention, delicious pussy! Especially if she shaves too!

Agreed! I've certainly also enjoyed that aspect of shaved sex with ex-girlfriends. Although I can't say I care for the amount maintenance involved to keep it smooth. When some one finally invents the hands free automatic genital shaver I may be able to be more regular with that when in a relationship! LOL

Love_is

And I Agree with you...😀

I totally agree too. What herb do you use?

Welcome to this great Forum community Vanakin41!! 😀 😀

And thanks for your outstanding, big-tent, joyous introduction and personal history/philosophy!

Looking forward to your further thoughts here and in the Chat Room. This would be a good introductory post in your own blog here should you find yourself so inclined. (Hint, hint!)

all the best self abandonment to deeply receptive open desire in all dimensions all

artform

Hey Vanakin41, Right on target and inclusive of the nicest things one can do for himself. Artform beat me to the punch on you opening a blog with a dupe of your first post. Shame to have this just drop down into the archive.

Wow... What a unexpected awesome welcome! Greetings to the forum 🙂 First off, I appreciate all the quality responses... took me by surprise... wasn't expecting a lot really... but you fucking rock m/ 🙂

Also, Something I should clarify for the forum... When I say "Herb" I am referring to (I hope this statement is not against forum policy?) I am referring to Marijuana ---~On a occasion! With the right buzz, I find it makes me more sensitive to touch and more focused on the pleasure.

Vanakin41,

I am pleased to hear the tip I gave you when you first joined back in January about "Letting Go" has finally paid off in such a pleasurable way. Your attitude plays a huge role in this process and learning to not over think the process is a major accomplishment. Our ego consciousness is often the biggest stumbling block to progress. Your statement "You have to free yourself of yourself." is exactly right. We can not get 'there' from 'here' using logic and reasoning or following a 'step by step' tutorial. You have gotten back in touch with the primal creative energy of your being, the sensuous creature within us all that knows not of words and logic but swims in the world of feelings and emotions.

Cheers to you and your wife for openly embracing the sensual beings within.

I totally agree too. What herb do you use?

Marijuana, the key to unlock Super-O.