The Path to Aless Is Psychological and Physical

Yesterday I commented on a post about techniques to achieve Alesses for beginners, it made me think of my own history and motivated me to write this.   Understanding of prostate anatomy, location, function and the technique to best stimulate it are essential in this journey we are all on.   This understanding will put the beginner on the path to the goal of experiencing MMO’s.  Physical considerations are however only half of the story, the final chapter that you need to read to achieve successful anal pleasure is in the realm of the mind. 

Focusing on technique is fantastic as long as it isn’t ones sole focus.  Singular attention to technique is a recipe for frustration.  In my almost two decades here as an Aneros practitioner, I have repeatedly listened to people express frustration with their lack of success.  I would venture a guess that most of us who struggle with Aneros use and fail to yield Super O’s for all their effort are probably focused just on technique.   I have heard many guys talk about  impatiently pursuing the end destination and not paying attention to the mental aspects of MMO.  To be successful one needs to be equipped  with an erotic mind set, sensory openness,  sensual attitude and patience to be able to recognize, embrace and capture the pleasure that is present in all of us.  In advising newbies I often used the analogy of starting a fire using a bow drill to prostate orgasm. 

The goal of bow drill fire starting is to develop enough friction to get an ember.  In men, that friction is our arousal. We all have our own inclinations to what arouses us so follow your cock in that regard, if what you see or read makes you hard, go with it and use it in your session.   Keep in mind however that having an ember is useless unless you recognize it and know what it is.  So awareness of sensation becomes very important. 

I am big on analogies so here is another one.  Recognizing an “orgasmic ember” in your anal tract is like surfing.  To catch a wave that will support your board and you, it is necessary to develop the skill and patience to watch waves to find the perfect one.   Once you see the perfect wave you can then take it for the ride in.

Getting on that wave requires mind body connection; once you see it and be prepared to exploit it using your erotic assets (nipples, cock head, etc).  Once you have focused your mind and body on what you feel and recognize it you can then apply your arousal to it to make the ember burst into orgasmic flame.  Pardon me mixing analogies here LOL. 

Again, I go back to the bow drill analogy and being able to recognize that you have made an orgasmic ember.  If you have ever watched a boy scout start a fire from an ember you have seen him blow on it in a bed of tinder to get it to burst into flames.  Prostate orgasm is no different.  An MMO (multiple male orgasm) needs oxygen to ignite just as a campfire does.  The oxygen comes from guided breathing; so key is timing of breathing.  Breathing in MMO is just like blowing on an ember or a small fire to get the orgasm to grow into a conflagration.  Anyone who has tried to start a fire knows that if you blow too hard or in the wrong material you will extinguish the fire.   It takes a certain amount of experimentation to figure out what works for you.  I do my breathing in bursts with rests between.

Continuing my mixed analogies keeping the orgasm going is like blowing under a feather to keep it aloft.  For me once the pulsing contractions of my prostate start I will intermittently breathe under them to keep them floating.  As I feel the pleasure waning I breath into it and stimulate my nipples or my cock cleft.

The need is to slow down, listen to your body’s signals, enjoy the journey and be mindfully erotic so that arousal happens.  It is like being ready to catch a wave while surfing or grabbing the brass ring on the carousel.    Once you are sensually ready,  having an Aless or a super O will be like riding a bicycle.

The elegance and power of Aneros practice is that it rewires you to achieve all of the above.  Rewiring to me means linking mind and body and empowering your unique erotic capabilities to become a sensual man.  Once you become a sensual man, Super O and Aless follow naturally.  I will offer a description of a 24 hour period in my life and how a day in my life focuses my sensual mindset and empowers me to have Alesses.   What follows is an accurate description of January 13-14^th.

It is 7AM, dawn is revealing itself as a dull glow outside my window.  I have been awake since 4AM.  I am lying in bed naked with an erection that is heavy with lust.  I first woke up 3 hours ago with my cock head tingling and my prostate twitching and throbbing desperately urging me to MMO.  At 4AM mistress MMO was seductively  whispering in my ear,  tempting me to embrace her and dance with her in the darkness in my bed.   Her whispers were reminding me of the steamy dream that she forced me to have as I struggled to try to sleep peacefully.  I lay there replaying that dream in my mind savoring the intimate  eroticism and the salacious vulgarity it showed me. 

Maintaining erotic imagery in my mind or writing erotica keeps me aroused.  The day before I spent most of the day writing a steamy chapter in one of the erotic novels I am working on. When I got into bed I was ready for sex and my wife was all too happy to go along for the ride.

Mistress MMO would not let me rest in peace; instead she wanted my cock hard in aroused need.  The dream she coerced me to have after I fell asleep left the sheets sopping wet with my precum.   When she woke me at 4AM she whispered to me that she wanted to dance the dance of erotic euphoria with me.  She murmured that we had time in that the sun was hours from rising and my cock was ripe for the dance.  I knew she was right.  I looked at the clock on my night stand,   the first hint of the sun would not wash the darkness from the eastern horizon for another three hours. 

As I blinked my eyes to orient myself to the darkness that enveloped me, I noticed the rays of light from the streetlight in the dark black air of night outside our bedroom window.  They were penetrating the blue haze in our bedroom, illuminating our bed like a spot light shines on a stage.  In my sleepy thoughts I imagined that it was a spotlight and women were watching me and waiting for me to take Mistress MMO in my arms and dance with her.   As they all watched lasciviously each woman wished she was the one dancing with the man with the huge cock.  If they couldn’t do the orgasmic dance with me they wanted me to put on an erotic performance for them as they masturbated.   Mistress MMO and my audience saw I had a stone hard erection; they can sense that my arousal is boiling over.  They knew I was primed to have an Aless because I ejaculated only 5 hours earlier, something that ensures my MMO will be intense.

The contrarily calm conditions outside the window are a stark contrast to the desperate desire that is raging in my penis, pelvis, anus and my mind.  The flames of desire that Mistress MMO’s sultry dream ignited in me are incendiary.  They are inflaming my thoughts and licking my rigid penis lasciviously.  In a few hours the sun will assert its calm control over the world, slowly waking it and inspiring me to go on with my daily routine.  But now I am shrouded in the sultry caress of night and night is a time of silent surrender to the intimately erotic song Mistress MMO is singing to me.  Come dance with me my sexy lover she repeats in refrains that are enchanting me.   Her incantation is working, my cock is aching, my prostate is swollen and hard and my anus is twitching.  I am seething with lustful need to MMO.

This time of day when I am sensually naked in bed is a uniquely erotic time of day for me.  My wife’s warm nude feminine body that is cuddled up against my own naked skin is adding to the arousal that my steamy dream inspired.  The lustfully exquisite sensation of pending MMO is gripping my erect penis tugging on it insistently like an impatient child in at toy store.  It is a recipe for rapturous pleasure.   Rewiring has set me up for an erotic life that few men can ever imagine or even conceive of experiencing.   That life greets me almost every morning as it was at that moment.

Mistress MMO is the culprit that is responsible for the sweet anguish that is tormenting me at this moment.   She is the second woman that is in bed with me this early morning.  My sexually satisfied wife is sleeping quietly on one side of me while Mistress MMO impatiently lays in waiting on the other side of me.  The funky scent of my wife’s cum filled vagina is filling the void under the covers; it is the erotically enticing sweet stench of the sexual intimacy we enjoyed before bed last night.  As strong as the scent is it is intoxicating; it makes me drunk with lust.   Her expert vagina can drain my balls unlike any other orgasmic activity so her vagina is full of my semen.   I recalled the events of the previous evening that culminated with me fill her vagina with my semen.   That lurid memory added yet more desperation to my arousal.

Before we fucked last night I primed my wife vagina for penetration by edging her with my tongue.  I suckled on her clit bringing her to the edge of her orgasmic abyss and then I left her there panting with a sopping wet vagina, ready for penetration.   I mounted her as she opened her arms to hold me to her chest as I slid my cock into the wet heat of her hungry cunt.  Lying in her embrace in the valley of her parted legs, my penis was deep inside her body.

I put myself in her place thinking what it was like to take a man’s penis inside her vagina.  As I relished the hot sucking caress of her cunt gripping my invading cock I slowed down and thought of the serenely intimate gratification she experienced welcoming me inside her body.  I knew how much my penetration satisfied her as she stroked my head as I lay of her savoring the wet feminine heat of her cunt nursing on my man udder.

 The sensation of my hypersensitive aroused cock head deeply embedded in her was almost spiritual for her but it was carnal for me; I desperately wanted to grind my pubic bone against her pussy mouth and push my cock head deeper into her.  I resisted the urge to hump her and instead savored the hot wet caress of her talented vagina. It bathed my erection with her aroused adoration.  As her vagina held my cock head next to her soul, it did indeed suck on my man udder like a calf nurses from its mother.

As her vagina sheathed my hardened prod, she murmured erotic prose into my ear.  She wove a seductive narrative that stroked my male ego and implored me to inject my creamy passion into her.  The impact of her cunt rhythmically sucking on my cock as she whispered suggestively in my ear was overwhelming.  I tried to resist the aching temptation to ejaculate in the warm wetness of her femininity; I wanted to stave off release and savor the divine euphoria of my mounting arousal.  However I was no match for the practiced eroticism of her voice and the tender urging her cunt exerted on my invading penis.   Eventually her talented vagina and her lurid prose overpowered my will.   I surrendered to the orgasm and the ejaculation began. 

Waves of rapturous convulsive bliss overtook me and tossed my will to relish erotic tension aside.  I wanted, no needed to cum inside her.  The ejaculation sent waves of orgasmic surrender to my brain.  My iron hard mental arousal suddenly melted and became liquid passion;  my prostate then convulsed and pumped my creamy offering vigorously into her hungry vagina.   Crushing euphoria made me embrace her lush feminine body and hold her tightly as I surrendered my prostate to the ecstasy that was invading my anal canal. 

The orgasm milked my cock and invaded my brain forcing me to drive my cock head deep into her vagina as it spewed my passionate offering into her.  Limbic reflexes deep in my brain focused all my energy on ejaculation, making my semen gush from my cock slit in a torrent.  As I tumbled in orgasmic anguish, she succumbed to her own orgasm.   We embraced in shared torment as desperate anguish simultaneously electrified both of us.  Once my balls were emptied fully in her my cock’s job was done; after it had injected my venom in her, it softened.   With a vagina full of my semen she fell asleep quickly; I followed willingly.

With my ejaculation complete Mistress MMO watched my wife enviously.  She also saw us clinging to each other as sweet agony consumed us both.  She also saw my post orgasmic shudder and my sigh of relief and she watched me cast off reality and wander behind the hazy curtain of sleep.  Gleefully she watched me drift off knowing that once I arrived in the somnolent quietude of my subconscious mind I would be vulnerable to her manipulative will.   She had heard my wife’s lurid poetry and watched it exert it’s erotic impact on me.  Learning from my real life lover she decided to paint a virtual erotic portrait in my mind.  Using my wife’s spoken words I heard the previous of that night she used them to project a lurid screenplay of a  dream in my hapless mind.

With gleeful enthusiasm the wicked mistress watched my cock firm as her tawdry imagery played in the theater of my sleeping mind.   Her fantasy of my erection became reality as my flaccid penis became a raging hard cock.  With loving cruelty she celebrated her success; she had worked her erotic magic on my vulnerable subconcious mind.  My cock was an iron lightning rod waiting for her to make it receive jolts of erotic energy.

She continued to taunt me with taboo laced fantasies in my dream, testing my erotic subconscious ability to hold onto to me and not surrender me to alertness in the real world.  She whispered lurid descriptions of intense orgasms and unfettered erotic pleasure into my ear as her delicate fingers danced enticingly over my cock head making my aroused organ twitch reflexively.  As she teased my sleeping mind with lascivious images her delicately feminine fingers toyed with my aching erection.  Her insidious determination and carnal intent were making the clear emulsion of my growing passion drool from my cock slit in my sleep.

Emboldened by her successful invasion of my sleep,  she continued to load lurid imagery into my dream world .   In this virtual world she was sucking my cock and fondling my balls as two other women suckled on my nipples while a man with a gorgeous erection fucked me righteously.  The forbidden tableau of the steamy foursome Mistress MMO projected in my mind made my heart race and my cock ache and drool as I lay sleeping in her arms.  Eventually the incendiary eroticism of the images that were appearing in my mind and tugging on my dripping wet erect cock woke me up.

Now that I was awake Mistress MMO was no longer control over my mind and penis.  However the fleeting legacy desire that she ignited in my body lingered.  My sexual apparatus was shrieking in a cacophony of disorganized erotic sensation.  My nipples were tingling and my anus was twitching as my cock root throbbed and my penis strained in anguished erection like a dog on a leash straining to get at a rabbit. 

As I savored the sweet tension of desire vibrating in my body from Mistress MMO’s imprint on my brain, my sense of reality returned to make me aware of the moment.  There next to me was my alluringly innocent wife sleeping quietly next to me.   The memory of our spiritually passionate sexual sharing the night before was still resonating in my brain.  She became a magnet drawing my rigid cock to her derriere.  I looked at the clock, it was 4 AM.

TO BE CONTINUED