The girlfriend...

Since I can edit post of android...

Edit: and proposing some fun with aneros too

Same question to me, didn't dare either. Better think twice:
http://www.webmd.com/men/features/11-dont-tell-the-wife-secrets-all-men-keep

There are some posts here suggesting to show her sites where women describe the benefits for her:
http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Women_Too

Wish you well!

Tell her that you have found a new great way to get real orgasm. If she loves you and cares about you, you have nothing to fear. She property already knows all about the man's G-spot. Maybe she already wondered, why you do not talk about it. Using a dildo is very common today even if you are a man. Good luck.

Postponing this discussion will turn it into an issue later on. You might introduce it as "health aid" or perhaps better, as something that you have tried and it adds pleasure to sex with her or when on your own.

My wife is super supportive and loves watching me explore and enjoy. She was in on it from the beginning tho. Not sure how to approach it otherwise. Maybe gather some online info on benefits and pleasures??? There are also allot videos (informational type) available. Good luck !

My wife also supports it. I don't make it a habit to announce the usage but when I include her in using it while having sex she sees the benefits alone in how strong I cum during sex. As far as using it on my own during a session I tend to do that on my own time when the house is quiet.

My wife knows I use my Aneros tools. If she didn't, I'd probably tell her that my doctor recommended I use one for prostate health (this does happen). The extra side effects are very wonderfull.

try bringing it out in the heat of the moment, i did with the mgx it went as well as can be expected some disparaging comments but she put it in sucked me off and then some intercourse done that a few more times but other than that its not mentioned. oh and i have defintly not brought out the progasm

My wife loves it. She's bought me more anal/prostate toys than I can think of right now. Her deal is this, and this is how it started: Sex was, is, and always has been a major part of our lives. We absolutely love to make each other feel good, whether it's emotional, mental, or physical. We love to make sure we're each having a good time, are feeling no pain, are in a good state, thinking good thoughts and feeling great overall. With sex, all we do is make sure we're getting each other off as hard and as strongly as possible. This is why she was so receptive and into my wanting to explore anal stimulation. I started it, however, after we were together for about 5 years though, in 2004 back when Aneros was a pretty new thing. But, as she said, "if it makes you cum even harder than you already do, I not only want to make sure you get to feel that but I want to be a part of it if I can!" After that, she was working my ass with dildos while giving me head and making me cum harder than I've ever imagined a man can cum. I've had solo sessions that she has actually encouraged, where she says, "are you going to play tonight? You should use a toy because you haven't really 'cleaned' yourself out in a while!" and by clean she means the prostate draining that comes with prostate orgasms and stimulation. Or, milking, I guess. She's so into this that she's now exploring some of my prostate toys (sterilized of course!!) and finding that they are bringing her to orgasms like she's never felt before! And this is happening after a solid and consistent 18 years of fucking each others' brains out!

Bottom line: if you are having sex and it is linking the two of you on levels beyond the physical, then there should be no issues with her acceptance of your prostate stimulation. Such stimulation allows you to reach higher levels of mental strength, stability and euphoria. Your partner should, then, be cool with you wanting to better yourself in these ways because it will have a reciprocal effect in your relationship with her!

Way back in 2002 when I bought my first aneros, I told my wife it was for my prostate health. She knows that I engage in prostate stimulation for health and pleasure and is quite ok with that. She and I only have sex 4 times a year, but we both enjoy regular self-pleasure - unfortunately she feels that self pleasure must be a solo activity. Why I don't know. Modesty? Fantasies about other people?

Every situation is different I'm sure.

I haven't told my girlfriend yet, but I've kinda tested her. She seems to be interested in pegging and stuff like that on some level, but so far doesn't seem comfortable bringing it to the relationship. She is naturally more interested in receiving. I would recommend feeling them out, test their reactions. I think a gateway is asking them to use their finger on you when they go down or use their hand. Or ask them about rimming. Maybe it's just me, but all of my girlfriends seemed interested to some extent (although I've never actually gone through with it). Some women will be pretty strongly against it, but I'm sure most could be talked into accepting it, and some will even be into it.