I've successfully gotten myself "going" just by going through the forum topics, especially some of the really detailed and well composed posts,.and occasionally joining the Chat room. Since I don't "do" porn, I've found that reading compadres experiences and chatting can just get things moving. Of course, the down side is that I have to break off from the forum to pursue my own path... ;), but it's worth it. Anybody else do this?
Yup me, but at times when sessions are a dud I find reading the success stories here to actually be detrimental . Also reading and concentrating on that detracts from focus on your own session. Plus I need new stimuli every mins, it gets boring after a short time.
Well, I'm not gay.. And detailed stories do nothing for me. But the forum does actually help me to focus on my prostate and feelings. If I didn't visit the forum, I wouldnt be thinking about it as much as I do.
I do better when I'm concentrating on inward sensations instead of outside stimulus. With my eyes closed, my imagination is all I need.
Plus I need new stimuli every mins, it gets boring after a short time.
as you teach yourself patience, you will be able to slow down and respond to what your body is trying to tell you....
A quick glance at the latest fotos on the Aneros User web page can refresh my memory of how it's going to feel !
Hi @rook,
Thank you for sharing with us this resource on tumblr. I joined tumblr a few days ago and have just begun following this resource.
As for myself, I enjoy reading many of the Forum posts, but also enjoy contributing to the Forum, and that is a great turn on for me. 😉
Thom./BigGlansDC
THANKS FOR THE TUMBLR LINK. Some nice aneros users and hot links to watch while riding
There is only a few pages and not much on em, wish there were more vids and pics about :-/
seen it and seen them all. All the rest they get the aneros and then sank with it, kinda not using it properly and being generally misleading...
I personally do not find the videos a turn on, but "chacon a son gout!".
Turn-on or not, they can be a good demonstration of the possible.
videos can work wonders, even get wife interested in pegging
I avoided the forum through out the first half of my month's abstaining for that reason, actually. Eventually I dropped by to quell the pent up strains from the abstain.
Doubting its a coincidence, but when ether I do ask for input on the chat and forums, my sessions end up being pretty good. Part of it is probably down to putting the mind at ease.
It happened for me again last night. After inserting my Helix Syn, I read through some of the detailed descriptions of success on the forum and it worked like a charm. I went on to having a remarkable one hour session as my wife slept beside me. At one point, I felt like waking her and making love, but I didn't (we both had a tough day yesterday). I found the intensity of the P waves much greater than usual, culminating in several dry O's and a calm seas phase. I fell asleep and on awakening, felt like it had been a dream...hoping that tonight will be another great time--this time with the Progasm, Jr.
In a side light to this "frozen" discussion, I've recently begun a few sessions while in the chatroom. And that has really been a turn on for me. I guess I'm discovering the "exhibitionist" side of me...
@Armon-neat, several men including me have commented on the turn on benefit of chat. You don't have to be gay to appreciate the sexual energy there or the shared experiences. That usually bumps up my arousal while riding. Just having men's encouragement, understanding and awareness in chat raises my energy level. Multiple awarenesses is very powerful. I think that's why coaching someone with several observers or contributers in chat is so effective.
@euphemistic you are right on the mark, there. I had another chat induced session that migrated to a private chat and a fantastic one hour. Best wishes for the new year to you and all those who read this.
I am having an incredible ride right now with Tempo as I write this. There is incredible sexual energy on Aneros Forum and the Aneros chat and blog sections.
Also every time I heft my Aneros models and wash them for my sessions, I feel such sexual energy emanating from them. In a way, I invested such sexual and erotic energy in my Aneros tools that they are paramount sexual fetish items. I am sure that many guys have had similar experiences.
I too wish you all a Happy New Year and tons of pleasure Aneros riding in the months and years to come!
Thom./BigGlansDC
@Armon-neat, that is exactly what chat is for, coaching, sharing tips, exchanging energy and just chilling with friends. It's NOT for provoking arguments but for a lively constructive conversation with give and take. Sadly it has been too much about pointless arguing and demeaning other members for my taste recently. That just makes it an unsafe place to share and relax IMO.
Of course frank sexual language should be reserved for private chats.