I feel fortunate that I started having super O's after only a few weeks. The key milestone for me was not just relaxing, but taking an active role in moving things along. Specifically, this is what I did during the session that was my "breakthru":
* After a few minutes of laying still, I started thrusting my hips, as in having sex. Real slowly.
* I fantasized actively about real women that I knew (sans clothing).
Good luck!
Well, I got what I deserve...and now I have to eat crow (I've heard its more palatable if it's still warm...)
Rumel and Pan were gracious and communicated with me via private message to help me get through my slump. Through Pan's post on the use of fantasizing to increase the arousal level and rumel's recommendations to jump start the sensations in the area, I was able to have a wonderful session (all right....wonderful from MY perspective. All you crossed-over creeps would roll your eyes...but tough Helix residue!). I described what happened in my blog 'Pastiche' under the entry entitled "Ooooh! THAT was GOOD!..."
Rumel explained to me that the sensation of the Helix repositioning itself beyond my conscious control was actually the involuntary contractions I was craving to experience. So, all of you who are struggling out there, trying to generate any pleasurable sensation, please drop me a private message and I will pass on as much help as I can. I think I have a clear understanding of what you are going through. All of you who are trying to jump immediately to the Super O, please read my blog. There truly is a wonderland out there that deserves your exploration.
Now...how do I find an emoticon with a bag over it's head?:oops:
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