Surprised on the way to work! OMG it's for real!!!!!

Congratulation! You have stepped into the world of Aneros-less nirvana! With just a little nudge, your PC muscle contraction, you have realized that your body and mind know what you asked for...and gave it to you! As you progress, you gain more control, but initially, spontaneous pleasure is highly likely! Enjoy it, and love the journey!

TG

Congratulation! You have stepped into the world of Aneros-less nirvana! With just a little nudge, your PC muscle contraction, you have realized that your body and mind know what you asked for...and gave it to you! As you progress, you gain more control, but initially, spontaneous pleasure is highly likely! Enjoy it, and love the journey!

TG

Thanks Theme_Gasm, I hope to gain more control soon 🙂 and will attempt to enjoy the spontaneous pleasure as it present itself. So I'm wondering if anybody here can speak to the issue of how this effects intimacy with partner... is it positive or negative? It is such a personal thing, so it is hard to "share" with my wife, but I'd like to in some way other than just sharing verbally with her what's going on.

"It is such a personal thing, so it is hard to "share" with my wife, but I'd like to in some way other than just sharing verbally with her what's going on."

I don't know from personal experience yet, but suspect you'll find out tonight :-)) Let us know. I'm guessing you'll both have a very positive experience. She may want to know what was different with you. I suggest you tell her.

@Brian21030 Congrats!!! Laughed and chucked as I read your story visualizing how that must have looked to the other drivers. Then laughed as you expressed your concern of this coming on during a meeting with a client. Can you see yourself convulsing in front of a client? How are you going to explain that? Maybe you could tell them you are just so excited to have them as a client? Anyway, each day I log on to this site to hopefully catch another success story and yours was good. Thanks for sharing it.

Can you see yourself convulsing in front of a client? How are you going to explain that?

Rook was remembering Tennis_s_nut saying he had acid reflux when he was in public or with a client 😉 I tried the same sound I made in the car to test it out and it sorta works... try it

I laughed at this because the same thing happened to me a couple of days ago, but I pulled off the expressway and tried to calm myself down. I think this aneros product is amazing to all of its advantages to be able to give us the constant pleasure during the day even without it inserted. Enjoy the little pleasures that are sure to follow.

Good for you and your journey - enjoy the ride!

Brian21030,

I have to chuckle to myself every time I hear from my fellow Anerosians about these sudden unexpected rushes of pleasure. Once you've awakened your prostate, it isn't going to go back to sleep if you regularly pay attention to it. One of the items in the Milestones list is "Surprise attack of very serious pleasure" so congratulations on achieving another step along your journey. As time progresses these incidences are likely to be perceived as less intense but I think they are actually just as intense, only you will have adapted to accept them as your new "normal". You will always be able to control them, not by trying to suppress them but by simply setting them aside temporarily as you turn your mental focus to the task(s) at hand.
There's nothing to worry about, just enjoy this new found capacity to bring joy into your life and give your wife a little longer kiss, a little firmer hug and a little bigger smile when you say "I love you" tonight.
Good Vibes to You !

Don't worry, Brian21030, the effects with your wife will be positive--increased sexual sensitivity and ability to relax and to be more aware of how to please her. I've had those exciting cargasms too. This feeling just grows and grows inside until you feel yourself coming and then you have the ejaculatory feeling, just like you've wet yourself but you're dry when you check everything down there. Really neat.

But it doesn't just come and take over your body without your control. It was like I could control it coming on when I've had it. Just sitting there thinking wow, this is wild as the feeling grows and then wow!!! it's really coming and I'm doing nothing but just sitting here! Neat, isn't it?

There's nothing to worry about, just enjoy this new found capacity to bring joy into your life and give your wife a little longer kiss, a little firmer hug and a little bigger smile when you say "I love you" tonight.

Thanks Rumel, I'll do it with pleasure.


Slimjm... Very neat 🙂


Doublea70... I almost pulled over! I'm laughing at the thought of having to pull over 😉

Thanks for the encouragement and for the great communication...

btw, how do I get a name in my comments without cutting and pasting or just writing it myself?

There's nothing to worry about, just enjoy this new found capacity to bring joy into your life and give your wife a little longer kiss, a little firmer hug and a little bigger smile when you say "I love you" tonight.

Thanks Rumel, I'll do it with pleasure.


Slimjm... Very neat 🙂


Doublea70... I almost pulled over! I'm laughing at the thought of having to pull over 😉

Thanks for the encouragement and for the great communication...

btw, how do I get a name in my comments without cutting and pasting or just writing it myself?

do you mean like that?

no like this:

@Doublea70 - I realized I just need to type it in with an @thenthename and it turns red/hyperlink

I think... hope this works ;>

@Brian21030, it does. :-))

Good for you, Brian!! I often have "chairgasms" at work that just come out of nowhere, and I just close my eyes and ride the wave for as long as I can handle it. Then I begrudgingly will myself to calm my rectal/PG muscles down and get back to the task at hand. Occasionally the contractions cause me to harden too, which thankfully has not caused any awkward moments!!

Yes, the prostate is a lovely and mysterious little creature, and once you wake it up there is no going back!

Best,

Fletcher

@FletcherCat - at 57 it is a great wonder to me that this was never taught to most American/British boys or even in the greater omni present sense of sexuality that we as boys sort of gravitated to... chairgasms, cargasms, what a great thing to know about and be able to practice! :-c

@Brian21030 I agree. It's a shame we don't promote a wider range of sexuality so that people have the option to explore the wonder that is their body. Women, it seems, are given more permission (at least by a glance at the cover of most women's magazines) to explore their bodies, to be multi-orgasmic, and yet many men think whacking off is the limit to their sexual self-pleasure. I discovered the pleasures of my prostate at a very young age but, of course, had no idea that there was a prostate but only that it felt awesome when I put things in my bum.
:)) Many years later I have been able to experience the joys of more focused prostate stimulation through both play with a partner as well as the fulfilling pleasure of self-exploration via the Aneros.

Brian21030,

I have to chuckle to myself every time I hear from my fellow Anerosians about these sudden unexpected rushes of pleasure. Once you've awakened your prostate, it isn't going to go back to sleep if you regularly pay attention to it. One of the items in the Milestones list is "Surprise attack of very serious pleasure" so congratulations on achieving another step along your journey. As time progresses these incidences are likely to be perceived as less intense but I think they are actually just as intense, only you will have adapted to accept them as your new "normal". You will always be able to control them, not by trying to suppress them but by simply setting them aside temporarily as you turn your mental focus to the task(s) at hand.
There's nothing to worry about, just enjoy this new found capacity to bring joy into your life and give your wife a little longer kiss, a little firmer hug and a little bigger smile when you say "I love you" tonight.
Good Vibes to You !

I do worry about these constant arousal feelings. I have had some of my strongest orgasms while sitting in my office chair at work. It can be unsettling. I've often wondered "Is this what it's like to have persistent arousal disorder". I've spent some time researching it. I found this video of a guy with this disorder and it has me somewhat concerned because it seems at times, I can't control it.
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@Longshanks I remember from my own journey that I was getting constant Aless orgasms and p-waves by being in a high state of arousal continuously. This was in the beginning of my journey. I was able to Super O and had Aless orgasms and sensations after 2.5-3 weeks, but to achieve that I went to the extreme. I used erotic hypnosis everyday, didn't ejaculate and had a session everyday for 2.5-3 weeks. I was getting wet dreams and the sensations that the aneros produced during sessions got uncomfortable. At this time I was in a constant state of arousal getting Aless orgasms and P-waves. Than I started to listen to my mind and body. First thing is that it wanted to ejaculate, so I did. Secondly, I stopped erotic hypnosis. Thirdly, I stopped using the aneros, but was having Aless sessions with Super O's when I felt like it (so I only stopped the aneros session not Aless). In short, I had overheated my mind and body and didn't gave them time to adapt to the changes. I also didn't listen to my mind and body which made things a lot worse.

A similar thing may be happening to you. Try to listen to your body and mind. What do they want and do it. Also, how long have you been like that? Sometimes when you start to make progress you get like that but only temporarily. Than there is nothing to worry about. Don't worry about that man you posted a link to. He had an accident of some sorts and I have never heard someone that used the aneros get like that.

A similar thing may be happening to you. Try to listen to your body and mind. What do they want and do it. Also, how long have you been like that? Sometimes when you start to make progress you get like that but only temporarily. Than there is nothing to worry about. Don't worry about that man you posted a link to. He had an accident of some sorts and I have never heard someone that used the aneros get like that.

I haven't had an Aneros session for 2 weeks. I've had this continuous rippling of small contractions throughout my body, constant pleasure in my rectum and perineum. I've only ejaculated once during these two weeks as I did at one point listen to my mind.

Something similar had happened to me early on in my journey. A continuous buzzing throughout my body as if I was hyped up on a stimulant. Very difficult to focus but enjoyable at the same time.

I really enjoy these new sensations but it is extremely difficult to be productive and focus while it feels like there might be a tongue licking my prostrate while I'm on some sort of an electro-stimulating machine at the same time. The only time I don't get these sensations is when I'm walking (moving around) or sleeping.

I haven't had an Aneros session for 2 weeks. I've had this continuous rippling of small contractions throughout my body, constant pleasure in my rectum and perineum. I've only ejaculated once during these two weeks as I did at one point listen to my mind.

Something similar had happened to me early on in my journey. A continuous buzzing throughout my body as if I was hyped up on a stimulant. Very difficult to focus but enjoyable at the same time.

I really enjoy these new sensations but it is extremely difficult to be productive and focus while it feels like there might be a tongue licking my prostrate while I'm on some sort of an electro-stimulating machine at the same time. The only time I don't get these sensations is when I'm walking (moving around) or sleeping.

I can relate to @Longshanks' experience above. For a good three weeks in October, I was not able to have an Aneros session because of various distractions.

But I still had Aless, that constant buzz in my prostate, which reassured me. But as time elapsed that buzz lessened. Finally my body began craving an Aneros session. Boy when I returned, it was like old times, in a way even better! Experience Aneros users not only become rewired, but they develop what I call Aneros muscle memory. I am one of those guys. 😉

Thom./BigGlansDC

I had a similar experience. I was on my way to work and got stuck in rush hour traffic. All of the lanes were stopped. So I'm sitting there thinking about work and out of the blue the p-waves start up and I have a serious gasm. It was a darned good thing I was stopped!

Definitely consider sharing with your wife. If you share well, you will both benefit.

Xileh

@Xileh

I agree with the sharing with your wife, and enjoyed your qualifier that if you share well, you will both benefit.... so true!

Brian