Had a good session yesterday afternoon and then last night my wife surprised me with a spontaneous request for sex. She started me off with some good oral which hardly ever happens. Unlike most guys, I'm not a huge fan of oral since I'm too sensitive and have never gotten off with it but it was a nice warm up to a very passionate romp. When I got to the PONR I lingered there for a long time. It was sweet suffering with my cock begging for release. When I finally came inside her I felt as if the cumshot would shoot out her back. So powerful! Practice with the Aneros has supercharged traditional sex with the constant Kegels and erotic bliss!
Yes, sex with prostate and general body awareness is pretty over the top. If your partner knows about your toys and is fine with them, try sex with a toy in. With a partner, the question of how to generate arousal is out the door. There are both upsides and a downsides: for example depending on the moment, unexpected movements sensations or sounds can push you higher or break concentration. I like having a toy in while my partner is caressing me in a multitude of ways and/or doing lovely things to my balls, while we have sex, but also while I caress her and/or go down on her or while she uses her vibrator next to me. So... in pretty much every situation! The problem I have is sometimes it is too intense and I start getting irritated, probably because the toy moves around too much, or everything too swollen for too long. So I take the toy out, and it's fine again.
Also the toys are incredible for phone sex. I have occasional video sex with women I meet on the internet (who live on the other side of the world), and with the toy in or with aless, arousal is very high and my orgasms are very strong.