Summary of one year of Aneros

You know what... I see some of my own experiences in what you say, Same goes for me

for example;
"My sessions generally need a large amount of time for anything to start, and by anything I mean more pleasurable muscle contractions (I guess they're pc contractions). This generally takes 1, 1 1/2 hours."

Same goes for me. After 1 1/2 hours or more my muscles are more tired and I can contract them in order way smoother. Also they start almost moving by themselves a bit. And it feels more pleasurable, this I think is because the muscles are tired AND the prostate has already become stimulated. So naturally everything feels better. It may also be that the lube has dispensed more as well as your anal canal tightens up with the muscles, so you get better contact to the nerves. It might be lactic acid swelling them up a bit improving the contact and smoothness.

I suggest you try this.... it worked for me.

Do a session mid day with what ever model you want. Focus only on doing contractions, don`t go for pleasure at all. You`re goal is to give them a workout, and focus on how you can seperate the muscles used for different movements.

Now, when you go to bed, pop in the MGX. This one gets good movement with me now (none when I started). You`re muscles are already a bit tired from earlier and your Prostate is probably already tingling from that.

Do my shallow breath technique. You will find it in my posts or I can send you a PM that I recently shared to a friend. This will allow you to concentrate more about the feelings down there and your breathing rather than contracting.
Continue with this breathing buildup phase for and hour or two. Then if you have reached a good buildup of feelings and something resembling a veeery mini-O, roll over to your tummy and continue with the breathing technique. But then start contracting your PC slightly - keep it contracted. It`s har keeping it contracted so with me it automatically rolls over to a spinchter contraction, when you notice it has rolled over start over with the PC contraction. It will tighten up more and more as you go, so sometimes a really determined roll over to spinchter makes you start at light PC contraction again.

Continue this... do whatever feels good at that time and continue doing it. Don`t be afraid to let go, you`re only along for the ride once you tip over the edge.

Good luck man!

Thanks.

The contractions I can do them and they feel good (just like nipple stimulation), but I can get a way that I may do it too well and I get a hands free wet orgasm, so it's not just keep pursuing the pleasure for me.

That's one of the reasons I prefer the do nothing approach, it will only have to move what it has to move, sort of.
What do you mean roll over to the tummy? I'm not a native english speaker so I don't know what this word means 🙂

Thanks again

Lay on your stomach 🙂 From beeing in a fetal position first... I feel it`s easy to focus on my shallow breath method when on my stomach, because you notice how well your belly fills up or pushes out even though you do a shallow breath from completely exhaled lungs.

Just doing another report.

It's being 2 years now and unfortunately I don't feel any change since I wrote this a year ago.

I always have some kind of pleasure, but that't is. I have some weak dry-os but only in some sessions. Yes it is good, but I never got anything that I would call overwhelming. It's decent and all, but for example far away from the pleasure of an ejaculatory orgasm.

I have a question. I have pretty much all the models (everything by helix classic, eupho-syn and vice). I was thinking that maybe sticking to one model for some months would probably help, so what do you suggest? I was thinking helix syn might be a good "beginner" model? You see, I would call me a beginner because I'm definitively not getting most things from Aneros. In anal play I'm fine with any model, my first was ice and it is as confortable as any other.
Or is switching out a good method?

And yes, I still do feel frustrated by my journey. Yes, it's positive, but I can't avoid it 🙂

It's been more than 3 years now and things have gotten worse. In the last two years I've been in meds (anti-depressants) and I think they're killing my already very low sex drive.

In the last year or so my sessions have been very bad, I rarely feel anything, I don't even feel the "weak dry orgasms" I felt before.

One year ago or something I recorded one session to show what was happening to me and ask for help but only now I've thought of uploading it and showing what I have. (As I said recently I don't even have much of this).

The session I recorded was 2 hours long or so, so cut it and I'll show just two bits of it.

My "dry-orgasms"
This is what I call dry-orgasm. Actually the feeling it's not as good as an ejaculatory orgasm. It's just bits of pleasure that go on for some minutes. I think that this thing, if evolved, would be full-blow dry-orgasms as intense as ejaculatory ones. They're good but I can't call them dry-orgasms.

My big problem, hands-free ejaculation (see end of video)
This is what I think it's my biggest obstacle in the way of dry-os (and super-os farther up). If things start to feel more intense I end up ejaculating (it's hard to explain, I'm not feeling much pleasure, but my body tenses up and eventually after some time I ejaculate, it's pretty much impossible to control).

Any help?

It's been more than 3 years now and things have gotten worse. In the last two years I've been in meds (anti-depressants) and I think they're killing my already very low sex drive.

In the last year or so my sessions have been very bad, I rarely feel anything, I don't even feel the "weak dry orgasms" I felt before.

One year ago or something I recorded one session to show what was happening to me and ask for help but only now I've thought of uploading it and showing what I have. (As I said recently I don't even have much of this).

The session I recorded was 2 hours long or so, so cut it and I'll show just two bits of it.

My "dry-orgasms"
This is what I call dry-orgasm. Actually the feeling it's not as good as an ejaculatory orgasm. It's just bits of pleasure that go on for some minutes. I think that this thing, if evolved, would be full-blow dry-orgasms as intense as ejaculatory ones. They're good but I can't call them dry-orgasms.

My big problem, hands-free ejaculation (see end of video)
This is what I think it's my biggest obstacle in the way of dry-os (and super-os farther up). If things start to feel more intense I end up ejaculating (it's hard to explain, I'm not feeling much pleasure, but my body tenses up and eventually after some time I ejaculate, it's pretty much impossible to control).

Any help?

Just watched your first video. What on earth you complaining about? i expected a really lacklustre thing and there you are seemingly having loads of good feelings, and for way more than i can get. Seems you're doing better than you thought eh?

EDIT: actually I'm pissed off, you have better sessions than me, i can get about 20% of what you experience there. Lucky. What devices you using there, look alike whatever ones it is you have removed the tab at the back?

EDIT2: GTFO now!! GRR! you have a super 0 at the end of that second video and then a wet orgasm, DUDE what the hell!? you're doing fine, in fact better than fine.

Lol I didn't want to upset you 🙂

I have good feelings but they're not as good as an orgasm in both cases (only the wet one was an orgasm).
And in the second video I guarantee you I did not have a super-o 🙂

Lol I didn't want to upset you 🙂

I have good feelings but they're not as good as an orgasm in both cases (only the wet one was an orgasm).
And in the second video I guarantee you I did not have a super-o 🙂

then when you are moaning you are betraying the actual intensity of what you are feeling. you are orgasming and it looks very good indeed.

Judging your reaction in the second video you well and truly super o'd and then followed with a ejacualtion. I don't know what you're looking for but i feel it will be fruitless because you already have it.

I moan to help me "relax" and get more into the feelings. The only orgasmic sensation I felt was of the ejaculation. Specially when I look out of control, I am somewhat out of control but I don't feel much from it, it's weird.

I moan to help me "relax" and get more into the feelings. The only orgasmic sensation I felt was of the ejaculation. Specially when I look out of control, I am somewhat out of control but I don't feel much from it, it's weird.

well by comparison, even by that standard, you are miles, leagues even, ahead of myself.

Anyway so what devices are you using there and have you modified them to allow you to put your legs flat like that?

@RSilva I haven't been doing this as long as you have but I feel that my orgasms are getting better and better so just thought I would throw in my thoughts for what they are worth and if it helps you in any way I would be very happy for you. Feel free to ignore them.

I regard this as a form of meditation. The result depends entirely on mental attitude. I don't think it is entirely in the mind but is a combination of your whole nervous system playing well together to give you a pleasurable experience. It's led by your mind and your mental attitude both the underlying emotional state and how you approach the actual orgasm itself, the pleasure signals are generated by your peripheral nervous system, the orgasm itself is triggered and maintained by your thoughts and concentration. If you are distracted, anxious, worried, depressed or just feeling disappointed it inhibits everything.

You obviously have the ability to generate an orgasm. You are maybe stuck because you don't allow yourself to get fully immersed in the orgasmic feelings and allow it to build to greater levels of pleasure. Relaxation (to a certain degree) helps, but I think that the way to teach yourself and your system to experience the higher levels of pleasure is to learn how to tune into the orgasmic feelings as you orgasm, concentrate absolutely on the rising pleasure and hold onto that until you break though to an even greater level of pleasure - it really is, for me anyway, an exercise in pure concentration and getting lost in the experience. I often feel myself pulled into a point just behind my eyes during an orgasm and acting more like an observer to the pleasure my body is generating, but concentrating intensely on it, when I hit that point of concentrating I know I'm in for a great ride.

You might think I'm talking rubbish. It's how I approach it and it works for me.

Anyway so what devices are you using there and have you modified them to allow you to put your legs flat like that?

I don't remember which model I was using, anyway in all models except the progasm ice and progasm junior I cut half the tail so I can use them while being in my back.

Thanks smudgefish. I'm not sure the problem is relaxation, many times I even fall asleep during the sessions.

the problem is there is no problem, its working. You have:

- consistency
- feelings of orgasm, even slight
- enjoyable experience

i cannot claim to have those, in time it will improve for you, i can only hope the same for me.

Hi, just to update my situation and asking questions without having to open up a new thread.

As I say above, and you don't need to read it, I have some erectile disfunction, almost complete lack of libido and premature ejaculation.

I recently went to an urologist and he made me check my hormone levels. This is what I got (I'll only indicate the ones that are not in the "normal" level): I'm 28 years old.

FSH - 1.1 mUI/mL (for adults it should be 1.4-18.1)
Prolactine - 19.8 ng/mL (should be 4-15.2)
Total Testosterone - 1.66 ng/mL ( for 20-49 years old should be 3.3-8.05)
Free Testosterone - 4.8 pg/mL (for 16-39 years old should be 8.9-42.5)

So I think my complete lack of libido may be because of the high prolactine and low testosterone, and also may be the cause of my erectile disfunction (can't get hard from being excited, lose erection in a matter of seconds, etc). Of course next week I'll go to a doctor to show this, I have no idea if the values may be responsible for my sexual problems.

I've read many times that arousal and libido is very important to aneros sessions, so is that possible that my abnormally low libido is hurting my aneros journey? I remember I've felt nice things but they're rare, I think the best things I can get are like a very weak version of a dry orgasm.