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so i’ve recently just had my first super o and now i’m trying new things and wanting too find new things that might interest me.

I’ve been capable of having multiple penile dry o’s and now i’m able too have mini os (anal) and dry penile orgasms back to back while masturbating. it’s very amazing since i love when my dick is teased (tho it still “cums”) and only my ass is getting that “release” . it’s like my dick is literally begging too ejaculate and watching ass my get what it needs.

As good as this sounds i still feel like it’s not enough. I still feel like as a whole i’m missing that satisfaction. For so long i wanted a super o or any type of prostate orgasm and now that i achieved that i want more lol not that it wasn’t satisfying but i know i’m capable of even greater pleasure. I get great sensations out of my nipples, they are always part of masturbation, but i never achieved orgasm from them.

I also have the njoy wand and this has become my “anal masturbation”. what i mean is i usually stay plugged all day. then when i go to have some fun i’ll use the njoy wand and go too town. i’ll add masturbation with this of course not ending in ejaculation.

Has anyone else reached this plateau? Tho in hindsight it hasn’t even been a week lol but i feel like this is where i am. Again not that it’s bad but more of “what now????” i’m still enjoying all of this, I just want too go further and would appreciate some advice.


   
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I don't have specific "technical advice", but one thing I can say is that it would be better to reframe things and not consider what you have reached to be a plateau. 

It's like wanting to learn an instrument, at first you don't know what you're doing, you practice, you feel and hear yourself getting better, then you can play some simple tunes. You continue playing, and one day you finally reach a point where you can say "Hey, I'm pretty good at this!" Now you can play that tune that inspired you to start playing in the first place and that feels great. And you ask yourself, now that I'm "good", what's next? The answer is, keep playing, keep exploring! I once knew a guitarist who went from playing speed metal to playing flamenco and would swear that flamenco was much more "brutal". 

Basically, there's a ton of things you haven't done yet, can you get that nipple orgasm? Can you have a longer, stronger Super-O? Can you do it quicker, with less effort? Can you ejaculate and skip the refractory period? 

I've been at this for a long time and still discover new things almost every session, and I'm still surprised regularly by how weird and crazy things can get.  There's a lot more to discover, and I feel that maybe you're thinking that it cannot just get better and better forever and that most of the exciting exploration part is done, which puts you in that place : 

Posted by: @seekinginerblis96

For so long i wanted a super o or any type of prostate orgasm and now that i achieved that i want more lol not that it wasn’t satisfying but i know i’m capable of even greater pleasure.

This is some kind of "plateau of doubt", you know there's more out there, you can feel it, but can *you* as an individual do this? Are the methods you used to get where you are good enough to carry you further? Since you went this far already, I'm sure you're going in the right direction, so my answer is simply keep at it, keep doing sessions, continue to improve. 

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Again not that it’s bad but more of “what now????”

"What now?" is keep at it until you have a session where you can say "That's exactly where I want to be". And this is still not the end of the adventure, because before you know, you'll ask yourself : "Hey, is there another completely different place where I really want to be? Let's try to find that place." And this will start you on a brand new adventure. 


   
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Hahahaha plateau? You’ve barely started. The orgasms get bigger,longer,more of them. Have you chained super o together? Had 5 in a row? 10 in a row?  Have you super-O from A-Less? From all the massagers? Can you super o in 20 min? 10 mins? 5 mins? 2 mins? Can you do it with nipples? Without? Can your wife make you super-o outside of your control and any toy you use? Super-o from pegging? Super T’s? Super facials! Super everything! Super o tend not to be the same. 

There is so much more out there to learn experience,you’ve found the entrance to the rabbit hole and dived in,but don’t be surprised if you never find the bottom. 🙂

 


   
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Posted by: @helghast

Hahahaha plateau? You’ve barely started. The orgasms get bigger,longer,more of them. Have you chained super o together? Had 5 in a row? 10 in a row?  Have you super-O from A-Less? From all the massagers? Can you super o in 20 min? 10 mins? 5 mins? 2 mins? Can you do it with nipples? Without? Can your wife make you super-o outside of your control and any toy you use? Super-o from pegging? Super T’s? Super facials! Super everything! Super o tend not to be the same. 

There is so much more out there to learn experience,you’ve found the entrance to the rabbit hole and dived in,but don’t be surprised if you never find the bottom. 🙂

 

s-super facial? :O What's that?

 


   
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@helghast

 i would DEFINITELY love to chain super o’s but since my first i still haven’t had another.

 


   
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@zentai

i understand and agree with everything you’re saying i just feel like an orgasmic machine and i can’t get enough lol

 


   
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@seekinginerblis96

Keep your head down,focus,and keep doing what brings pleasure.

 


   
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@seekinginerblis96

Keep your head down,focus,and keep doing what brings pleasure.

 

Yes Sir! :p


   
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I think in a few months time, you will look back at your first comment on this post and realise how much you didn't know or had not experienced. I look at how far I have come in a fairly short space of time and also know there is more to be discovered. That urge that there is more, is your very wise body telling you there is more. As @zentai pointed out in his post, a great many things to try, and then there is your own intuition, our bodies know things our minds do not. Trust it and it will take you places you cannot believe exist.

Have fun.


   
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