Hi guys,
Last week I purchased an Aneros Helix, and I've done 4 two hour sessions. And with all the 4 sessions I did have some nice feelings, but when the feelings ar getting stronger I start to squirt. (I already knew I could do this, so this wasn't a surprise for me). So I think I'm doing pretty good so far, because in the sessions I try to keep the contractions as mild as possible.
In the sessions I try to focus on my prostate only, but when the sensations are getting stronger they seem to be in the top of my penis and it's hard for me to stay focused on the prostate. So when I let the sensations grow I start to have some really nice ejaculating feelings for about 10 secs and after that I'm going to squirt..
I don't mind doing this because it feels great, but it feels like because of my "squirting problem" I'm not able to focus on the sensation at my prostate.
So my question is: Should I try to ignore the squirting feelings so I can focus more on my prostate or should I just enjoy the feelings and see where it gets me. After all, I'm a newbie and I have to learn so much more about my body and prostate.
Just enjoy the feelings but try to relax more...the deeper you relax the slower the build of sexual energy or sensations....the longer you build the stronger the orgasm....have fun
Yeah maybe I'm focussing too much on focussing haha.
Thank you!
It's hard ignoring the penis when first starting out but in time you will learn to concentrate only on the prostate. Also, watch your body positioning when doing Aneros sessions. Try not to put too much pressure on the underside of the penis. Other than that, just enjoy the feelings as you go, BTW Helix Classic was my first Aneros and is still one of my favorites!
@cocorocha I am at same stage then you i think, last session wasn't like the rest, after a weeks break from Masturbation/aneros i did a session after not even 20 minutes i had cum hands free..i had to take it out because holy shit, next session i'll focus on relaxing alot lol
@cocorocha I am at same stage then you i think, last session wasn't like the rest, after a weeks break from Masturbation/aneros i did a session after not even 20 minutes i had cum hands free..i had to take it out because holy shit, next session i'll focus on relaxing alot lol
did you ejaculate or was it a dry orgasm?
Ejaculated, i kept flexing/reverse kegel the front pubic muscles constantly starting from slow pressure to the hardest while relaxed until i cum, but that stimulates the penis.
So my last session i tried something different.
I did slow constant light , ReverseKegel of only the back part of the pelvic muscles(the muscles group right above the anus) while Breathing Out and then slowly transition to a normal BACK part of pelvic floor muscles Kegel going from building a slow constant tension while Breathing In,(It feels like breathing from anus and you should feel the aneros sliding against the prostate) Eventually i couldn't keep the paste anymore, because it felt like my prostate was being tickled to death, felt like moaning real hard because i couldn't resist the pelasure and when my body gave up the charge,i started convulsing .. i'd say i had a bunch of Mini Os.
Id say that the more you learn to resist the tickling and can stay relaxed true the climax reaching higher levels the bigger the discharge of pleasure energie.. , just like when you throw a rock in the water,the bigger the rock the bigger the after shockwaves, and the aftershock waves would be the orgasm
So you basically wanna climax the prostate the most you can using whatever technique works best for you and the prostate eventually just glitches out. Like filling up a water tank until it blows because its too much pleasure.. whit time i'm guessing the water tank builds more resistance so the orgasm get bigger and bigger..
Happiness works the same way, lol
ah thank you very much!
I'm going to try your method tonight