sphincter discomfort

hey golf ball - go see yer PCP (FP or whatever) and tell her ya feel like u gotta lump in yer ass ...

you could well have a hemorrhoid or small fissure in which case ya may wanna lay off the buttplay for a short while using hot soaks or "sitz baths" and some grease like vaseline a coupla times daily

... thereafter spend some time soothing and relaxing yer asshole teasing yer way in gently stretchin' in each of all four quadrants to relax that powerful sphincter muscle

not knowing what's goind on is gonna kill yer sessions

- rip

I did myself a sitz bath yesterday and it really helped with the old rectum pain, things feel very tight down there and Darwin is right it hurts even trying to put a well lubed finger up there. Bowel movements agrevate it for sure as the muscles are contracted.

I think time is a healer with this one and plenty of warm baths and vasceline is the only two things going near my bum for a week. I will then follow everyones advise there after and see where I go from there.

Darwin - thanks for the advise on the crystal wand, but for now anything near that region is a no go, once back to health I will drop you a line. I was not aware of the term CPP now I have looked it up, it is clear where my issue lies. Thank you

i agree with ripthejacker that you need to be sure the problem isn't hemorrhoids.

darwin

i tried hem cream yesterday morning and it sent the area into a complete spasm so it seems I am very tender down there. I will rely on baths and mild healing creams for the weekend and see how it goes, not a lot I think doctors can do for sore bum holes other than over the counter treatments.

I had a doctor inspection 3 weeks ago when my prostitus flaired up and since then I have been suffering so my guess is I got a bit bruised and then have agrevated it.

2 years a go I had a full up the bum camera inspection so feel I should be in good health otherwise.

The majority of Hem products are for external use only and some products vary from country to country (what's sold in the U.S. may be OK while the same named product sold in Canada/UK may not be OK for use inside the outer sphincter). However, some specific products are OK for use inside the outer sphincter while others are OK for internal use, inside the inner sphincter.

Check the label. If the product insert isn't around, check the website for the product. However, make sure the country where the product was sold matches the country targeted by the website.

A thin swipe of U.S. Prep-H ointment (not cream) on the stem of any Aneros tool work fine for me when I get a tad of sphincter irritation.

hth rook

Hi

I am using anusol plus which comes with an internal applicator. My treatment thus far is hot bath follwed by a good squeeze of said product. Increased fibre intake, lay off all internal massages as this is what caused the flair up, and sit it out. Hopefully in 10 days my bum will be back to as it was.

I will then look at Darwins advise for more appropriate treatment of CPP as I dont think this great device you guys get so much pleasure from (speaking with jealousy) will be for me 🙁

My forray into this was for pain management and not sexual pleasure although that would have been awesome bonus, so I guess I will have to sort one issue out before moving onto pleasurable things.

sitting-

i think you need a clear diagnosis from a doctor. none of us here are doctors. my recommendations are based on you HAVING cpps. but now from what you are saying i don't know what you have.

so, i think this discussion should cease until you can tell us what your diagnosis is.

darwin

sittingonagolfball,

I have to agree with 'darwin' -

i think you need a clear diagnosis from a doctor.

If you already had a case of prostatitis and are still suffering painful symptoms 3 weeks after your medical exam, it is time to have some further examinations to determine the root cause of this pain. Use of any of the Aneros products should be avoided until you and your doctor are satisfied you are back to normal physical health.

i tried hem cream yesterday morning and it sent the area into a complete spasm so it seems I am very tender down there. I will rely on baths and mild healing creams for the weekend and see how it goes, not a lot I think doctors can do for sore bum holes other than over the counter treatments.

I had a doctor inspection 3 weeks ago when my prostitus flaired up and since then I have been suffering so my guess is I got a bit bruised and then have agrevated it.

2 years a go I had a full up the bum camera inspection so feel I should be in good health otherwise.

hey golfballsitter - in reading yer post from yesterday i am guessing you have some chronic prostatitis or other chronic prostate problem ...

chronic prostatitis is an inflammatory condition that seems to respond to a long course of or even chronic suppressive use of antibiotics although the prostate fluid rarely grows any pathogenic organism or germ on culture

i can tell you that other than having objective knowledge and experience that even an anxious male ass can be penetrated and dilated with a "loving and gentle foreplay-like" approach i was and still am relatively averse to anything going into MY asshole ...

my first anal experience was with my progasm about five months back and i had no prostate related feelings of erotic bliss and sub-ecstasy until late february although fairly soon after achieving progasm penetration - with plenty of loving "foreplay" each time - i did obtain pleasurable and arousing sensations related to the stretch and intromission of the progasm through the sphincters and soon after an "enjoyable discomfort" of fullness much as having an erection trapped down the leg of a tight pair of levis or someone grabbing yer boner from behind during sex play i think you know what i am trying to say here

... anyway it was months later that i experienced 'the joy of prostate pleasure" - and i have never personally had a prostate issue or any dysfunction or illness of which i am aware

since you HAVE had some prostate problems it is likely that it may take you some additional time to rewire and disconnect your body's memory of prostate discomfort and find and connect the pleasure pathways

my advice would be to see yer doc - or a urologist - and advise him or her of your history and your symptoms and ask if you could have some chronic inflammation ...

i would level with the doc about the aneros and let him or her know that it is designed for self prostate massage ... have the doc check yer gland and ask that it be massaged if it's not contraindicated at the time of the exam butt don't expect it to be pleasurable

... if you pass that test you should be able to proceed on yer quest for all the good things described in these forums - i guarantee it will take some time butt it will be well worth it ==> converting a problem in yer loins (prostate problems interfere with sexual pleasure even penile orgasm and ejaculation) to a source of indescribable pleasure.

- rip

Hi RIP,

Sorry for my delayed reply, but I wanted to get all facts together before coming back on the forum and troubling you all.

I did indeed go to see the doctor on Tuesday and have been FULLY checked out, she (yep a she) said I had no signs of any prostate related issues and that if I had a protate issue she would not have been able to bully my gland as much as she did without me flying out the window!

The diagnosis was as Darwin suspected a mixture of hemeroids or plain soreness brought on by the IBS I had been suffering, the constant anal play had simply inflamed a pre exiting condition of a tired ass from going to the loo so often. The medication prescribed was Anusol HC prescription strength that has brought everything other than of course my (fully diagnosed with camera right through my bowls) IBS.

Oh she did say my high stress levels most likely do not help to the tighness I often feel and sitting down so much for work really does not help matters either.

So I am kind of in recovery mode right now, I am taking things carefully and not doing anything much down there for now, but in time will introduce myself to the pleasures you all have the great experience of which I look forward soon to sharing with you.

The botton line (oh hey theres a joke) to anyone new reading my tales is, if you have a bit of an inflamed ass wait until that goes down before stuffing anything up there.

I will return I hope very soon with tales of backdoor pleasures.

Hi RIP,

Sorry for my delayed reply, but I wanted to get all facts together before coming back on the forum and troubling you all.

I did indeed go to see the doctor on Tuesday and have been FULLY checked out, she (yep a she) said I had no signs of any prostate related issues and that if I had a protate issue she would not have been able to bully my gland as much as she did without me flying out the window!

The diagnosis was as Darwin suspected a mixture of hemeroids or plain soreness brought on by the IBS I had been suffering, the constant anal play had simply inflamed a pre exiting condition of a tired ass from going to the loo so often. The medication prescribed was Anusol HC prescription strength that has brought everything other than of course my (fully diagnosed with camera right through my bowls) IBS.

Oh she did say my high stress levels most likely do not help to the tighness I often feel and sitting down so much for work really does not help matters either.

So I am kind of in recovery mode right now, I am taking things carefully and not doing anything much down there for now, but in time will introduce myself to the pleasures you all have the great experience of which I look forward soon to sharing with you.

The botton line (oh hey theres a joke) to anyone new reading my tales is, if you have a bit of an inflamed ass wait until that goes down before stuffing anything up there.

I will return I hope very soon with tales of backdoor pleasures.

chief sitting ball - glad for you that yer prostate is healthy ...

mine is as well and it took several months to wake up its pleasure pathways so when you do get back in the saddle you oughta do fine

... just get those hemorrhoids cooled down - i wouldn't worry about the irritable bowel as it doesn't generally involve the rectum - but ya wanna get it under control so you don't poop yerself and yer bed when u hide an aneros in there

i'm a pro-am or am-pro(?) [progasm amateur] butt i think you oughta work with a smaller unit when you do get back in the game

... good luck

- rip

Hi RIP,

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I did indeed go to see the doctor on Tuesday .... snip ...
The diagnosis was as Darwin suspected a mixture of hemeroids or plain soreness brought on by the IBS I had been suffering, the constant anal play had simply inflamed a pre exiting condition of a tired ass from going to the loo so often. The medication prescribed was Anusol HC prescription strength that has brought everything other than of course my (fully diagnosed with camera right through my bowls) IBS.

BTDT. I'm another of the few gents in this Forum that have had a 'liberal education' in IBS. Remembering back to my early 'enthusiasm' for the Aneros, I also triggered a near month-long battle with IBS. ... had been having five or more sessions a week all with liberal amounts of K-Y jelly and ID Glide. I took a rest for a week; then, shifted away from water based and the IBS subsided.

There are plenty of alternative choices. hth .... rook