Some progress...but...

i have the same question about is there a rihgt or any special angle to insert it, i always feel its not hitting the right spot... i guess im just going to give it another try

xbukowski,

Which model do you own?

BF Mayfield

Hey! Its the Aneros mgx...

It's a little unusual for the MGX to slip out, once in, it usually stays there. There is no special angle that one needs to use either. Once the MGX is inserted the abutment tab should be contacting your perineum (the area between your scrotum and anus). The looped handle should be on your backside. The orientation of the tab can shift a bit laterally, particularly if your perineum has some lube on it. You should endeavor to keep it dry. Generally you want the tab placed in the center of your perineum. The center is the best position for purposes of pivoting and it's also most often the location of the "sweet spot" (perineal acupressure spot).

Beyond that it's possible that you may be experiencing peristaltic contractions in your rectum that are pushing the MGX outward. When you notice the MGX being pushed out, do you experience any discomfort? Peristaltic contractions are involuntary contractions and there isn't much that you can do about them outside of using voluntary contractions to counteract them. Believe it or not, that can work in your favor. The push-pull of rectal vs. anal contraction are antagonistic with one another, this has been known to produce some powerful sensations.

Lastly, are you noticing any irritation at all? If so, you may want to look at the type of lube that you're using. You may have read around here that lubes formulated with glycerin can produce an "urge to purge". Sometimes this results in peristaltic contractions as well. If this sounds familiar you may to switch to a glycerin free lube.

BF Mayfield

Hi!
I tried some more things, and perhaps I just try it to hard. I read the "beginners tips" from rumel (whom he sent to me) and looked through the learning center. I think i try it just like i have to, plus not following any rules and just massaging like my body likes it.
Should the p-tab always push hard on my perineum or is it possible that the aneros stroking in and out? In this case the p-tab also goes away from my rear?! And which muscles should I use? I noticed that my sphincter muscle (to push away when going to the toilette) works really good and the aneros then pushes more firmly against my prostate. But after a while i cant hold it longer and have to relax.
Sorry for the beginners-questions ;(