Somewhere in this forum (and there are a number of similar posts) there was a post from a user that goes to sleep with his Aneros inserted -with good results. At the time, I thought…uh…really?! Who’d do that? Well…apparently me! I’ve tried it twice since reading that post.
First time I tried it, I woke up a few hours later and removed it -nothing! I had few expectations it would. After a “dud” session yesterday I thought “what the heck”, I’m still lubed-up, and I inserted the Helix and fell asleep. I awoke about about 3 hours later and was already deep into a session. Surprised, I started “working with it” in an awake and stimulated state (I’ll add that during my “do nothing” daytime sessions, it often takes me an hour of relaxing and breathing before I start to sense a “beginning” and some pleasurable sensations). For this session, I just stayed motionless and allowed the sensations to continue to grow…and they did! I achieved the deepest sense of pleasure I have received since starting with an Aneros product 6 months ago. No need to go into specifics about my experience; they are similar to what you read on many posts on this forum. 😉
I don’t feel like I crossed over the line into Super-O territory (how are these things defined with words!?)…but I didn’t care. It felt like huge leap for me, and I was thankful for what had taken place. It’s an experience that I hope I can repeat and expand upon.
I’m not sure I could have gotten to this state (currently) through daytime use -I’m always thinking and evaluating my Aneros experience while fully awake -even though I do my damnedest not to. My hope is that as I continue the “re-wiring” process, my body will start connecting the dots and recognizing these sensations, and I’ll be able to get to this space during a daytime session.
I sincerely feel that while sleeping, I was able to let my body have it’s way without the awake mind observing and evaluating the process…until it was time for it to kick in. I look forward to trying this technique again.
Possibly for other “thinkers” and guys having difficulty letting go, this might be something to consider. It sure has changed my thinking about what is, and might be, possible with this amazing product. What a learning experience it is!
-Dexter
@Dexter What a great post! I'm curious and I'm sure other guys are too about your 'near Super-O' experience. What was it like? Do you remember any details? Since they are all so different, even for me, maybe you experienced something unique to you!
Great post. I sleep with my Helix very often but wake up 3-4 hours later as you did. At this time I'am too tired to do anything. Then I pull it out and fell asleep. How can you "work with it" staying motionless?
Thanks, goldenboy. Quite a departure from where I started with my first post, no? Ha! Now I'm in the let 'er rip mode.
Okay...
at the risk of sounding redundant to other user's experiences...
here you go:
When I became aware that something was going on internally and woke up, the feeling was similar to what I've experienced in the past -possibly what others call P-waves --only they seemed to have more of a "nudging" feeling to them, like "okay, Ive got you awake now, do something with it". I breathed into it and noticed the pulsing/tingling in my prostrate/anal area started to increase (an understatement!) and the pleasure waves went from being, well, pleasant, to being really intense. The waves sort of went through my body - sometimes more in my abdomen, other times flowing into my hands/arms or legs. My heart rate really increased - scared me a bit.
Same is true for the body spasm , which were strong enough to shake the bed (woke up the dog). I posted a topic a couple of months ago where I talked about my fear of these tremors and worried about not being able to control them (IF they happened, Ha!) ...so it's pretty remarkable that I was able to let them flow, and even felt that they enhanced the experience because they felt like they were part of the letting go.
The pleasure waves I refer to were pretty strong and went on for quite a while... one after another -probably 20 minutes. I'd think they were diminishing, and then they'd start up again. The whole event lasted maybe 45 minutes. As intense as the experience was , I still had the feeling that I was very close to an edge that I wanted to cross over -into something more like what others refer to as a Super-O . BUT, Ive learned that the minute I start looking for, working toward, or expecting something more to happen , I lose whatever it was. Hopefully that "cross over" will happen down the line.
I definitely had a feeling for when the session was over -something I wasn't clear about before. It just sort of went from raging stream to flowing creek...it still had nice feelings, but more like a pleasant finish vs. feeling like there was more left to do. I figured I was done and removed the Helix. The experience was much more than I could have imagined ...so much, in fact, that it's kept me aroused all morning when I think about it.
I have to say that I have never had an Aneros experience that was the same as another. Its amazing how unique each one is, some good, some great, some duds. I never really know what to expect. I've found that doing the "do nothing" method is the only thing that works for me. When I try to work with contractions, or breathing, etc., my sessions quickly become controlled (not in a good way), expectant, and frustrating. I really have to stay in the allowing/relaxed/observer state, but that's just me, for now.
Thanks,
Dexter
Hi amaz. I guess the "work with it" had to do with expanding the feelings, breathing, observing, and then allowing. Not so much physical as mental.
@Dexter Now that's a great post!! Thanks for taking the time to compose it! BTW, I didn't read anything about moaning or crying during your session; have you experienced either? I find that some of my most extreme sessions are almost always accompanied by a fair amount of either. Keep up the posts; we'll enjoy reading them!
Ha! Goldenboy...somehow I half expected that question, having read other posts of yours. Nope...not yet... I haven't let go of control of that aspect yet. Never say never. 😉
@Dexter I hear you; if you have any tendency towards either, don't hesitate or hold-back. You can 'muffle' or control them but I wouldn't suppress them! They are part of the ride!