Sleeping with the aneros, did help you progress?

I have slept with a butt plug before and I thought it would give the muscles a good workout/stretch during sleep. Yes, I slept. But overnight, the lube dried up and my anus was sore in the morning. I don't think it really did anything. Plus, I really had to fart. Ha! So, no, I don't think I'll be trying that with the Aneros. I believe conscious focused manipulation of the device is the key to rewiring, and sleeping empty should be considered a genuine rest phase to recharge, rebuild, and rewire.

Thanks @thugofalltrades out of curiosity what does your conscious focused manipulation consist of, ie your technique?

didnt help me at all, just crappy sleep everytime I tried it.

It's hard to generalize a direct path to rewiring, even with the wiki. Though I found the Tug-of-War technique useful, I still continue to progress as my muscles gain strength, and new forms of control emerge. Different users have strong opinions about how much voluntary intervention you should be doing to propagate an orgasm, but here's my technique:

Per Tug-of-War...

I hold an anal contraction (without bringing in the PC muscle), then slowly bring in the PC contraction until a "fluttering" occurs. All the time, I focus mentally on my anus--what it looks like, envisioning it contracting--pumping. In about 10-20 minutes of on-and-off focus, I actually start pumping. When I decide to have a super-o, I hold the PC contraction, interrupting the feedback loop. Then I can feel basically an internal eruption as the Aneros centers over what I think is my prostate and I plunge into convulsions for about 20 seconds. When I can't handle any more convulsing, I return to resting, releasing the harder contraction. This brings me back to the anus pumping which tapers off until I'm ready to start again.

I think it's helped me rewire. I sleep with the eupho syn occasionally and wake up feeling good usually. Sometimes really good 🙂

That said I have to be in the mood or it's distracting. I've done this many times in the almost 2 years. Have to use enough lube, shea butter for me. I don't like sleeping with my other toys other than the peridise.

I was/am worried about it somehow causing me to to desensitise my prostate by leaving it in, it being in and putting pressure there and my prostate getting to 'used' it.

I was/am worried about it somehow causing me to to desensitise my prostate by leaving it in, it being in and putting pressure there and my prostate getting to 'used' it.

My experience mostly! It seems success is better achieved by teasing yourself with the aneros, rather than overloading your senses with too much stimulation!

TG

I often slept with my helix syn inserted. I found that it helped me rewire as I went through the first few months of my journey. At first, I could feel it in me. After a couple months, it would wake me up in the middle of the night with a few pleasurable feelings. It still does that 1 year later but now I don't feel it at all when I wake up.

When I started my journey I slept with helix and eupho but mostly helix. It woke me up most nights. It gave me aneros naked in public dreams and woke me with great feeling.Sometimes i slept right thru till early morning when i would doze and have great sessions.
Yes i think it helped with rewireing but also I could not help it my brain and body told me you have tp sleep with it tonight and then other nights it said no!
I oftern fall asleep with Maximus or progasm ice even now but only for a few hours at most/
There has been a few times when i a sure i had a super o in my sleep and woke feeling like i could climb a mountain. It can really refresh you and if also it can go the otherway and get you down coz of no sleep.
Peridise is good too to sleep with.
Word of warning though. coat the aneros with vaseline and the water base over the top of that and if your a novice i would shoot 3 to 5 ml of water base up your rear for a all nighter. If you dry out it will get sore but no enough to be unbearable.Vaseline does not dry out.
If you need to break wind push the aneros handle to the side until the air passes by.
I dont have the urge to sleep with the aneros now i am rewired but it does happen by accident sometimes.
Of all the aneros products Maximus is the best for long session including sleeping IMHO.
Its movement is gentle and it penetrates deep, is not too big or too small and the tab is comfortable for the long haul.
If your not a seasoned user and even if you are the progasm can make you real sore so suggest against it but i have fallen asleep with it in and survived many times.
If there is the possibility of falling asleep use vaseline, you wont regret it then.
There is a bloke on this forum that can not sleep without having the aneros in but i can not remember who it is.

I have been an Aneros user for 1 year, 3 months now. I have the Helix Trident, the MGX Trident, and the Eupho Syn Classic. I have had very little success in this time and have tried a lot of different methods to get my prostate going, but it has been pretty frustrating.

I have slept with the Aneros in about 10 times in total, without any sort of noticeable effects. Last night, I figured I would try again and slept with my Eupho. This time was a little different. I slept the whole night without being awoken, but I woke up without any discomfort and a slightly pleasurable feeling in my prostate. I tried a few kegel contractions and touched my nipples a little, but it didn’t lead to anything. So, I removed the Eupho, got in the shower, and started my morning routine.

This feels like a baby step, but I feel somewhat encouraged as it is better than any other sleeping experience I have had so far. I’m hoping this might be a small step toward awakening my prostate.

Sleeping with aneros is what helped me back into the game. I figured out a breathing method and did tons of exercises and finally lead up to a ground shaking super o. I have heard that great sex can cause a type of amnesia...no idea if that is real, perhaps, but there was also a lot of negativity in my life/marriage at the time, too. It's like I forgot everything I learned and I got too frustrated to get any pleasure at all out of the practice. I resorted to a modified version of the do nothing method, which involved going to sleep with the device in me. 

I have awakened to orgasms many times now. Nothing like my first super, but wonderful none the less. Sleeping with aneros got me going again.

Posted by: @regal13

Sleeping with aneros is what helped me back into the game. I figured out a breathing method and did tons of exercises and finally lead up to a ground shaking super o.

Can you share more details on your breathing method?   It might help some members.

Tks

G

Can you share more details on your breathing method?   It might help some members.

 

Tks

G

Certainly be happy to share what I think it was, but now when I try, it feels like trying to ride a bicycle with oblong wheels and only one pedal. Seriously, it was all working beautifully, I could feel myself progressing every day until the big O finally hit, then I was never able to get back to that particular mountain. Not yet, anyway. And I have been nursing some cracked ribs back to health for several months... that's a drag. 

I don't think I was doing anything special compared to what you may read here or on the wiki site, but I share what I can for the cause of potential orgasms. 

I had Aneros devices for many years and had enjoyed them, but never came close to a super O. I have no idea what finally triggered me to start doing kegals, but I did. I started doing them a lot at work and I was noticing some pleasure down there from the exercises. My brain reached way back to the original "liner notes" in the Aneros box, and since I had the opportunity to practice, I started taking deep, deep breaths while exercising. I was trying to do ten reps and it was feeling awesome. That was when I started believing there was something more to the super o and Aneros.

I started reading more and more and I came across some notes on using the Aneros Slightest Touch. I think it said something about breathing in while contracting, holding for a moment, then pushing against the contraction with your diaphragm almost as you would to expell waste. The contractions are not completely relaxed, only lessened to a base level.

Eventually this brought me to where I could completely relax and as the device tried to drift back to "neutral" position, a strong p wave would hit and it eventually started working itself. I tried to keep up the breathing, but it felt like I was cresting the hill on a roller coaster. That's where I just relaxed and let it take me. No idea how long that lasted, but it started back up again a few times. 

I was listening to some shamanic drum mix on YouTube that I had been practicing breathing to, and it seemed to work in perfect rhythm to my breath. I wish I could find that loop again, it was awesome and I think it would trigger me again, but I have not reached that high up the mountain since. I have managed to have several orgasms since, just by waking up to them, and they are great, but nothing like what I experienced with the breathing and meditation music. 

All the best to your journeys, friends.

Posted by: @regal13

I was listening to some shamanic drum mix on YouTube that I had been practicing breathing to, and it seemed to work in perfect rhythm to my breath. I wish I could find that loop again, it was awesome and I think it would trigger me again, but I have not reached that high up the mountain since. I have managed to have several orgasms since, just by waking up to them, and they are great, but nothing like what I experienced with the breathing and meditation music. 

I don't know that specific drum mix, but I had a very nice session once with a shamanic music session performed by Temple sounds, also on YouTube. It was an almost 2 hours opening chakra music session involving tibetans bowls (Crystal Chakra Meditation with Antique Tibetan Singing Bowls). I remember feeling nice tingles in my prostate with each sounds produced with the bowls.

It helped to relax, anyway.

Have a great journey @regal13!

@Morexp, Thanks for the aural recording reference. I've added that meditation recording to the listings in Aneros Aural Accompaniment - WIKI listings?.

Good Vibes to You!

I sleep with the helix,and woke up pleasured,I sleep with a progasm and woke up to feeling like I was raped in my sleep ,,I must say I dont think I will do it again .

Hey @euphemistic, how DO you do it? I've tried sleeping with little Eupho a couple of times, and can't get close to sleep with it constantly in intense action.

@wallybanger I had a good laugh when you asked about the Eupho...I get it, but it has become my favorite sleeping partner. I might not do it if I needed to be up early in the morning, but but I rather like the feeling of being awakened and realizing that that thing is turned on and I am getting ready to be washed in pleasure. Then comes the early morning time about 5:30 or 6am...that's when a lot of the real fun begins. 

SOwithoutaneros gave me some advice in the "what's with the urge to stretch" thread about recognizing the feelings, SO said it better, but it made a difference for me. It the Eupho starts working and wakes me up, I start relaxing and listening closer to the sensations in my body. I can't always regain control, but when I can relax, it goes into slow motion in and out. There's a lot of pleasure there.

Posted by: @regal13

@wallybanger I had a good laugh when you asked about the Eupho...I get it, but it has become my favorite sleeping partner. I might not do it if I needed to be up early in the morning, but but I rather like the feeling of being awakened and realizing that that thing is turned on and I am getting ready to be washed in pleasure. Then comes the early morning time about 5:30 or 6am...that's when a lot of the real fun begins. 

SOwithoutaneros gave me some advice in the "what's with the urge to stretch" thread about recognizing the feelings, SO said it better, but it made a difference for me. It the Eupho starts working and wakes me up, I start relaxing and listening closer to the sensations in my body. I can't always regain control, but when I can relax, it goes into slow motion in and out. There's a lot of pleasure there.

Regal of SOWOaneros.  Would you guys provide a link to the thread that SOWOaneros authoredjon the urge to stretch.  I am having trouble finding it on this jumpy and difficult to use website software.  

Am I the only person here who finds the site software difficult and jumpy to navigate?  I have a Dell laptop PC and that may be the problem. But I have no such jumpiness and time delay problems on any other website with this laptop.

Thank for the link to the urge to stretch 

@turnrow

https://community.aneros.com/community/general-discussion/whats-with-the-urge-to-stretch/

@turnrow

On mobile with an Android device, I get the same problems you describe and it's only with this site. It's mildly infuriating to compose anything more complex than a simple post without links or quotes and really is a test of endurance sometimes. On an older desktop PC it's working fine and is MUCH more pleasant to use.

I've slept with my Progasm and Helix Trident. I've slept with a number of butt plugs too. Never had anything spectacular happen doing such. I read somewhere once that a butt plug can be thought of as an anal pacifier. Just having it in can be relaxing.

Trick I find is using an oil based lube. Something that will last all night. Coconut oil is good. Crisco rocks! Getting dried out and having to pull that plug can be very uncomfortable.