Sittin on the big one

Do you remember phonograph turntables (if you are old enough) If you accidentally touched the needle with your finger, or dropped the tone arm while the volume was up, the sound was deafening. That's how you should think of the movements an Aneros needs to bring you to the top. Not huge movement, tiny, almost microscopic ones.

Hello, hiker, and welcome to the forum. You'll find a lot of support and great stuff here concerning our favorite toys.

Congrats on going right for the Big Guy Aneros. HA....I took a while, but I really enjoy my Progasm, as well. I have four different models, and I suggest that as you rewire, you'll want several as well. Each has its own special something that magnifies the pleasure of our prostate massage.

So, a couple of comments. First of all, if you're going to continue to sit on your Progasm, please be careful. It's a big toy, and you can actually hurt yourself if you're not careful. Personally, I have removed the K-tab from mine, which makes sitting on it much, much better. I truly believe that doing so also allows the Progasm MUCH better direct contact with my prostate. Man can I pump out the precum with that baby! I love to do that. If you decide to follow suit, cut if off short and polish the area well so as to not leave any rough spots...don't want to tear up some sensitive tissue, now do we?

Second. You have discovered one of the most important keys to enjoying any of the Aneros models. SUBTLE MOVEMENTS. Too many guys, I fear, are way too active when using Aneros. It's about stroking, cajoling, caressing the prostate, not bludgeoning it! I believe that if you continue to develop these sensations you're reporting with subtle and gentle persuasion of your prostate, you'll move along very quickly to the reward you seek.

A word of warning: Simply relax and let the sensations come to you. You simply cannot "make" it happen. It's a Zen-kinda thing, Hiker...you already have the ability within you to bring forth multiple orgasms, now just let it happen. You mention that you've only used it a few times...be patient, man, be patient....I'd say you're making excellent progress. So slow down, and ESPECIALLY when you're starting to get feedback from your prostate, just simply relax and enjoy.

One "tip" I can give to you and all, is that when you begin to feel pleasant sensations, DO NOT get more aggressive...RATHER, try to simply maintain that exact level of pleasure. Do so by concentrating on your breathing, and gentle contractions. Try to HOLD whatever level of pleasure you're experiencing without building it RIGHT THEN. Relax, breathe in and out, maintaining your "level" of enjoyment. It will build, maybe not this time, but each session will build on the last. Remember, you're releasing something already within you, not bringing a new sensation into being.

You are definitely on the right track! Just remember to relax, encourage feedback, and don't reach for something larger until you fully explore where you are right now.

Peace, brother, and success on your journey.

Cockadoodle