I'm a single 22 year old African American male. I just purchased my first Aneros a few days ago. I'm attracted to all races of women, but I'm attracted to black women the most. The black community, and American society in general, seems to have very closed minded views on anything that has to do with a mans' backside. Does anyone have any experience dating after making Aneros a part of your life? If so, how many women, specifically black women, were okay with a man using a prostate toy?.............I'm going to pursue the super-O whether women are okay with it or not. I just want to have a better idea of what lies ahead.
Wishing you all the best, and good for you to decide to forge ahead and explore the Aneros world! We're here if you have questions!
TG
Yes. I remember when I first got an aneros years ago now, that I was pretty terrified about anyone finding out. I actually found the aneros after researching male orgasms and how intense they could be, after I started to get jealous of the insane g spot orgasms my girlfriend at the time was having when we had sex. Over time, my girlfriends would discover my butt plugs or aneros or dildo or whatever, and a that would prompt a conversation that would usually lead to better sex frankly. It's true that lots of people are pretty closed minded when it comes to these things, but I think you would be surprised. I hooked up with an Afrcan American girl a few times that was all about getting in my butt, and I had a session with another that pegged me with a double dildo. While I think tht you're right about attitudes in general, there is plenty of hope! I'm married now to a woman that is completely used to me having something up there during sex every time.... I can't imagine having to hide it.
Yogic, here's a blog that may interest you by a married couple who are members here. http://www.allkinksconsidered.com/