Hey, thought I'd share a trick I figured out quite some time ago, but that I've never seen discussed anywhere. This is something I do every time I have an aneros session. It has been a game changer for me. It also works great for aless. It sounds (and frankly kind of is) pretty ridiculous, but I can vouch for its effectiveness. The benefits of the technique are twofold. The things we do for pleasure...
Anyway, before I insert aneros, I use strong duct tape to spread wide my ass cheeks, and keep them spread. Four pieces of tape, two per cheek, attached close to, but not touching, my asshole.
This will ensure that the aneros reaches it's maximal potential for swiveling, twitching and bouncing. My butt cheeks are out of the way and the aneros can move totally freely.
In addition to better freedom of movement, the pulling of the tape will cause the muscles around my sphincter to flutter. The outward-pulling tension that the tape produces on your sphincter and surrounding muscles will cause fatigue in the muscles after a while, which will result in the muscles to starting making small twitching and jumping motions. Involuntary muscle contractions which are very pleasurable.
Personally I've also found that using the duct tape in combination with bearing down very slightly while your aneros is inserted gives quite amazing results.
Hope this helps!
I've got to ask, though it may sound weird!.... i cant quite visualise it, where the tape goes up to etc, can you post a pic (private if like)? Would really be good of you.
No worries if not though! cheers
Duct tape... you probably have very smooth hairless butt cheeks LOL
@ggringo yes no way I’m taping my hairy ass!
there is tape meant for sex, it adheres pretty well without leaving residue and is maybe even reusable…
i just spread my cheeks with my hands. I recommend massaging your asshole around the toy, it creates lots of flutters for me.
I find that sitting on my heels creates that same butt spreading, without needing tape. It also aligns things pretty well down for optimal device movement.
Personally I've also found that using the duct tape in combination with bearing down very slightly while your aneros is inserted gives quite amazing results.
Bearing down or pushing just a tiny bit is an important element, and one that I think is often neglected. We need to take advantage of the whole range of motion we can get with the device, and if someone is just pulling and relaxing, and never pushes, then he's missing some of that potential movement.
@theeagleandwolf reach with your hands behind your back and pull apart your ass cheeks. Now replace your hands with tape.
i just spread my cheeks with my hands. I recommend massaging your asshole around the toy, it creates lots of flutters for me.
I find it hard to get my full body relaxed if my arm muscles have to stay flexed in order to keep the spread hold. Much easier for me at least if I can achieve the same results no-handed.
I find that sitting on my heels creates that same butt spreading, without needing tape. It also aligns things pretty well down for optimal device movement.
Interesting position. Is it comfortable? I find that I have a way higher succes of getting into deep orgasmic states if I'm laying down and can just melt into the orgasm.
Bearing down or pushing just a tiny bit is an important element, and one that I think is often neglected. We need to take advantage of the whole range of motion we can get with the device, and if someone is just pulling and relaxing, and never pushes, then he's missing some of that potential movement.
Agreed! Just the slightest pushing is needed. The flutters deal with the rest.
There isn’t any way I would duct tape my ass apart. That’s just wrong.
Seems like an odd place to draw the line and a bit narrow minded for someone willing to explore prostate stimulation. Just letting people know what works for me. I suggest you try it before you knock it.
@super_fungi_o I’ll take your word on it. Thanks for sharing your ideas! That is what nice about this site to share things. Cheers happy cracking.
It might not be quite as effective, but I spread by cheeks apart while lying on my back, and there is a difference. I would try your duct tape hack, but hairy ass that I am...
Interesting position. Is it comfortable? I find that I have a way higher succes of getting into deep orgasmic states if I'm laying down and can just melt into the orgasm.
Yes, it's comfortable, for a while at least. I'm sure this depends a lot on ankle flexibility.
It's good to generate some strong feelings, but I can't really have sustained orgasms in this position. I always end laying down, but it's also fun to explore other positions during the build up to the Os, so I'll do stretches and switch positions often.
Interesting. I'm new to all this, so this is something I hadn't considered trying.
I think that opening butt on both sides and fixing it with tape allows the aneros toy to move more freely. Also I think it can create a more erotic imagination in our minds. Your body may be awakened to a state where it can pull in more of the toys.
It can also put us in a more passive or submissive mood. My butt is hairless anyway, I'll try this asap.
/Excuse me for my bad English/