Today during an Aless session it occurred to me that maybe I should view my sessions not as an isolated experience, but as one part of something that can be cultivated over many days.
I know this ties in with the view that awakening your prostate and rewiring is something that takes years (or weeks/months for the lucky ones and decades for the not so lucky), and that it can't be rushed, yet at the same time I've always viewed my session as independent experiences that overlap only in the sense that each one is slowly changing my brain/body connection.
However in hindsight the one and only time I achieved a hands free, non ejaculatory orgasm (I'm not sure if it was a super O but it was unlike anything I've experienced) was when I spent 3 days building an extremely high level of arousal and awareness, with each session being 1-2 hours long. It seemed like each day would heighten my base level.
Out of all the great advice on the forum, I feel like this is one part that might be missing (or that I've failed to pick up). It also ties in nicely with how you need to change your perception that orgasms are no longer about ejaculation and instead should be viewed as something that has no defined ending.
Thoughts and opinions most welcome.
Over the many years I have Anerosed I have come to appreciate the benefit - impact it imparts, that includes enhanced sexual awareness - arousal and expanded sexual performance. After 14 years of use I have stronger ejaculations, more precum, and much more copious semen flow. I learned to savor the rich and deep feelings of desire that sustained Aneros use sustains in me. As a result I maintain a regimen of doing A Less every night and Aneros every week. This schedule keeps me amped up sexually 24 / 7.
It’s whatever you want it to be,each mans journey is his own,and it’s made of whatever he has constructed it with.
However,I don’t see my Aneros sessions overlap,or build in steps over days. I’m actually starting to think my active sex life with my wife is what’s starting to link together,I’ve found the day after a sex session,not a quickie,I’m chomping at the bit to ride my Aneros,and my super-o is either more intense or so much different than before,I think my testosterone is higher the day after after reading a study where 2 groups were tested for T. The masturbating group showed no effects on t-levels,but the group who’d had intercourse the night before tested higher t-levels.
I used to worry sex was holding my journey back,but now I think it’s working for it instead.
I slightly disagree with orgasms not being defined by ejaculation,as they,for me,most certainly are,yes you learn orgasm and ejacualtion are two separate events,and that prostate orgasms are very different and virtually limitless. But although a super-o and a TO aren’t in the same league,I could never give up the TO with the wife,the intimacy I share with her in the bedroom just doesn’t come from the Aneros.
i think you did have a super -o from what you say,if what you do works for you that’s great.
good luck with your continued journey.
To me prostate stimulation including Aless already is a multiple day activity, whether deciding for a 40-days-SR-challenge or my usual one to two weeks of holding back my ejaculations. But referring to my experiences I wouldn’t say there is only a linear increasing of arousal, instead I feel it coming in waves with ups and downs but all in all with an upward tendency. Having a release during an Up let myself shoot through the roof. Comparing with my first decades of daily ejaculations this has truly become a total change of patterns. Good vibes! Mart
I defiantly see my prostate activities as connected. for me there are certainly up and down days as I do a SR run. About day 7 ish I notice a more constant "hunger"... I often don't use Aneros until around or after day 7.