I'm curious about how proficient others are at achieving intense P-Gasms or Super-O's either with the Aneros or without. I have been practicing my Aless primarily, and have now reached a point where I can have a body shaking P-Gasm within less than 1 minute of starting an aless session. I'm generally having Super-O's in about 3-5 minutes. This is with no porn, no sexual fantasies, its purely focus on pleasure attainment. All of this requires being on my back in a knees up position with no distractions. If I'm distracted, it may take much longer or not happen at all. Currently I'm practicing being able to see similar results in less optimal conditions. So how about everyone else? What are your experiences like?
That's pretty damn good! It takes me about 15 min to start the "situation". I've taken to being on all fours. Sometimes I'll look at erotic images, but I don't do video.
Have had some intense Aless sessions early in the morning while in bed as am totally relaxed! Best results are laying on my left side - my body wakes me up wanting to play! As i focus on my anal area, waves of pleasure begin to radiate from my lower back and
continue to the root of my cock and into the head and back with every deep breath! This can go on for an hour or more as I just enjoy the feeliimgs quietly so as not to wake anyone up!
getting into the headspace is the hard part. I can't calm down.
I’ve never been big into the shaking thing, and never minded since the whole body waves of pleasure seem almost too much.
Almost. So I think I might focus on that again. I kinda did it back when.
Meanwhile, I can sit down, or lay down, just about anywhere, just about any time, aless, and get things going within seconds. It starts with my mouth and lips, then radiates down into my groin and cock, up into my scalp, down though my legs.
Without a doubt, the power of suggestion makes it happen much sooner when the location is familiar to my practice.
And lately, I’ve been practicing a lot, every other day at least.
Why not? It’s a wonderful way to pass the time.
I'm curious about how proficient others are at achieving intense P-Gasms or Super-O's either with the Aneros or without. I have been practicing my Aless primarily, and have now reached a point where I can have a body shaking P-Gasm within less than 1 minute of starting an aless session. I'm generally having Super-O's in about 3-5 minutes. This is with no porn, no sexual fantasies, its purely focus on pleasure attainment. All of this requires being on my back in a knees up position with no distractions. If I'm distracted, it may take much longer or not happen at all. Currently I'm practicing being able to see similar results in less optimal conditions. So how about everyone else? What are your experiences like?
I guess that's pretty much where I'm at, although I might bump the P-gasm to about 2 mins and Super O-s in 5-8mins. That's an average amount of time. If I'm really focused or turned on, Pgasms are basically instant and Super Os within 5 minutes.
I guess that's pretty much where I'm at, although I might bump the P-gasm to about 2 mins and Super O-s in 5-8mins. That's an average amount of time. If I'm really focused or turned on, Pgasms are basically instant and Super Os within 5 minutes.
Its amazing to me that this entire phenomena is not more mainstream. I mean, here we are talking about the ability to basically orgasm on demand, and as many times as time allows. And not just any old orgasm, but whole body, emotionally powerful, massive orgasms.
When I started this journey, I really didn't expect to get any results. My experience has been that when people make promises about body / life hacks, often the results are never repeatable. (Think vitamin supplements, etc.). I sat on the idea of buying an Aneros for sometime because of this issue, and also the issue that I just couldn't see myself devoting so much time toward masturbatory activity. It seemed both anti-social, and a bit wierd to be honest. But I finally decided to pull the trigger when the wife was out of town for a month and I had some real time to dedicate to the practice. I also rationalised that the number of people on these forums who were experiencing life altering pleasure was too large to be anything but real.
From the very beginnings of my journey, I was a fast learner. I felt good sensations early on, but couldn't control or amplify them. It gave me an addictive taste of what was possible. It took me nearly 7-9 months of sporadic usage before becoming proficient. Now I don't use my training wheels any longer, but I still continue to see an increase in both pleasure and intensity with subsequent sessions.
I also have noticed that the power of suggestion plays a role here. When I am in a specific place in my house, its as if my body knows what is supposed to happen. The mind body connection and concept of neural plasticity is really amazing. Achieving this level of connection to my body has changed my outlook in some pretty significant ways.
I don't know where these ramblings are going, but I do want to say thanks to everyone for all the advice on these forums. Its made my journey very meaningful.
Hard to imagine that what we’ve achieved is even possible! However, belief is achieved after trusting what we and others are saying! Not only is it achievable, “it” is bigger than any man who hasn’t experienced “it” can ever imagine! I’m not meaning to set anyone up to have unreasonable expectations because I couldn’t have achieved what I have without first believing it could happen, and second, that my body was speaking to me in a previously unknown manner, to which I needed to learn how to listen! The more I listened and believed, my body responded! Relax and trust your mind, body and prostate to show you the path and then...take a walk!
Its amazing to me that this entire phenomena is not more mainstream.
No kidding, Anerospore.
I do remember how the strength of the taboo for a stright guy was so strong it took a very long time before I dared to go in there, with anything. And longer still to buy an Aneros. And I still can't imagine talking to anybody about the habit. I figure they would think I'm crazy, given how implausible all this talk sounded, before I tried it.
Even so, there is a pretty big gay population that I would think has no such inhibitions, in practice, or in conversation.
I'm convinced a lot of annoying men in this world would benefit from getting an Aneros in their ass, with instructions how to enjoy it and stop bothering other people!
I use actual toys 1-2 times a week,and A-Less every other day of the week. The whole thing is belief and confidence. A lot have said gaps,sometimes large gaps need left between sessions.I have found this not to be the case,I find it better doing something everyday,that it keeps the ‘prostate bar’ high,like the more sex you have,the more you want,but I guess if you believe the prostate is limited,then that’s how it’ll be. And this is on top of sex with my wife at least 6 days out of 7. Actually proficiency is A-Less at work no longer than 30 mins,I find it most rewarding being ‘in and out’ in around 15 mins. Toy sessions are 90mins max,but generally 45-60mins. For me also,pleasure ramps up in a few mins. I think keeping your greed in check is important,for ppl humping on it for like 3hrs straight,that might be why their nerve endings get worn out,and the need recovery. I think little quickies most days provide better longevity to prostate play.
What amazes me is it just continues to get better and better! Just when I think my sessions couldn't get any better....they do!
What amazes me is it just continues to get better and better! Just when I think my sessions couldn't get any better....they do!
This is absolutely the case for me as well.
I challenge anyone to explain how this is possible. How can infinity be exceeded every time?
Its amazing to me that this entire phenomena is not more mainstream. I mean, here we are talking about the ability to basically orgasm on demand, and as many times as time allows. And not just any old orgasm, but whole body, emotionally powerful, massive orgasms.
When I started this journey, I really didn't expect to get any results. My experience has been that when people make promises about body / life hacks, often the results are never repeatable. (Think vitamin supplements, etc.). I sat on the idea of buying an Aneros for sometime because of this issue, and also the issue that I just couldn't see myself devoting so much time toward masturbatory activity. It seemed both anti-social, and a bit wierd to be honest. But I finally decided to pull the trigger when the wife was out of town for a month and I had some real time to dedicate to the practice. I also rationalised that the number of people on these forums who were experiencing life altering pleasure was too large to be anything but real.
From the very beginnings of my journey, I was a fast learner. I felt good sensations early on, but couldn't control or amplify them. It gave me an addictive taste of what was possible. It took me nearly 7-9 months of sporadic usage before becoming proficient. Now I don't use my training wheels any longer, but I still continue to see an increase in both pleasure and intensity with subsequent sessions.
I also have noticed that the power of suggestion plays a role here. When I am in a specific place in my house, its as if my body knows what is supposed to happen. The mind body connection and concept of neural plasticity is really amazing. Achieving this level of connection to my body has changed my outlook in some pretty significant ways.
I don't know where these ramblings are going, but I do want to say thanks to everyone for all the advice on these forums. Its made my journey very meaningful.
I am also astounded that in this day and age (internet/social media) that prostate pleasure and more specifically aeros products are not more mainstream. Heck, we are in this tiny corner chat room but nowhere else. Aneros supplies the pleasure of a lifetime and not even science seems to care. Is there not research.
I wish I had the courage to tell everyone about the joy I have discovered. I am fortunate that my wife supports me and participates in this activity. Heres hoping that aeros products and prostate play get into the national conscious. I think the world would be a better place.
Here’s the thing..I think Aneros/prostate/anal play is probably more mainstream than you think,not everyone feels the need to be on a forum about it...not everyone wants to talk about it,lots don’t talk about their sex lives at all, plenty of couples will be at it,and there’s like 55000 on this forum although only about 15 of us ever say anything. Not to mention those who read the forum but never actually joined.My wife and I had been pegging before my journey began,it’s a fairly natural progression when couples have done everything else.
Nah its not mainstream at all when compared to other sex toys. Take for instance fleshlights. I'm pretty sure most men once they find out about a fleshlight they either get one or would be willing to get one.
I too am still in amazement as to why the amount and level of pleasure the prostate provides is completely blocked off based on taboo thinking. I was this way. Never would have imagined a year ago enjoying prostate play.
4 and a half years and still no Super O or P-waves or P-gasms. So I guess you can call me non-proficient. But it doesnt stop me trying 3-5 times a week with a number of Aneros toys. Sometimes I get a tickle sensation like when you need to pee, other times just nothing really. Sometimes a dull pressure sensation.
I just dont know how everyone else gets so far with it. I'm happy for everyone else though.
@Tommygunn yep what I said
Even so, there is a pretty big gay population that I would think has no such inhibitions, in practice, or in conversation.
But sadly they mostly neither have any clue! I‘ve met quite a few and none of them even had heard of „Aneros“. Poor guys, sticking so many things up their bum, but missing the right tool.
I'm convinced a lot of annoying men in this world would benefit from getting an Aneros in their ass, with instructions how to enjoy it and stop bothering other people!
If every male had one and could be taught the benefits, world peace and stopping global warming would be possible. No kidding. What should they wage war for?
@Anerospore, I‘m at about your level. Only hovering with two fingers above my chest somewhere close to my nipples or even envisioning this or anything alike can already be enough to cause a severe buzzing in my prostate. Focusing on this buzzing is all I need to go wherever I want, from enjoying a row of p-waves to indulging in super-Os. This morning I „came“ from stepping in slow-motion forward leading the water from the shower head most slowly down from my crown to my neck. A breathtaking experience causing an aching hard boner in seconds.
Fully on the page of @Tommygunn l‘m preferring quickies and having a lot of quickies all day instead of sticking to complete sessions, which I lately only have once in a while.
@all Spread the word and heal the world!
Cheers! Mart
I just want to say, that my life is defined now by life before Aneros and life after discovering Aneros and the resulting P-gasms/Super-O's.
@lonewolf8 I think it is great that you are keeping with it this long. That is some real dedication! To me that is way more impressive than whatever level of “proficiency” one might have attained. I hope that you make more and more progress. The light at the end of the tunnel is beaming bright!
What amazes me is it just continues to get better and better! Just when I think my sessions couldn't get any better....they do!
SO TRUE!
Guess I've been on this journey seven to eight months. I was very lucky in that I had results within the first few days. SMALL results but still pleasurable results and they continue to increase. Almost feel like I cheated compared to the struggle for results some people seem to have had.
Had a session Friday where it got so intense I had to scream into a pillow for fear of people outside hearing! It was more than I ever experienced before and much more than I ever imagined possible.
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usually 3-5 min into prostate play I would have my first mini-O
and another 2-3 min, p-wave or even straight to super-o if I am in the mood
Nah its not mainstream at all when compared to other sex toys. Take for instance fleshlights. I'm pretty sure most men once they find out about a fleshlight they either get one or would be willing to get one.
I too am still in amazement as to why the amount and level of pleasure the prostate provides is completely blocked off based on taboo thinking. I was this way. Never would have imagined a year ago enjoying prostate play.
I feel your pain Lonewolf as my progress has been ever so slow compared to many who post here. I have been at it for at least 10 years and still have countless dud (for lack of a better word) sessions. I have had many orgasms and some I want to call a super O but know there is much more out there waiting for me to experience.
Regardless of my slow progress, I enjoy every session for what I get out of it and consider my sessions to be as much about mediation and relaxing as anything else. When good feelings or an orgasm comes along I consider it a bonus.
There have been times when I feel I have just hit a wall and will not get any further and then suddenly a session rewards me with something new. If I never got any further than where I am at today, I would still continue to use the aneros just as much as I have for the last 10 years
@lonewolf8 So..if you have your toy in and in session,when you strum your nipples,you don’t feel any pleasurable sensation in your genital/pelvic/perineum area?..
@thhn this is exactly the problem I think a lot of guys on here have..you are having prostate success but appear to deny it,most likely dues to some of the posts and videos on here. Many orgasms and progress real slow..not really mate,you’ve had loads of success,them orgasms you don’t call super but want to are,in my opinion,super-o’s,you just haven’t gotten the hang of quieting your mind,which is what ties it altogether.
@Tommygunn With nipples, I had some need to pee itch at the back end of 2017, no success since.
@lonewolf8 are you generally healthy? Do you get pleasure from normal sex/masturabaton stuff?
See,the tickles and the pressures are p-waves,but for them to amplify,you need to be relaxed,are you frustrated during sessions?
In my experience the success with these devices is 90% what is going on in your head and the rest technique. I can't help thinking when a lot of men start using an Aneros they approach it in they same way they view masturbation or sex with another person i.e. concentrate on the physical. It's said that the brain is our body's biggest erogoneous zone. It can take a lot of time to get into that head space. Some men might find that rather fanciful but imagination I find helps.
To @lonewolf8 I'd ask when you have your sessions:
Is your space warm and private are you likely to be disturbed for how many hours you need? Do you feel hungry? Anything that is likely to distract your mind will afffect the success. Are you aroused? Are you preoccupied with other things in life?
I find if I start looking at porn the focus shifts from my prostate to my penis which reduces my success. Alcohol seems to dull any sensations so I avoid that before hand.
I think everybody has a different way of getting these things to work but I'm pleased that you haven't given up
@thhn this is exactly the problem I think a lot of guys on here have..you are having prostate success but appear to deny it,most likely dues to some of the posts and videos on here. Many orgasms and progress real slow..not really mate,you’ve had loads of success,them orgasms you don’t call super but want to are,in my opinion,super-o’s,you just haven’t gotten the hang of quieting your mind,which is what ties it altogether.
"Quieting the mind" that's so important and yet so difficult. My mind wanders all over the place during a session. I try to focus and find that when I can get my mind focused on a sensual thought I often get great results. My issue is I can't keep the train on the tracks and moving forward.
After 10 plus years of using an aneros I find that a run of the mill session gives me run of the mill results. In the last year or two I am having my best sessions by planning the session in advance, sometimes for several days. This gives me time to mentally prepare. I am in total agreement with JohnHope about being warm and comfortable, having privacy and plenty of time.