I have been playing with my nipples during while using my aneros and was wondering what I'm supposed to be feeling?
For me it seems to swell up my prostate some and kind of get things kicked in down there. As far as my good feelings on my nipples not so much. Are they supposed to feel really good like what a woman feels when rubbing their clit or something similar?
Mine are hardwired to my prostate and the entire area. Starting with a bit of porn, in a chair, slowly doing light kegels and then starting to stroke my nipples, I get that massive throbbing, and I am in pure pleasure. I found that by pumping my nipples, not only are they larger, but vastly more sensitive. Men who don't understand their nipples are truly missing pleasure.
@stubby3
If you have recently started nipple stimulation and are not naturally highly sensitive, it is possible that they will become too stimulating over time. To compare, stimulating nipples (already sensitized) has the same or greater effect that sensation of masturbation with differences in warm and spread sensations .....
Stimulating the prostate with aneros while stimulating the nipples has a great chance of achieving good results. This will unite nipple pleasure + prostate pleasure. (Spoiler) However, in me there is a tendency to follow only the standardized stimuli of the fingers on the nipples, this means that my body will not follow the rhythm and pleasure of the prostate and that makes a difference (for me)
I always remember that it is possible to get pure pleasure just from inserted aneros (long term testing is needed to know what works for you).
So all my life I did not like my nipples touched like they were way too sensitive. At different times during my life they would become sore from rubbing against my shirt, to the point where I would want to put a bandaid over it. About two years ago when I started with aneros the nipples became touchable with out causing me agony. So I have been working them along and now I feel like it's going to work for me.
Last night I watched a video of a guy who got a rock hard hard on by rubbing his nipples and doing kegels. Then I went in my hot tub and did kegels while playing with my nipples and got a rock hard hard on. Then this morning I had a great time with the helix in me with nipple play. It took a long time but I think I'm at least half way there. So exciting!!!
When I pinch and lightly twist and tweak my nipples with Aneros in me it creates spasms and my anus contracts more involuntary and randomly than when I don't work my nipples. So there's autocontractions of my anus and the toy is starting to move on its own against my will, but when I work my nipples, my anus starts to clamp down a bit more and contract, sometimes almost violently, and then I'm propelled forward into orgasm/s. I call them my "turbo buttons" hahaha so cheesy but so true!! If I'm on the brink of prostate O I just go for them and BOOM I'm having an O. If I keep tweaking, which took practice to make myself keep doing it while having an O, then my O will subside but then it kind of starts over again right away and I'll have another O sometimes just within 10-20 seconds of the previous one. I just can't work them continously the whole time or they get sore and a bit irritated.
@techpump , that's is pretty much a spot on description of what I'm feeling in the lower unit! Thanks.
Thanks for sharing Tbob I'm trying to learn everything I can about this new to me achievement. I was hoping that it would work every time or session but for me it would appear that sometimes it's a dud.For me when i rub with my thumbs side to side, my prostate tingles and spasms, when I rub up and down my anus and my dick throb in unison.
Hopping to hear from more diddlers.
I have a direct connection between my nipples and my anal and prostate regions, but not so much to my penis. I have often tried to achieve a hands free penile orgasm by nipple stimulation alone but it just doesn't happen. On the other hand with an aneros inserted the link is very powerful, and for me a gentle squeezing of my nipples between finger and thumb with a forward movement away from my chest is hugely arousing. I sometimes think of them as little penis heads, to be stroked and teased. It's even better if they become slightly enlarged and erect, though that is unpredictable and more likely to be produced by being cold than by sexual excitement!
I'd say my nipples are pretty sensitive. Teasing them increases my arousal & I think it helps to get more of a whole-body-focus, so things down there can happen more freely...I think someone referred to nipple play as a gas pedal in another post...That's a pretty nice comparison...
fMRI studies show a correlation between blood flow to brain regions when stimulating the nipples and blood flow when stimulating the genitals (clitoris, uterus, and vaginal regions) in females. With the male nipple being the homology, we can expect genital homology regions might correlate with blood flow too, which was found in this 2020 study: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31953029/
"Our evidence from the various urogenital regions updates the Penfield and Rasmussen map 6 in men to show primary mapping on the paracentral lobule for the penis, urethra, testicles, scrotum, perineum, rectum and prostate. We confirm that nipple stimulation can also activate 'genital' areas of the paracentral lobule.
We further characterize the neural difference between 'erotic' and 'prosaic' touchea difference which indicates that top-down mental imagery and fantasy play a significant role in erotic arousal in men.
These findings help to identify key neural areas that respond to urogenital self-stimulation in men, and areas responsible for 'erotic' arousal. These may provide potential target areas for treatments for urogenital and sexual arousal disorders in men" (pp. 9-10)
Mind-down/brain-down input and nipple stimulation can boost arousal and boost stimulation in genital regions.
For some, however, two sources of stimulation might be distracting, taking away from the experience of one or the other.
For me, rubbing/pinching my nipples feels okay. I do that in float spas while I meditate. I like when my fiance licks them. My favorite is using the We Vibe Melt on them. It's heavenly. I literally started briefly dreaming I was breastfeeding my "energy" with my planet-sized nipple into the cosmos.