I have been practicing nippleplay for some years now - unfortunately, I'm already 57 years old - why didn't I discover it 20 years ago.
Anyway - when I'm in good mood I’ll get great nipplegasm but I wonder why there is such a difference in the sensitivity of my left vs right nipples. The Left nipple is much more sensitive than the right. When I do my nippleplay with my right nipple alone, I barely feel anything while the Left is super sensitive and can lead to orgasm.
Have any of you the same feeling and why is it so? My nippleplay is typically done with my index fingers and sometimes with my middle fingers - with nails. Can i do something to get more sensitivity in my right nipple?
I too have a more sensitive left nipple. I have been with women who have a more sensitive nipple/breast as well. Just play with the other one a lot. Sensation will probably come with practice. If you are into experimenting, try more agressive play: pinching, light scratching with fingernails, tugging, with a partner if that is a possibility you can have them bite and suck, nipple clips, clothespins... careful with anything that clamps: if you leave them on too long, you lose sensation because the blood runs out of your nipples (or anywhere you are being pinched) and then the pain comes when you remove the clamp and the blood flows back. There are also a variety of nipples sucking toys (supple nips), which I have never used.
When I first started getting really into nipple play (thanks to this forum!!) I was worried about my nipple sensitivity imbalance. Through excessive play, my nipple sensitivity on both sides has become so heightened that I don't notice the difference. So I recommend, just keep at it. But don't ignore the sensitive side if you are getting immense pleasure from it!
It depends. Being around your age, @amaz, I'm experiencing different sensitivity in my nipples from time to time. Often I noticed that teasing them cross over worked better, meaning teasing my left nipple with my right hand and vice versa.
Having tried clothespins earlier, I found out that tenderness is much more effective for me and my mindset - at least since rewiring. Sometimes I only circle around one nipple and get horny from the anticipation of the touch. The longer I deny the final touching the more shocking and exciting the touch in the end becomes. Adding some saliva can be a game changer too, or using some cold water as well. Hovering above my nipple sending out vibes from my fingertip without touching can drive me crazy.
I love to focus on my nipples in the mirror, only envisioning to touch them to watch them stiffen. Or I put some fingers around my nipple and try to get my forefinger as near as possible to the nipple tip until amazing involuntaries happen. If I put some fingers of one hand on my perineum and the same fingers of my other hand on or around one of my nipples it feels like I would hardwire them with each other and orgasms are happening soon.
Be playful and inventive and I'd believe, you will awake your other nipple as well.
Just thinking about how pleasureful my nipple play has become, I just once again only focused on them, feeling them under my shirt, the touch of the shirt, phew, and this already makes my perineum buzzing, my nipples getting hard and I can feel a chairgasm building up. Involuntaries already let me clench, wriggle and squirm while sitting on my chair and my eyes shed first teardrops of joy.
Enjoy your nipples! They'll give you an own realm of bliss. The best is yet to come, for sure!
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- I typically play with both of them at the same time. They're both pretty close to the same sensitivity I believe. If I were to pick one, yes I would say the left as everyone else. Both typically I use equally. I haven't been playing with them that long but was amazed that I could have an orgasm from them. Now I just started to more regularly have some intense dry orgasms from them. When this happens, my penis gets exceptionally hard ( like a teenager, I'm 52 ) and then contracts & pulses then dies down. Then if I'm lucky another one happens. This is while diddling both at the same time. I still consider myself a beginner, so if anyone has any good tips or other successful techniques to share, I'm all ears at this point. Thx.
Nice technique, @sowithoutaneros
i also partake In that type of tease and denial play of my own nipples. That is, I caress myself, getting ever closer to my nipples, without actually touching them, and I imagine that I am going to touch them and what that would feel like. That alone is enough to send me over the edge. Because in the end a lot of what we are doing is psychological, so the imagination can be very powerful! I believe I learned this technique for nipples on this forum, but I don’t remember where. Now I use it for any part of my body. For those Who have a partner to experiment on, this is one way to help your partner have incredible orgasms. The longer you tease, the more explosive the orgasm...
I would add one last type of nipple play that is very exciting for me. Try wearing different material clothing, And see how touching yourself across the clothing feels. For example, wear a linen Shirt and play with yourself across it, or attach clothes pins over it.
Thanks, @divine_oblivion. Another technique, I’m lately enjoying most, is only cupping my pecs like I would hold a girls boobs from behind, hardly touching my nipples with my palm and not moving my hands at all. It doesn‘t need more than a few minutes to get things started. Even if first involuntaries are shaking me, I keep still and hold this position and my arousal keeps growin‘ and growin‘ ... give it a try!
Back to the very topic, I indeed noticed last night, that for the time being my right nipple is responding quicker and more intensely to any stimulation, although I remember it once has been my left, too, longer ago.
So what! After all one of them will do it! 😉 So enjoy!
Thank you guys. I can see many of you already have a sensitive left nipple.
I think I will pratice the psychological part (no touch) - sounds interesting, @SOwithoutAneros.
What I found very arousel is intercourse with my wife when she licking my left nipple - I immediately ejaculate. Again, if she lick my left nipple without my penis in play - I immediately get a dry O, wonderful. Long live the left nipple
Mine are the other way around. My right is the more sensitive. Rather, it has a wider area of sensitivity. The left is sensitive, but only if you get it in the right spot. There had been someone in my life that was to get me going from all over my whole chest, but that was a while ago.
My advice is get your wife to practice subtlety on the less-sensitive spots. It's a good exercise in communication.
One more vote for the left nipple being more sensitive. Normally I stimulate both at the same time with a circling motion. What I find strange is that I get more pleasure using my index fingers than my middle fingers, and that it "does not feel right" if I'm using say, the middle finger on one nipple and the index on the other. When a session is well underway both are hyper sensitive and I'll just pinch them VERY lightly and stroke from base to tip, I'd say at this point there is no difference between them.
If any, my right is maybe just a slight bit more sensitive than my left.
One alone is great. Both of them together is awesome.
Wonder if this has some tie in to left or right handed? I'm right handed.
The right side of my prostate is more sensitive than the left. Anyone else have that? Also did you guys have sensitive nipples when you started? I'm 1.5 years on this journey and no super O. I've only tried nipple play a couple times but I didn't really feel anything. Maybe I have to rewire them too.
@ Bosbter2k; unfortunately, I discovered nippleplay too late in my age after my startup with Aneros. Thanks to this Forum I found out that nippleplay was a whole new world for me. It took me 3 years with Aneros to found out that nippleplay is indispensable. I have been doing nippleplay for 1 year now and not quite satisfied. You definitely need to anticipate a period of time before you wake up your nipples. I can’t distinguish left and right i my prostate.
@spikester71; don’t worry - I will never give up nippleplay. I will continue my experiments.
Good to read all the comments and experiences re nipple play! It’s definitely a part of every seat for me, whether Aless or with Aneros. Mine are equally sensitive and provide lots of pleasure! Have tried different techniques including flipping back and forth as well as circular massage. Have found that nipple play triggers other pleasure in my perenium, prostate, and cock head! Builds in intensity and eventually leads to multiple dry Os which can last for minutes!