Rewiring ... one wire at a time

Thanks for sharing Sam. Feel like im in a pretty similar situation to you, maybe a few steps behind in many regards. Also a big time lurker hahaa.
Sounds like the trident series has become a fast favourite? I hope so! Just bought a Eupho Trident and im hoping it will help with my "rewiring...one wire at a time".

If you are feeling more pleasure each and every session thats surely a great sign of things to come. Reading peoples long and vairied journeys on here always gives me hope and ideas. So often its a flurried tale of a first super O or early days questions for reassurance. So its especially nice to hear from someone in the middle, as it were.

Here is where I am now. When I start a session, I generally clean up with a shower, then lube up and insert the Aneros (now a Helix or Eupho Trident). Within minutes (I'd say 5-10), during which I will take slow, deep breath and relax, I will start feeling slight contractions. I try more and more to relax but the area where the Aneros is inserted just want to tense up. Suddenly I get an urge to contract the whole area and it is hard not to do it. And this feels so good. After 30 seconds to a few minutes, I can then let go of the contraction, relax and continue with deep breathing. Not sure how to call this but it is intense but I'd say not as intense as a traditional orgasm. During the relaxation period, I can feel the Aneros moving very slightly until another urge to contract hits me, just like the previous one. This cycle can go on for a long while, but nowadays I stop after about 90 minutes.

Your description of the prostate "orgasm" is very similar to my own feelings. I have tried the relaxation technique too when tensing-up; it is virtually impossible for me! I seem to experience these contractions in "cycles". I should practice the deep-breathing technique like you suggest and see how I progress with relaxation.

Thanks for your great description!

For me, trying to relax during a session has been key. Although, like goldenboy says it’s not easy. It took a while for me to get past a spell of having uncontrollable body jerking and limb movements! I think I just had so much tension stored up in my whole body, maybe in anticipation of something happening. Somehow I have managed to get beyond that stage and go into a session trying to feel as laid back as possible, not think too much about it and letting things take their course. Even so, when feeling something building I do notice myself holding in my breath and tensing my abs which then tire. Something I am trying now came about after watching a programme where a woman was in labour and the midwife was telling her to breath and pant. I have tried it and found it helps, I can maintain a slight contraction or a light push and at the same time breath deeply into my belly, not my chest. Using this method I have found it possible to still feel relaxed and breath but at the same time maintain some tension down below. Hope this might be some help to you. I would just like to add, and this has been purely my own experience, I haven’t found that if I do X,Y and Z during a session I will reach an orgasm or any goal. My body is doing it, I am not doing it to my body if that makes sense? For me it feels 90% of it is mental stimulation and being receptive, and 10% physical input.

My body is doing it, I am not doing it to my body if that makes sense? For me it feels 90% of it is mental stimulation and being receptive, and 10% physical input.

@Harper, perhaps it may help you, what I tried to distinguish between steering or not what my body does. Totally letting go is quite difficult, because our mind loves pleasure and sometimes decides to deceive us a bit, to get even more of it. That isn't always helpful - even less for rewiring, because it only brings us back to old pathways, already known as pleasureful, and it therefore hinders us to detect new directions.

Instead of falling into that trap I tried to sharpen my awareness by neglecting, what my body seemed to do, by resisting - only a bit, f. e. calming down involuntaries, denying the urge to writhe and squirm. This in my case seemed to let my awakened prostate use its chance to insist on its own plans and strengthen its efforts to really take over command. And only letting go, if my little resistance seemed to be conquered by my prostate, helped me to avoid being confused by my subconsciousness. Believe it or not, thinking about this enlightment just let my prostate answer "Affirmative!" by inducing a strong chairgasm. I love my prostate for these signs. What I try to explain and to suggest is to become a sentinel of your body's and your mind's reactions and to distingiush between them very conscientiously.

I tried hard and hope my words make sense in English. If anything remained unintelligible, please ask.

The percents you assign to mental stimulation and physical input imho depend on each other. The more you learn to focus on a special spot, the more lust you can induce by stimulating that spot. The more you are stimulating that spot, the more you will be able to visualize that stimulation.

[/HR]This morning, for example, when still in bed, I envisioned a light bondage scene. Restrained at arms and legs I lay on my back, arms and legs wide spread, imagining leather cuffs at ankles and wrists and at knees and elbows as well as at my neck. Lower legs and lower arms aligned with the longside edge of the matress I was bound to my bed. The door opened and, being blindfolded and only hearing their whispering, I estimated about eigth women entering the room. Each of them was directed to a certain body part of mine. Then the first girl's hands began to caress my right calf, another one gently touched my right knee, the third massaged my biceps and so on. Finally my mind let them all stimulate all my bodyparts - omitting my genitals - at the same time. Then out of a sudden the girls take a step back and only watch. Now my prostate takes over and "fucks" me into a state of full body bliss, sending p-waves and orgasmic vibes throughout my body until I squirm and writhe and leak precum or even hover in clouds of ecstasy.

As another example I inbetween love to lotion my hands when going to sleep. I take some more lotion as necessary to get the hands quite greasy. Now I thorouhgly massage every single finger and my palms and the backs of my hands, stretch and caress every finger, and finally ever so gently touch the middle of my palms. What shall I say, I thus found another spot directly connected to my gland. Having written this I only just closed my eyes, layed hand in hand and let my fingers run across my palms. In no time wonderful electric vibrations appear throughout my body, I feel my prostate, my right eye is shedding a tear, and some involuntaries are coming up. Oh fuck, second chairgasm!

[/HR]Life is so wonderful! Stay curious and the best is yet to come! Indeed!

@SOwithoutAneros !!! Looks like it’s working for me now. Just updated the OS.

I think I understand what you mean, just to be sure. Are you saying that It can be beneficial to ignore/subdue responses and in doing so the signal down the wire will grow stronger?

I think I understand what you mean, just to be sure. Are you saying that It can be beneficial to ignore/subdue responses and in doing so the signal down the wire will grow stronger?

I'm going to jump in here and add my take on what @SOwithoutAneros said, which I pretty much totally agree with but with a subtle, semantic difference.

...denying the urge to writhe and squirm.

I think the word denying may be a bit too strong here. IMHO, we need to monitor our body's condition on many levels as this is where we can use our mental focus to steer the energy. We don't want to "ignore/subdue" or repress these natural body responses but direct it in ways which will enhance our Anerosessions. It is about letting the existing sensations from the prostate take prominence (via mental focus) over the muscular sensations (tensions) which we normally associate with traditional orgasms. The "signal down the wire" doesn't necessarily grow stronger, it just takes on proportionally more significance.
Good Vibes to You !

Don't let me be misunderstood!

Thanks, @rumel, for helping to define more precisely what I meant with "denying". The same with "The 'signal down the wire' doesn't necessarily grow stronger, it just takes on proportionally more significance." It's quite a challenge to me to express all these new experiences - above all in a foreign language. The more I appreciate your help, @rumel!

@Harper, considerung what @rumel wrote, "ignore" either would be a too strong expression. I should better call it a "playful struggling against the urge" - to test whether I'm just striving against my subconsciousness or against my prostate.

• If it feels quite easy to withstand, it's mostly my subconsciousness that tries to lure me into that same old trap again to get us our well known satisfaction we learned from decades of quick jerk offs.
• If it's more substantial it will be my prostate crushing over me quite unpreventable - like a storm out of a calm. Especially this hovering state of calm has become a trustful sign for me that I'm ready to really let go and let my prostate take over command.

Ah, great, yes, @Harper, this "@membername"-thing indeed now works for you too and I also received a message about your post. Only not at once associating your words with that issue, I first understood you had updated your personal OS! 😉

After all rewiring quite feels like that - resetting our mind and installing OrgasmicMind 2.0, right? Long since Aneros has attributed a new meaning to "plug & play" as well, ha ha.

As I believe, they will finally help us with real transitions to new dimensions!
So cool! 😎 The best is yet to cum, ah, come!

Cheers!

... Totally letting go is quite difficult, because our mind loves pleasure and sometimes decides to deceive us a bit, to get even more of it. That isn't always helpful - even less for rewiring, because it only brings us back to old pathways, already known as pleasureful, and it therefore hinders us to detect new directions.

I think this describes exactly the path I am in. As per suggested above, I will try to get into a "playful struggling against the urge". Thank you gentlemen for you sound and helpful advice.

One thing I do in parallel of Aneros sessions is A-less. This week, I had a unique experience while driving. The evening before, I had a good and satisfying Aneros session that I think brought me yet closer to reaching an orgasm. In the morning, minutes before arriving to work, out of nowhere, I started to feel that my prostate wanted to play and please me. It started to contract by itself, giving me nice waves of pleasure. Since I was driving, I was relaxing to keep my concentration on the road and wheel, it just got more intense. Fortunately, I was in a quiet residential neighborhood, which allowed me to slow down to fully enjoy the moment. I think it lasted about a minute. That was a nice perk.

Sam

Since I was driving, I was relaxing to keep my concentration on the road and wheel, it just got more intense. Sam

Be cautious! Once giving in to Aless while driving I missed to notice a traffic sign and was caught in a radar trap. A very lustful but also quite expensive experience. Cheers!
Mart