Rewiring gone haywire?

Hi @karvec1959, to me it sounds like you already hit the point but you might underrate that

"bit of lingering underlying stress".

When I had been undergoing such phases during my journey, for me the best has been to listen to myself whether I'm prepared for another ride or not and better to skip a session if not, even for further days or weeks.

Admittedly I am indeed talking to my organs, call it a kind of self-talk. Accepting its truthful caring for my being I tell my gland what I like its brain to do to me. When writing down my experiences here I sometimes get applause from there, feeling a little buzzing or more. I accepted this as a ritual to communicate with my gland and find out how my consciousness and my gland's subconsciousness can work together and give me the best experiences and a life of bliss and happiness.

For an awareness of your surrounding, it's said that there are four or five obvious circumstances you are able to feel, find out, discuss and weigh - consciously, while your subconsciousness in only submultiples of one second evaluates thousands of impressions in relation to all your experiences since your embryonal phase. When leaving home this subconsciousness tells me, something is wrong. I don't mind and leave home. Some minutes later my consciousness tells me, "subc" has been right, I've forgotten my mobile phone.

In a nutshell I recommend to ask your gland to take over and tell you when the next session shall happen. You can also tell your gland what you would like to. That you think you are okay again, that you have gotten over your stress and that you are ready for some new enlighting pleasures induced from your sexual brain. But after all leave the final decision to your gland.

That's at least how it works for me, only my 2 cts here again.

Recommended reading matter

• Organs Have Their Own Consciousness And We Can Talk to Them*.
• Your second brain neurons keep your colon moving.

* "[...] One practice that Carlos Castaneda taught me was “talking to my organs.” The idea was simple: just as there is the overall me, there are also many smaller individual aspects of that me, represented in my tissues and organs themselves. In the dynamic world of information within my body, there is a distinct consciousness in each of my organs. Our organs store memories and also contain information. And they can talk to us. The big me can go in and establish a dialogue with the different organs and tissues. [...]

Your body is amazing. Trust him. Especially trust your gland and tell it you do.

My mantras

"You won't do me no harm. I'm yours. Make me happy. You are in command, give me bliss and happiness. I can endure more. I want it all. F*ck me! 😉 Yep, as wild as you like."

Cheers, Mart

@karvec1959,

@SOwithoutAneros gave you a nice analysis of the psychological aspect of your temporary problem. On the physical side, I don't think your rewiring has gone haywire, I think your temporary cessation of Aneros use has simply allowed old scripted physical behavior patterns re-emerge. Remember these are the patterns you first learned about orgasm with and those pathways are never forgotten, it just may take some time for your Aneros pathways to orgasm to reassert themselves as you forego the older patterns of behavior.

It might help to refresh yourself by reading some older threads about how to deal with this situation, please see How to avoid ejaculation?, How to avoid handsfree wet orgasms , Avoiding ejaculation during orgasm? , Hands free ejaculation being an obstacle & Cumming while lying face down

Good Vibes to You!

Thanks so much guys. I kind of figured it was going to be a matter of patience and going back to the basics, but it's nice to have the support here too. 🙂