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I think I can relate to what you're saying, I've long wondered "Is this the feeling I should be focusing on?". Because to a large extent, focusing on a sensation works to amplify it, at least for me. And if I'm focusing on one sensation, I might be not focusing on others, or even shutting them out completely.

But maybe this is another throw-back to traditional masturbation... that single point of focus.

One of the most wild sensations I've had was when I was experiencing pleasure happening in two points at once. Usually I experience one sensation as dominant, but in this situation there were two, equal in intensity/pleasure and almost creating an arc of energy between them, feeding off each other. It went against every expectation and experience I'd had for years, and seemed impossible.

This journey never ceases to amaze me, in terms of discovering something I was doing wrong but didn't realize for years.

Posted by: @underthepeach

However, tonight was different.  Tonight the Aneros continued to move throughout the entire session.  I had many internal and external anal contractions over and over again.  Sometimes the Aneros felt like it slammed into my Prostate.  This slamming didn't feel bad at all but also wasn't great because it is hitting so hard that I feel it also impacts my bladder too hard giving me mixed feelings of pleasure and...now I gotta pee again. 

Great post, I enjoyed reading about your experience. You seem to be making good progress. The Aneros giving you some "harder action" is a good sign, in my experience, that you're able to let go of things physically. Now you have to give some time to your body to understand you don't need to pee, that sensation will go away on it's own and you'll be able to concentrate on the pleasure.

Now, for the question "what am I supposed to feel ?" It will look like a joke answer, but I think you're supposed to feel what you're feeling at the moment you're asking the question. I know, it's like some spiritual BS... and then a moment later it might be better, or the same, and you go from moment to moment just feeling and not thinking. That's "letting go" mentally and it's not easy. 

Something that may work for you, next time you're experiencing pleasure but it's not "getting better" ask yourself this question : " How good would it feel to stay at that exact level for the next 15 minutes. Or 30. Or the next hour ? " It may very well trigger something inside you. Keep us posted ! I'd be happy to know if this was helpful to you. 

Posted by: @underthepeach

Like so many others have mentioned, I too feel this incredible "build up" of pressure in my pelvic area.  I relax to the point of being a rag-doll...and let the feelings lead me to wherever they want to go.  Unfortunately I get the build up of pressure and that is about it.  I am sure one day the scales will tip in my favor and I can finally release.

Maybe you will feel a "...release..." and maybe you won't. If you are thinking you will feel the hormonal release of prolactin as occurs with a traditional ejaculatory orgasm, it may not ever happen that way. As @Buster noted in his thread What exactly is a Super-O? ->

The Super O is where you are suspended in that state where in a traditional orgasm would be that time just before ejaculation. THERE IS NO RELEASE! No completion, just this terrific suspension that can go on forever.

Can you come to terms with that possible reality?

Posted by: @underthepeach

I have read "what is a Super O" .  While it list certain "milestones or feelings" the disconnect I still have is...okay, what am I supposed to feel??  Is what I'm feeling going to lead to a better path of pleasure or is it another dead end??  In other words, I'm searching for something but I don't know what that something is.  The old saying, "You don't know what you don't know" plays a huge factor for those of us who are struggling seeking a greater purpose to our sessions.

While trying to understand and interpret these unique experiences is a fascinating and entertaining endeavor, you can fall into the trap of over thinking, over analyzing these experiences to the point of creating a false narrative for the experience, creating a confusing illusory reality. You have identified a paradox every Aneros user faces namely resolving conscious (and subconscious) expectations while accepting the experience of each unique Anerosession. There are no particular sensations you are "...supposed to feel". An orgasm is an ephemeral event, unique and complete unto itself, it is your ego which passes judgment, labels the experience and assigns a rational purpose to the event. Perhaps there is no "...greater purpose..." than simply enjoying the pleasure of the moment, can you accept that possible reality?

Good Vibes to You!

@rumel - Outstanding reply as usual.  I do believe in the "learning" phase of this journey, I will over analyze what I am/am not feeling.  No longer am I frustrated as I realize not every session will be the same as the last, for better or for worse.  Any pleasant feelings are greatly welcome and I don't really have an expectations.  I sort of feel like whatever happens, happens.  If I had to pinpoint the largest challenge is maybe concentrating too much.  While I am very relaxed (without any "help" relaxing), I tend to over think the process. 

Back to the urge to urinate (which is so dang annoying).  For the life of me I cannot figure out how to get past the OVERWHELMING urge.  I feel like the aneros stimulates not only the prostate but the bladder/Urethrae(which makes sense as to where the aneros impacts).  That stimulation seems to be very exaggerated during my sessions. This leads to a confusing feeling of, either urinate all over myself or please release whatever in the heck is so built up.  At that point I don't care what happens I just need to release something...anything.  The best way I can describe the feeling is:  You have just polished off your 3rd cup of coffee or cold beer. And you're stuck somewhere where a bathroom is not available.  You can feel the build up to the point of being uncomfortable. 

Keep in mind I limit my intake of liquids hours prior to a session and make sure to empty my bladder before.

Anyway, while that feeling does happen each session.  I am still having outstanding feelings and look forward to pushing forward with whatever is next. 

Hi @underthepeach, thanks for joining our forum and sharing all your intimate thoughts. One of my milestones has been to supress what you just discovered to be so overwhelming, those involuntary spasms. When I did, I suddenly was able to focus on the vibes in my whole body building up to even higher arousal levels, but then in a before unknown silent mode, I later named a sea of tranquility and bliss.

Perhaps some of the discussion points in "quick path ..." might help you here. Looks like you're at a certain point, where it helped me most. Oh, just had to notice, that all the links found by the search function are broken for the time being. Dunno, what's happened again or what staff is working at, perhaps I can add some details later, sorry for now. [I have asked support for help to find the thread.]

After all welcome to the forum, good luck for your journey and good vibes to you!

Mart

Posted by: @underthepeach

The only thing I can say I try to do is somehow take those "tingles" and spread them if that makes sense.

Spread those tingles. If they don’t spread on their own, imagine them spreading. Imagine how they make you feel. Close your eyes right now even, and imagine those tingles. And see if you can feel those tingles in everyday life. A lot of this play is psychological, and often the line between mental and physical is blurred. Thus it can help to amplify a good sensation through imagination alone, which may in turn have a physical impact. Whether it will spread the tingles or take you elsewhere doesn’t matter, it’s all good.

It might help you to partake in a lot more aless and other arousal building activities, so that you can travel further quicker once the toy is in. That way after 40 minutes or more you will be satisfied enough to stop your session in case of irritation or disappearing sensation. I had a similar bladder experience in the beginning (urge to pee, then, post-pee, less sensations). It went away with time. And otherwise now my sessions rarely last for over 45 minutes, because right out the gates I get immense pleasure. When they do last over an hour (usually during coupled sessions) after a while the toy becomes irritating (whilst still pleasureful). So try the vagus nerve orgasm, nipple and other body stimulation, full body caressing, imagining pleasure and fantasies, erotic self hypnosis, forced moaning... that just might help get your sessions into warp speed.

@divine_o Interesting enough I have began the path of ALESS.  My thought is my ALESS sessions can help me discover new sensations that could spill over into an aneros session.  In fact, at times an ALESS session gives more pleasure (Even though I never reach a pinnacle).  Either way, I enjoy both types of sessions regardless of the outcome or lack there of.