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09/08/2015 10:17 am
This is a phrase i am seemingly using more and more in threads on this forum, a phrase that might not make sense but is a perfect description of what seems to be the case for my journey and perhaps you, dear reader.
Have you had sessions in your journey, perhaps weeks or months on end where it did not matter what device, what position or what mental thought processes used, you were always guaranteed response on a level that was notable and highly pleasurable?
This is what has happened to me over this last year. It is very much an up and down experience, mostly however i experience the latter... 'the nothing' or the bare minimum of response, comparatively speaking.
This is really the only difference between those that experience really intense, wonderful experiences and those that do not, they have this ability to put a device in and have it work its magic the majority of the time. I find that no device works more than a handful of times before becoming useless for many weeks if not ever again. Sometimes my prostate will only respond for 5 minutes, usually just after insertion before completely shutting down, the session can occasionally limp on but its never as great as it is in those initial minutes. Then there are days i can go beyond those 5 minutes, go beyond the 'barrier' but there doesn't seem to be any formulae or stipulations that dictate this, nothing seems repeatable.
It causes great stress when we cannot understand this. But then there are days where it feels like I'm on the path to a heavenly goal, even experiencing orgasms out of session every day without fail and then for it stop and never return. It feels as though it is ripped from you, it can be awful.
Right now no device seems to do anything for me, no position works and no mental thought processes seem to be effective. I also feel generally much less aroused of late and I feel the aneros is part of that reason.
I am close to giving up, even in spite of those magical days i once experienced and that one day where i had a continuous aneros less orgasm, it was incredible. But the other side of the coin is that its now leaving me bereft and i am beginning to feel very jealous and angry at others that are not similarly effected. I may give it a few more goes and see if i can record any patterns.
-Sorena
09/08/2015 1:30 pm
I'm on a month (or more) of not having good sessions, to the point where I'm not even attempting anymore, I'm just taking a break. Stress ramped up at work, and my whole libido is shot. It sucks, but I don't think I can do anything about it, my body just doesn't want to play.
I think in a way, I just have to accept being the bitch in this relationship.
09/08/2015 1:42 pm
Have you had sessions in your journey, perhaps weeks or months on end where it did not matter what device, what position or what mental thought processes used, you were always guaranteed response on a level that was notable and highly pleasurable? ...there doesn't seem to be any formulae or stipulations that dictate this, nothing seems repeatable. It causes great stress when we cannot understand this. But then there are days where it feels like I'm on the path to a heavenly goal, even experiencing orgasms out of session every day without fail and then for it stop and never return. It feels as though it is ripped from you, it can be awful.Yes, this pattern has happened to me as well. When I first began my Aneros journey I was not aware of this phenomenon. I first read about it in the Male Cycles? thread, in the intervening years since that thread was posted I and many others have also become more aware of this cyclic nature. Unfortunately, it is not a predictable time schedule cycle and I don't know or understand the precise variables which influence its onset or waning, it is just an aspect I have come to accept as part of the Aneros journey.Right now no device seems to do anything for me, no position works and no mental thought processes seem to be effective. I also feel generally much less aroused of late and I feel the aneros is part of that reason. I am close to giving up, even in spite of those magical days i once experienced and that one day where i had a continuous aneros less orgasm, it was incredible. But the other side of the coin is that its now leaving me bereft and i am beginning to feel very jealous and angry at others that are not similarly effected. I may give it a few more goes and see if i can record any patterns.Patience and acceptance are necessary qualities to fully enjoy the journey you have embarked upon. I detect that you have allowed your ego to become too emotionally invested in controlling the progress of your journey thus far. It is pointless to rail against the unfathomable mysteries of our own bodies, additionally it is pointless to be envious, angry or jealous of others who do not experience the same swings of amplitude in the periods of their cycles. Accept who you are and your own uniqueness for what it is, optimize your environment for the times when your cycle is on the upswing and occupy your time elsewhere when the cycle is bottoming out. Perhaps it is time to re-read the "Just Let Go !" thread.
Good Vibes to You ! 
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09/08/2015 2:39 pm
I will @rumel, but i have as yet to figure out the cycle of when I'm ready again, it has been months thus far.
Trying to fight the jealousy but it appears its a part of who i am in general, and perhaps because I'm at a low point emotionally at the moment I find it even harder than usual. I need to at least take a break from these forums.
The ego taking over the sessions, perhaps you're right. I think though i was really enjoying myself, not expecting anything in any session and because it stopped suddenly then all subsequent sessions would cut off abruptly too that was the point i allowed it all to cave in on me. Hard to know which came first at times though.
-Sorena
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09/08/2015 3:39 pm
I often think that maybe my view of my progress is very, very wrong. For example if I'm getting a plateau at five minutes into a session maybe this is all I get, one orgasm (though a much less intense than I thought I would have orgasm)
Example here is this fella that has a few vids online, he seems to start his session, build to orgasm or super o and then things end and all usually within 10 mins or so
Eg:
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