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about crossing the line...that is a personal decision you have to make...if your beliefs are strong enough that u think that it is just very wrong...then i wouldn't go there..on the other hand...i'm sure you have been reading the forums here and your curiosity is that ...yess..there are alternatives for men to enjoy extreme pleasure other than regular male on female sex...

thanks for reply, your response was very helpfule. I realized i wrote something too personal and this is not the place...
thanks
tony

Hi Tony,

From the tone of your post, I get the impression you believe anal stimulation-play for pleasure is an activity “straight” men “should not” engage in. Quite frankly this is not true! It is really an individual choice of how you choose to pleasure your body, it is your choice for the method and means to accomplish that end. There is no “line” when it comes to sexuality, there is only a continuum of experiences from which you as an individual may enjoy. I suspect you are holding onto a number of sexual myths which are probably troubling you, very likely generated by locker room gossip or barroom bravado. I find it disheartening how old myths about how a “man should act” are still being foisted upon the male population by self proclaimed idiot leaders.

You have expressed a genuine conflict between what you have been taught to believe is appropriate male sexual behavior and your natural, true inner feelings to experiment and explore the range of sexuality within you. You are quite right that there are “many guys with similar issues”, but you don’t have to be one of them!

You do need to understand that to fully enjoy the experiences the Aneros makes possible, requires that you be able to accept this type of anal stimulation activity without mental reservations or conflicted feelings of appropriateness. If you have unresolved inner conflicts, it is highly unlikely you will achieve the heightened levels of pleasure, many men on this Forum have reported.

You also need to understand it may take a relatively long learning period before significant results are achieved, patience is a must! Your choice of the SGX model should work just fine for learning purposes, given your physical stature, but before you go and purchase it, I hope you can resolve the internal conflict you are obviously anguishing about. Please understand there is absolutely no reason to be ashamed of this activity as it is no one’s business but your own. I encourage you to follow up on the PM I sent you before making this purchase.

if you decide to explore this area...not only with the aneros i would recommend getting one or two other sex toys to help u get used to enjoying anal stimulation...it's not gay..repeat...what u enjoy by yourself is your own business...

myself...out of curiosity...after getting married and luckily having an open minded wife that wanted to get toys that mainly i used on her...i gave in to my urges of what does it feel like to be fucked...no way in hell would i have sex with another guy but i just wanted to experience it...

well...trying it solo..i found that i do enjoy it...i let her in on my secret..while we we're both pretty buzzed on a sat. night..and to my surprise she wasn't freaked out but intrigued...

this led to us going to bed and her using one of her vibes in me while giving me a blow-job...best ever..lol...if you can push the negative thoughts aside and decide ...hey..this is my body and i want to explore what sexual feelings i can experience...no one knows what your doing but you...enjoy yourself and to hell with what anyone else thinks...