Refractory period, recovering anus or digestive issue?

Do you take any supplements? I stopped taking horse chestnut because of rectal burning. Do you eat spicy food? Are you using an appropriate lube? Hemorrhoids? Fissure? Finger induced injury?

Happy for your giving your partner an assgasm!

There may be fissures as well, but that doesn’t feel related to the problem. It could definitely be food, but I’m unsure what. I’ve cut out almost all spicy food because of my acid reflux. I’m using the same lube as before, and I don’t think it’s hemorrhoids. This happens periodically, and I can’t pinpoint what i might be doing to cause it.

So if it was only after she fingered you, maybe she scratched you and it took time healing? Did she have fingernails or use a latex glove? Was there enough lube? fingernails would scratch the part you are describing if entering in the direction for a prostate massage. Personally I can't handle fingernails or even non covered fingers in general.

I can tell when I’m scratched. If anyone had the same sensation they’d know what I meant. Quite possible we didn’t use enough lube, but the consistency of the pattern makes me think it’s something else.

Yeah, no, it’s something beneath the skin.

Sound like she may have gave you a little scratch and you have an infection,lots of bacteria under fingernails.. Anus is a good place for bacteria to get a foothold. Why not just go see your dr?..

Nah, I know why you think that but this is the first time she was involved and it almost always follows my huge breakthrough orgasms. I can’t imagine I’m scratching myself every time.

Please keep us updated.

I have the same issue - yet more complications brought on by the trident series.

It’s depressing because last week I was having several aless orgasms a day but eventually my prostate just got exhausted.

With the Syn my prostate just got stronger and stronger.

I’m still very hopeful. Doing kegels and I get that buzzing feeling that leads to aless with contractions and visual stimuli.

I still think though of seeing a proctologist to see if it’s an infection, but I think it’s just exhaustion.

You mentioned antidepressants, that could be it. I used to be on Effexor XR years ago, and I remember being able to go for 45min without orgasm before I got worn out. It was frustrating for all involved. That changed when doc switched my scripts to Wellbutrin.

It must just be exhaustion then, but I’ve been super o-less for over a month now because of it. Kind of bumming me out. It always comes back, but I’d really like to be more consistent.