Reflections and Questions from a New User

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Are the contractions I am doing detrimental to my rewiring, given that they generate pleasure mostly in the penis and feel similar to the PONR?

IMHO, No they are definitely not detrimental, strong pelvic floor muscles will only enhance the pleasure of your orgasms.

Could the PONR sensation I am feeling in my penis during manual contractions be the buildup to a dry-O?

Yes, it could be but don't expect it to be. Your Aneros journey is going to introduce you to a whole range of new sensations and as your experience grows the character of those sensations is likely to change. This is often reflected in reports that men's sessions keep getting better and better as they experience the changes in the quality of their physical responses.

Do your dry-O's feel like traditional ejaculatory orgasms, minus the wetness?

Some men do report a remarkable similarity, in my own case, the sensation of dry-O's is distinctly different.

Should I omit nipple stimulation given that it tends to generate strong pleasure in regions other than my prostate, which can be distracting?

Most users attest to the positive reinforcement of their arousal from nipple stimulation, thus helping them generate prostate orgasms. However, if you find it distracting you might want to restrict such stimulation to pre-insertion time of a session.
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Hello fellow Aneros users,

- Could the PONR sensation I am feeling in my penis during manual contractions be the buildup to a dry-O?
- Do your dry-O's feel like traditional ejaculatory orgasms, minus the wetness?

Anything can be a buildup to a dry O. Roll with it if it feels good. But be wary of clenching too hard: you will know if you go too hard for your body, but for me and others on the forum, more extreme clenching is counter-productive. For me the best clenches are between 0-50%, whatever that means. And I feel a lot in my penis as well.

I would say avoid masturbating after, to let your pleasure build up over several days. That helped me in the beginning.

Like @rumel, for me dry-O's don't necessarily feel like ejaculatory orgasms. I have had some similar ones, sure, but the majority are drastically different, both in location intensity, duration, and quality. Actually more I have experience with aneros, more my ejaculatory orgasms feel like PROSTATE orgasms.

Thanks to both of you for the feedback ! I appreciate the welcome and suggestions. Looking forward to continuing the journey !

That was a great post. I'm fairly new here but here's a few suggestions:

Perhaps take your sessions up to 120 - 150 minutes. A little more time might yield more results. I spent nearly five hours during my first few sessions. The beginning of them sounded much like what you described. As I get more experienced, I am generally able to bring myself to orgasms much sooner into a session as long as I am focused and generally relaxed.

Personally, I think that nipple stimulation is great and is something that has only got better with my sessions. Since starting with aneros, I'm now able to have nipple orgasms. I think that they become much more sensitive for many as part of the rewiring process. If it feels good, you are on to something.

I hope that this helps. Relaxation, patience and time. Good luck and let us know how it works out.

Always enjoy reading posts from those beginning their new journey! Everyone experiences different paths to the ultimate experience but some great advice from AmazingAneros at the end of his post! Personally nipple stimulation as elevated my experience to a greater level!

Hey do you mean the syn trident? I just purchased one myself today it’s still in the mail. Starting off I probably won’t do it for over an hour probably just about 10 mins starting as a beginner. But I’m guessing to have good sessions I should squeeze and relax my anus continuously? I haven’t seen much regarding how to use. I assume it’s pretty simple?

Thanks for the additional tips ! I will try to just go with what feels good rather than handcuffing myself by overthinking the process. However, as a hyper analytical person this is sometimes easier said than done.

Hey do you mean the syn trident? I just purchased one myself today it’s still in the mail. Starting off I probably won’t do it for over an hour probably just about 10 mins starting as a beginner. But I’m guessing to have good sessions I should squeeze and relax my anus continuously? I haven’t seen much regarding how to use. I assume it’s pretty simple?

Yes, I got the Helix Syn Trident. As far as how to use it, I think you'll find it to be quite intuitive. I contract and relax my anus/PC muscles continuously throughout the session once my relaxation period is finished. You'll feel the device move as you contract. However it seems that others are able to have great sessions by just staying relaxed the entire time.