So some of you know me on here and I have made extreme progress and found myself at a place i was finally happy with. But recently I relocated because i lost my job and moved in with my inlaws in texas. 1100 miles away from where i use to live. It was stressful at first but i have yet to find a job to move out. I have had maybe 3 sessions, everyone but my wife was out of the house. I still cant seem to find that special place i use too. Is there any advice anyone can give me to break this cycle? I seem so lost, i havent changed my routine and i havent changed how i do my sessions but still cant seem to find myself where i need to be.
Give it time man,you’ve had a hard time,still are if you’ve not found a job. And you upped and moved 1100 miles. You know this game,unsettled mind is disastrous,it’ll pick up again when the time is right. Hey and someone’s else’s house is bound to have an effect,your own place is your own place,maybe in the back of your mind your worried case someone comes home. Or that if they find out you have to face them all the time,i wouldn’t like to live with my in-laws.
...recently I relocated because i lost my job and moved in with my inlaws in texas. 1100 miles away from where i use to live.
Wow, dude, you got hit with a triple whammy! I'm sorry to hear of your plight. Losing a job is a blow to one's confidence and psyche. Adding to that having to move far away from your friends and familiar environs only compounds the sense of loss. But to then add the indignity of being humbled to live with your in-laws only adds humility and stress to what you are enduring. It is hardly any wonder you are having difficulty reaching the level of peace and security necessary to have successful Anerosessions.
Is there any advice anyone can give me to break this cycle? I seem so lost,...
You've received quite a psychic blow my fellow traveler. I wish I could offer you a quick solution but alas I think it is going to take some time for you to re-establish your self confidence and get back to the healthy positive mental attitude necessary to complement your body's ability to perform. I think remembering some of the basic tenets of Aneros practice may help, have no expectations, relax and gratefully accept what your body gives you. As you get your life back into normalcy with a job and your own domicile I believe your body will rejoice and reward you with pleasure in full measure again.
Good Vibes to You !
Sorry to hear Qwerty. I am sure as your situation improves your results will too. This is an important reminder for all of us that a healthy body and healthy state of mind are necessary for maximum results. I am sure things will improve for you.
Thank you everyone, im going back to basics and with my inlaws leaving for a week im hoping i can get back into that headspace!