Hi guys,
I've decided to quit porn and stop masturbating via traditional method. If I ever ejaculate, it would be with the help of aneros or another anal toy. There wasn't strong motivation for this, I just didn't feel like watching porn anymore, so I thought why not do semen retention too.
But the thing is, I am no longer horny at all. I get a few good waves during my sessions, but I don't get nice fantasies in my head that used to happen sometimes. In my sessions I don't really get erections or precum anymore. It's gotten quite boring. It's been 12 days and it feels like I could go like this forever. I've tried semen retention before, and could barely go 7 days before exploding.
Just interested what you guys think.
OP you can always abstain from porn but not from pleasuring yourself via your penis. I actually got more invested in self pleasuring and focusing on my own pleasure and stimulation and sensations in my body after I quit jerking aimlessly to porn, and watching porn when I wasn't jerking it. Self pleasuring (I try not to say "masturbation" as it means "self polluting" and I don't say "fap" either) became more personal and more intense for me about 30-45 days after I quit porn. It was like I wasn't feeling myself for real, just working my erection as I felt things in my mind from the screen. When its just me and my cock its like a whole new world and self pleasuring feels so good, and its so rewarding.